Stella Reddy's Story of Hope

(8) 7 Signs You’ve Finally Defeated a Narcissist Without Even Realizing It | Carl Jung – YouTube

Drawing from the powerful insights in the video, I see so many parallels with my own healing journey, which I share openly on stellareddy.xyz. My experiences with narcissistic abuse and cyberbullying, especially from toxic tenants since August 2016, have taught me that true victory comes not from confrontation, but from reclaiming my own peace and psychological freedom.

Here’s how I recognize the seven signs of defeating a narcissist in my own life:

1. My Silence Speaks Volumes
   I’ve learned that when I stopped reacting to narcissistic provocation, my silence became unsettling for those who once sought to control me. This detachment, which I discuss in my healing journey, is a sign of my growing strength.

2. Supporters Drift Away
   As I set boundaries and refused to participate in drama, I noticed that the enablers -“flying monkeys”- who once supported the narcissist began to see the truth. This collective awakening is something I’ve witnessed firsthand, and it’s empowering to watch others recognize the reality of the situation.

3. Imitation Without Substance
   I’ve seen narcissists try to mimic my healing and growth, but their efforts lack authenticity. On my site, I share how genuine self-improvement can’t be faked, and that my freedom is something they can never truly replicate.

4. Manipulation No Longer Works
   Attempts to draw me back in with more threats or guilt-trips have lost their power. I feel nothing—no anger or hope—which shows that I’ve achieved real psychological immunity. This is a crucial milestone in my recovery, as I describe in my posts on emotional empowerment.

5. They Become Irrelevant
   There came a point when the narcissist simply faded from my mind. I don’t avoid them; I just don’t think about them much anymore, just the tactics they showed me. This psychological invisibility is a sign that I’ve truly moved on, something I reflect on throughout my site.

6. Their Smear Campaigns Fall Flat
   Even when attempts were made to ruin my reputation online, especially through cyberbullying on 7 websites, these efforts became nothing more than background noise. As I healed, others stopped believing the lies, and the drama lost its impact, which I detail in my story. 

7. Their Power Disappears
   Ultimately, when I reclaimed my voice and well-being, the narcissist’s influence over me collapsed. My healing exposed their emptiness—not out of revenge, but as a natural result of my growth and self-empowerment. Their toxic words have lost their power over my emotions as I now accept they are nobodies trying desperately to become somebodies.

For me, defeating a narcissist wasn’t about fighting back, but about achieving psychological sovereignty and authentic healing. I focused on myself, and my healing started. If you’re interested in learning more about my journey and the strategies I used to reclaim my life, I invite you to explore stellareddy.xyz for more on healing from complex trauma and emotional abuse. You are also welcome to contact me with any questions you might have.