August 14, 2026 Ramblings

Cleaning out my mother-in-law’s home has been physically and emotionally exhausting. As we finish the estate, save treasured belongings and her huge record collection, I reflect on letting go, the lessons I’ve learned, and finally taking some much-needed time to rest.

When the Body Learns to Live in Conflict

My reflective look at how prolonged conflict reshapes the body and mind, from protection to shutdown to release, and the clarity that emerges after survival. All I have learned, from lived experience.

Living Beyond Other People’s Perceptions

At the beginning of being bullied in the workplace by tenants online, I thought the way people saw me was something I had to manage. I tried to correct their assumptions, defend myself against their projections, and explain my intentions to people […]

Rebuilding Identity After Years of Workplace Misrepresentation

Learn how one individual overcame persistent false accusations and misrepresentation by reclaiming their story, focusing on facts, and growing stronger through self-reflection and resilience

Ruminating Thoughts From Gaslighting*Repost*

Yes, ruminating serves a purpose. I have learned that ruminating comes from gaslighting, as your brain is trying desperately to make sense of and learn from what happened.