My Entries
Poster: Sometimes…
Find peace by accepting that not every question has an answer and learning to let go of the need to always know why.
If You Are Going To Disrespect My Privacy, Don’t Expect Me To Respect You! * Repost*
An anonymous website was created on April 21, 2019, using my name, https://stellareddy.com, that shares hurtful opinions and one-sided speculation about my personal life without context.
Invalidation is Demoralizing *Repost*
Discover how I overcame years of online harassment and invalidation by recognizing toxic tactics, reclaiming my truth, and standing firmly in my identity.
Stella Reddy Got Her Groove Back! *Repost*
Going back through my site recently, cleaning things up, I stumbled across something I hadn’t looked at in a long time: the pages KR posted back in 2021 and 2022, where he gloated, threatened, and tried to tear me down. At the […]
Music: “If You Could Read My Mind” By Gordon Lightfoot
I’m sharing this beautiful song by Gordon Lightfoot, a true Canadian treasure and one of our most influential singer/songwriters. This one speaks of love, loss, and the quiet strength it takes to finally let go. Like so many of his songs, it […]
March 27, 2026 Ramblings
Discover reflections on life after retirement, embracing honesty, resilience, and meaningful moments with loved ones while finding peace in everyday routines.

Yes, ruminating serves a purpose. I have learned that ruminating comes from gaslighting, as your brain is trying desperately to make sense of and learn from what happened.
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