I recognize how significant this document is to my story about experiencing toxic abuse in the workplace, so I want to share it here. I had it on my previous content, and I have found people are looking for it.
This is my edited version, where I have removed any identifying names, of the “statement of facts” that the Toxic Tenant Bullies submitted to Human Rights as part of their applications against me back in June 2018. They also published a similar version, with some changes, on their now-deleted domain at https://socialjusticetribunalsontario.ca/timeline-of-facts-and-events-1/, which was taken down in June 2022.
As I went through this document, I found it filled with what I can only describe as word salad—it’s overly detailed and confusing, to the point that trying to make sense of it becomes overwhelming. In fact, the sheer amount of unnecessary detail makes it even harder to understand, and I still find myself confused by it at times. This is the stuff I had to deal with from them. No wonder I got so messed up!
Why Sharing My Story of Abuse Is So Important
Opening up about what I experienced helps me take back control of my narrative. Speaking out allows me to move from feeling powerless and silenced to feeling more empowered and validated in my experiences. I was told way too often to “stay quiet” and “let it go” after all this started in August 2016 by employers, friends, and even some family members! I refuse to stay quiet anymore.
Promoting Healing and Self-Understanding: Sharing my story is an important part of my healing process. Expressing my emotions, struggles, and progress helps me process the trauma, recognize my feelings as valid, and gain greater self-understanding. It’s an opportunity to turn pain into growth and self-compassion. I made mistakes in the beginning, as I was reacting from emotional pain, toxic shame, and embarrassment for things I didn’t do.
Reducing Isolation: When I share my story, I connect with others who have gone through similar challenges. This sense of community reminds me that I am not alone in my experiences. Hearing from and relating to others can comfort, strengthen, and reduce feelings of isolation. I have met so many people the past 9 years who have suffered similar stories, and I learned from them how to respond instead of reacting.
Raising Awareness and Educating Others: By making my experiences public, I raise awareness about the realities of abuse and bullying. It is so important to understand the many dynamics these toxic people employ. My story helps others recognize signs of toxic behaviour, challenges harmful stereotypes, and educates people about the impact these experiences can have. The smear campaigns and doxxing, the manipulations and gaslighting, can be so detrimental to your mental health.
Encouraging Others to Speak Up: When I am open about my journey, I hope it can encourage others to find the courage to tell their stories, too. Knowing someone else has navigated similar struggles can inspire hope and empowerment in people who may still be suffering in silence. It is the silence that toxic bullies rely on for them to continue their torment, and so we should be very loud over the behaviours we see to protect others. I hope that my story will help other targets of these same bullies I had.
Advocating for Change: Personal stories are powerful tools for advocacy. My openness can contribute to important conversations about mental health, workplace wellbeing, and support for victims, potentially leading to broader social and systemic change. I have no shame over my mental health struggles, and neither should anyone else. I write to government officials all the time, asking for more Laws in our Canadian Criminal Code to cover Adult Bullying and the Doxxing they do online, all out of spite and looking for revenge.
Finding Strength in Vulnerability: Expressing my vulnerability does not make me weaker—it gives me strength. Each time I honestly share my pain, I reinforce my resilience and demonstrate that recovery and growth are possible, even after trauma.
Sharing my story transforms a difficult and painful chapter of my life into a source of empowerment, connection, and advocacy. It enables healing for myself and others, builds community, and brings awareness to issues that need to be addressed. Adults who bully others should be held to account for their patterns of behaviour!
This document represents the beginning of the nightmare I experienced, and it is confusing to read. If anyone has any questions, feel free to ask. My email is sredd4848@gmail.com. The words contained in this document lay out their many false allegations they spread about me online for almost 9 years. I also have all the attachments they sent that you can request to see.