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Tag: Stella Reddy

December 11, 2025 Ramblings on Cognitive Dissonance

Discover how cognitive dissonance shaped my journey through gaslighting and smear campaigns. From toxic tenant lies to resilience and healing in Newfoundland, I share how reclaiming my voice turned discomfort into empowerment.

Guide to Spotting Toxic Traits That Works For Me

For nine years, toxic tenants spread false narratives about me online. This post shares all the toxic traits I was exposed to and l set out to educate myself on. All of these traits was shown on their site they made, stellareddy.com, which is now parked.

Friday November 28, 2025 Ramblings

Celebrate the weekend in Newfoundland with cozy holiday reflections, local traditions like mummering and Tibb’s Eve, and the resilience of community. From moose hunting season to Purity syrup for Santa, discover how culture, food, and festive spirit make the province shine bright during Christmas.

Word Salad: How I Learned to Recognize and Resist Toxic Written Communication

Discover how I learned to recognize and resist toxic written communication, known as “word salad.” Explore real-life experiences, signs of manipulation, and practical strategies to stay grounded, protect your mental health, and reclaim your voice.

When Bullies Deny Accountability: How Toxic Rhetoric Escalates to Discredit the Target

When bullies refuse empathy and accountability, they double down — rewriting reality to label victims as unstable. This post exposes the toxic pattern and reclaims the truth with emotional clarity and resilience.

Victims Are Not Unstable: Emotional Reactions as Resilience Against Bullying

Targets of bullying are often mislabeled as unstable, yet their emotional reactions—crying, yelling, withdrawing—are proof of resilience. This post reframes the narrative, exposing the bully’s lack of vulnerability, empathy, and accountability while celebrating the strength in survival.