A narcissistic smear campaign is a form of psychological manipulation and abuse used by narcissists to discredit, devalue, and ultimately destroy an individual’s reputation.
March 26, 2025 Update!
Stellareddy.com has been suspended once again on March 14, 2025! The free speech hosting, cybercastco.com, has expired, and the owners of this domain haven’t renewed it. The domain registration is set to expire on April 21, 2025, so we will see. Wow, almost 6 years for this domain… lol
Smear campaigns are created to disrupt someone else’s professional and personal life, as noted in the quote above, but sometimes it doesn’t work. They tried to divide me from my family, from my friends, and even tried to break up my marriage by implying one of us was “cheating”. The patterns of behaviour I saw from them were terrible since August 2016. I am ecstatic to say it is finally coming to an end!
My worst fear from this situation was having strangers come at me due to their allegations online in the content on all these sites, and it didn’t happen. I also feared that the contents would affect my hubby’s professional life, and it did not. I didn’t mind as I am retired! My hubby has been in the same job for almost 5 years with no issues. After all this time, I am confident that nothing more will come from these toxic tenants and their false claims. They did all they could to ruin me for the past 9 years, and they have clearly failed.
Everyone I have shared my story with over the years has shown me empathy, compassion, and consideration, including the Police here and in Ontario. I spent the past few years slowly regulating my nervous system with therapy, including exposure therapy. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) was also a great help for me. I have read various articles, including on Psychology Today. There is a lot of help online, including other people’s stories on WordPress.
Time for me to change my patterns of behaviour and find more interesting things to write about!
Hello and welcome!!
For many years, I poured my energy into documenting and discussing the cyberbullying and smear campaign I endured from a former tenant online since 2017. While a necessary part of my healing journey, it also meant I was stuck reliving painful memories and negative experiences. So when my WordPress site had technical issues recently, I took it as a sign to start fresh.
It’s been over 4 years now since I started sharing my Story of being cyberbullied by past Tenants from a workplace, and in that time, I’ve come so far in my personal growth and mental wellbeing. I no longer feel defined by what others do or say about me. Their actions no longer have power over my present happiness.
Karma has a way of unfolding in its own time, so I’m at peace knowing the truth of what happened has come out. For now, I choose to direct my energy into living fully in the present. I’ve let go of worrying about others’ perceptions or attempts to distort reality. I know my story, my truth is solid within myself, and that’s enough.
If engaging in constant attacks grants purpose to some, that is for their journey alone. All I wish is that someday, they too may find freedom and inner peace through letting go of past pains. For now, my story moves forward in a spirit of gratitude, compassion and living fully in the present moment.
The Facts
The Tenants lost the eviction in October 2017 for interference with the Landlords interests by persistently refusing access for repairs and created 859kennedyroad.com in November 2017. (This site is now no longer registered by them.)
They lost the Appeal in April 2019 and made stellareddy.com with the rest that followed…davidstrashin.com, sjtomemberkevinlundy.com, sjtomembervandanapatel.com and socialjusticetribunals.ca. stellareddy.com was recently suspended by the free speech hosting on March 14, 2025. davidstrashin.com is still registered but is currently redirected to an Amazon page, and the rest are no longer registered for use. Hopefully, these last 2 domains will expire next month.
They walked away from HRTO in January 2020 and made another site, socialjusticetribunals.ca in June 2020. (this domain was cancelled in June 2022.)
I moved away and left Ontario in 2020 and they made lorriereddy.com in July 2022 to follow me, once they found my new Facebook and where I was living.
I received a threatening email from them on June 27, 2022, which I took to my local Police with evidence of this new domain. After an investigation over a few months, they found no criminal charges could be laid, but I am content that now the Police are aware of the situation. As far as I know, their antics online are being monitored.
All were made in attempts to play the victim and discredit everyone else. That is what a Smear Campaign is!
Legal Actions
- Landlord and Tenant Board Eviction Document released October 3, 2017: TEL-83876-17 (Re), 2017 CanLII 84930 (ON LTB) https://canlii.ca/t/hpbxw
- Divisional Court Document Released April 15, 2019: https://canlii.ca/t/hzs47
- Human Rights Tribunal of Ontario was released on January 22, 2020, after KR & AR didn’t show up for the Hearing by Teleconference: ER v. Liscio, 2020 HRTO 73 (CanLII), <https://canlii.ca/t/j4z4w>, ER v. Liscio, 2019 HRTO 415 (CanLII), <https://canlii.ca/t/hz14r>
They are trying to turn people against me and others by using the personal assumption’s they have made, not by using facts they could prove.
The only reason I can see for keeping those websites online after they lost all their legal actions is to affect my Mental Health and to create fear in me of people of my Community turning on me, as the words in their sites imply.
While it was scary for a bit, once my common sense kicked in, I came to see that they do not influence anybody. They are nobodies, writing as nobodies, so how can their words have any influence on anyone?
Stella Reddy has assumed this new identity in her attempt to hide her racist past and behavior while living in Ontario at 859 Kennedy Road from the local people in her own community in Newfoundland.
It is clear that she knows what she did was wrong as she goes under the new name of Lorrie Reddy and not Stella Reddy. Trying to hide in plain site, trying to avoid being associated with her racist behavior, actions, and words.
previous content of lorriereddy.com
He wants to affect my Mental Health and his own words tell you this!
Will she stop? I hope not.
Why? Because we really enjoy letting her create these huge sites, with endless amounts of lies, boo hoo stories, and content and then having them exposed for what they are and having them removed. It seriously brings us joy on an already great day.
Will Stella Reddy search for us again? YEAP!!! But that is okay, we enjoy this game of cat and mouse with her and her husband. We enjoy owning Stella Reddy and having them devote their entire days, weeks, months, years, and literally their lives to us.
Stella Reddy goes to bed thinking about us, and wakes up thinking about us, and that is good enough for us.
It does not matter; the point here is that Stella Reddy is in a continuous losing battle because, in the end, everyone who searches her name from friends, family, or future or current employers and co-workers, will all see the truth about her and will deal with her accordingly.
We have again renewed them for another year. And to help Stella Reddy put her mind at ease, we also renewed this domain stellareddy.com for another year, so now it will not expire until April 20, 2023.
So with that said, Happy Anniversary, Stella Reddy; we have many, many more years together in this journey to expose your racist behavior to as many individuals as we can. Because remember, racist people like you need to be “called out.”
Previous content of stellareddy.com
Have you ever experienced a smear campaign? The pain and confusion it inflicts can be unimaginable. I never thought I would find myself engulfed in such a situation until toxic tenants in my last place of work orchestrated a relentless cyberbullying campaign against me in August 2016. Their toxic traits, including gaslighting, manipulation, triangulation, and word salad, were aimed at destroying my reputation and mental well-being.
In this personal story, I want to share how I emerged from this dark time, regained my mental health, and discovered personal growth amidst the chaos.
It all started innocently enough when I moved into the apartment building to start a new job at the end of June 2016. Little did I know that some of these tenants harboured a penchant for manipulation and deceit. Slowly, their toxic traits began to reveal themselves, and their true intentions to undermine and control became apparent. The smearing began, only on the property then. They questioned everything, especially the changes I had to make in procedures.
Cyberbullying can be devastating, leaving deep emotional scars that are hard to heal. False allegations and fabricated stories filled my inbox and social media feeds, causing immense stress and anxiety. The constant attacks on my character and reputation left me questioning my worth and sanity. But I refused to let these toxic individuals define who I was. I needed to find a way to recover my mental health and regain control of my own narrative.
Throughout the smear campaign, gaslighting and manipulation were their weapons of choice. They would twist my words, often leading to heated arguments and misunderstandings. It took time, but I started recognizing their tactics and understood that they revelled in creating chaos and confusion. Armed with this realization, I vowed to step out of their carefully woven web.
Triangulation and word salad were two other toxic traits exhibited by these tenants during the smear campaign. They would involve third parties, painting a false narrative and creating divisions within my support system.
Additionally, they would bombard me with nonsensical and confusing statements, making it exceedingly difficult to counter their claims effectively. However, with time, research, and building a small circle of trusted allies, I learned to identify and filter out their manipulations.
Recovering my mental health became my priority. I started therapy sessions, which provided a safe space for me to share my experiences and process my emotions. Self-care activities, such as mindfulness, and indulging in hobbies I loved, played a crucial role in my healing journey. It was important to realize that my mental health mattered and that by focusing on it, I could regain stability and strength.
As I gradually healed, I discovered the silver lining in this tumultuous experience – personal growth. It pushed me to reassess my values, boundaries, and personal relationships. It taught me resilience and the importance of surrounding myself with positive and supportive individuals. The smear campaign forced me to confront my own insecurities and emerge stronger than ever before. By embracing the lessons learned, I was able to transform the negativity into an opportunity for personal growth.
Experiencing a smear campaign orchestrated by toxic individuals is an incredibly challenging ordeal. However, it does not define who you are or what you can become. My personal story showcases the road to emotional recovery and finding personal growth even in the darkest of times. By recognizing the toxic traits, recovering mental health, and embracing personal growth opportunities, I was able to emerge from the chaos stronger and more resilient than ever before.
Remember, you have the power to reclaim your narrative and forge a brighter future!
They’re always going to say something isn’t true. They’re always going to accuse me of doing something or being something, the more outrageous the better. They want my outrage. They want my disbelief. They want me to be appalled at what they’re saying and then I get caught in self-defence, they want me to react. Then they took that reaction and made a new post where they tried to gaslight it away...
Doxxing is a form of online harassment that means publicly exposing someone’s real name, address, job, or other identifying info without a victim’s consent. The aim of doxxing is to humiliate, bully, harass, or otherwise harm a victim.