August 14, 2026 Ramblings

Cleaning out my mother-in-law’s home has been physically and emotionally exhausting. As we finish the estate, save treasured belongings and her huge record collection, I reflect on letting go, the lessons I’ve learned, and finally taking some much-needed time to rest.

July 17, 2026 Ramblings

A reflective weekly update covering health appointments, diabetes management, stress from estate delays, quiet summer days in St. John’s, and the small steps toward better self‑care and balance.

Ruminating Thoughts From Gaslighting*Repost*

Yes, ruminating serves a purpose. I have learned that ruminating comes from gaslighting, as your brain is trying desperately to make sense of and learn from what happened.

The Content of Stellareddy.com “Repost”

I have learned quite a bit about Gaslighting and came to see the distortions done by the Toxic Tenants I had. You can see it in the content they created on stellareddy.com, rooseveltskerrit.com/, districtschoolboardofniagara.com, and even in their koryread.com.

When Bullies Deny Accountability: How Toxic Rhetoric Escalates to Discredit the Target

When bullies refuse empathy and accountability, they double down — rewriting reality to label victims as unstable. This post exposes the toxic pattern and reclaims the truth with emotional clarity and resilience.

Video: “People Who’ve Been Through Hell and Back Always Show These 11 Signs” By Inspire & Thrive

The video emphasizes these traits as marks of a survivor, not as scars but as evidence of incredible strength and growth. I recognize these signs in myself and while I still struggle with a couple of them, it makes me feel content knowing that I am growing as a person.