Every time I read this “excerpt” these days I can’t help but laugh. These paragraphs were what the toxic tenants from my last place of work used to claim that I said racist things to them not realizing that eventually, it would be exposed as the lie it was.
These words used to affect me, severely, but since I learned what their behaviours mean, it does no longer. They wanted me scared and afraid of the possible repercussions of their lies, especially of allegations of racism. I realized they thought they could create a he said/she said situation by creating such detailed lies and I would have nothing to defend myself.
What they didn’t know was that I had a record of where I was for every day in June 2016. Yes, I felt compelled to defend myself against their many lies and I retained as much documentation as I could to do so.
Don’t you love Google and its tracking? As I was never given a date that they claimed this meeting occurred, I sent my history for every day of June 2016 to the Human Rights Tribunal of Ontario (HRTO) in my reply. I even printed out my banking info for that month though I didn’t send it, I had it in case I needed it. All my records for June 2016 prove I was never at that restaurant, not even near it, so this claim of meeting me there is a lie.
I knew that once I showed this meeting was a lie, the rest of their allegations would be accepted as lies too. There were no “forged and altered documents”, otherwise they would have shown them. There was no “illegal” eviction either, the reason given was very clear.
This meeting at this restaurant didn’t happen. If it did, you would think that these tenants would have brought it up long before they did in June 2018 in this document, and later online. I heard various comments at the Landlord and Tenant Board Hearing in Sept 2017, but not in such detail as they have here.
These prior Tenants from my last workplace in Ontario never mentioned this prior meeting they claimed we had at no time before the hearing held with the Landlord and Tenant Board (LTB) in September 2017.
Not one letter ever mentioned this meeting they say we had at this restaurant, not even the very first letter I got that they kindly shared online.
https://stellareddy.com/e41-42-43-44-45-46-47-48-49/
They didn’t mention this fake prior meeting in their meeting with me on July 5 2016 to pay the balance of their rent, and you would have thought they would have. You can see in their content posted that there is no mention of it!
They didn’t even mention this fake prior meeting either when KR came to the office with printed documents on BBQs, nor was it mentioned when they came to pay rent in August 2016 where I refused to take it. At no time during any interaction in person or by letter, did these tenants ever mention any prior meeting during that first year, as they hadn’t made it up yet.
https://stellareddy.com/statement-of-facts-part-2-9/
This claim of a prior meeting was a lie they created to have something against me when they went before the LTB and they used a restaurant that had long been closed down so I couldn’t investigate. They wanted me to have no way to question their allegations, but they didn’t know I had my own records that showed where I was every day that month.
When you are being gaslighted, especially in legal applications, you tend to do all you can to disprove the lies being told about you, in any way you can. I did that.
Situations like this bring out so many things, but the most important is being true to yourself and knowing who you are, deep inside. 8 years later I still know this prior meeting they wrote about never happened no matter how they try to gaslight me into thinking otherwise.
If you are ever caught in a Smear Campaign, know that in time the lies will be exposed. Nothing lasts forever! In the meantime, learn all you can about toxic traits and narcissism, as this knowledge will help save your sanity, as it did for me! One day, you will see the lies these people tell and it will help you in your mental health recovery.
statement-of-facts-part-1-9/
In mid/late June 2016, the Applicant and her family attend the restaurant Dragon Handroll Buffet ( formerly known as Happy Panda Buffett ) which is located at the corner of Eglington and Brimley.
The family entered the restaurant and was told that they would have to wait about 5 minutes for a seat, as this was not a large restaurant and it was busy. The family decided that they would go outside and wait instead of standing in the small restaurant doorway.
As the family walked out the door, they passed a couple coming into the restaurant. The Applicants husband made a joke to the Applicant about the couple they just passed coming in that “ they looked like there from Hamilton. ”
As the Applicants husband was born and raised in Hamilton until 2006, when they finally moved to Toronto. The Applicant and her husband had an ongoing joke that people who dress bummy/sloppy remind them of people from Hamilton.
After the family stood outside for a couple of minutes, the same bummy/sloppy couple that was entering the restaurant when they were leaving came out and approached the family.
The female of the couple asked the Applicant “ Do you live on Kennedy Road? ” The Applicants husband replied “ Why? ” as he began to wonder what was going on and why was this strange woman asking them where they lived?
The female stated that her name was “ Stella “ ( Reddy ) and that the gentleman with her was her “ husband, R “, and that they were the “ new supers of 859 Kennedy Road. ”
The Applicant replied that she had “ not heard anything about new supers taking over the building. ”
Alto Properties Inc. employee Stella Reddy stated “ I was at the building earlier this week, and I seen you and your family leaving “ and that she remembered them “ because of your children. ”
Alto Properties Inc. employee Stella Reddy asked the Applicant and her husband “ Are these your Mulatto children? ”
The Applicants husband looked at Alto Properties Inc. employee Stella Reddy with disbelief and confusion as he could not believe what he just heard. Alto Properties Inc. employee Stella Reddy used the word “ Mulatto ” when referring to his children.
The Applicants husband understood very well what the prejudice and derogatory slur “ Mulatto “ meant. It is a derogatory term that came into use during slavery when referring to the bi-racial offspring of African slaves and most often their white European slave masters.
As the Applicants husband grew up his whole life with what Alto Properties Inc. employee Stella Reddy called a
“ Mulatto ” bother from his mom’s previous relationship before marrying his dad.
The Applicants husband had a very clear understand of what was acceptable and what was not acceptable when trying to identify or label black or bi-racial people or children in local society.
His bi-racial bother faced a lot of racial issues and teasing while growing up, being that he was a bi-racial child living in an all-white home. Society in the 70’s and 80’s was not always as understanding or forgiving as it has somewhat become today.
The Applicants husband was going to address Alto Properties Inc. employee Stella Reddy about her prejudice and derogatory “ Mulatto ” slur, but when he looked at his wife, she gave him – The Look – as to just leave it alone.
The Applicant replied “ Yes ” leaving out the prejudice and derogatory “ Mulatto ” slur.
Alto Properties Inc. employee Stella Reddy stated that “ They are beautiful looking. ”
Alto Properties Inc. employee Stella Reddy asked the Applicant “ Where are you from? ”
The Applicants husband was again going to address this question that was only direct towards the Applicant. But again she gave him – The Look – to just leave it alone.
The Applicants husband was not impressed with the line of questioning that Alto Properties Inc. employee Stella Reddy thought was acceptable. It was clear that an ignorant Alto Properties Inc. employee Stella Reddy believed that the Applicant could not have been born in Canada, and that she must have migrated from another country because of her skin tone. “ black ”
Alto Properties Inc. employee Stella Reddy clearly did not feel the need to ask the Applicants white husband where he was from as he was the same complexion as her.
At that point the Applicant replied “ I am from the Caribbean “ and left it at that. The Applicants husband took that moment to cut the conversation short stating “ we should head back inside to eat, “ and off they went.
Alto Properties Inc. employee Stella Reddy and her husband Alto Properties Inc. employee R never returned back inside the restaurant to eat after the Applicant and her family left and went back inside.
JULY 5, 2016
The next time the Applicant encountered Alto Properties Inc. employee Stella Reddy was on July 5, 2016 when Alto Properties Inc. employee Stella Reddy refused to take $121.00 cash from the Applicant for the remaining amount owed on her July rent.
Alto Properties Inc. employee Stella Reddy refused to take the Applicants difference in rent claiming that she was “ not comfortable ” with taking $121 in cash. The Applicant explained to Alto Properties Inc. employee Stella Reddy that she did not care if she was “ comfortable ” with the idea or not.
The Applicant explained that the she had been making monthly cash payment for the past 12 months without any problems, issues or objections from Alto Properties Inc. or Alto Properties Inc. employee Angie.
Eventually Alto Properties Inc. employee Stella Reddy had to give in and take the Applicants $121 cash payment as she unable to find any justifiable reason why previous Alto Properties Inc. employee Angie could take cash, but she ( Alto Properties Inc. employee Stella Reddy ) now could not.
Alto Properties Inc. employee Stella Reddy opened a draw in her desk and took out a receipt book and proceeded to supply the Applicant with a recipe for the $121 in cash for her July rent.
At that time Alto Properties Inc. employee Stella Reddy stated that the Applicant was “ either going to have to write checks or get money orders made in the future to pay your rent, starting next month. ( August 2016 )”