My Entries
Narcissists Need For Control & Getting Past It!
People who rely on control and manipulation often present themselves as helpful, caring, or invested in someone’s well‑being. But beneath that surface, there is usually an agenda
Share: Doctor Ramani
I am sure a lot of people have heard of the work of Dr. Ramani. She has many videos and even a Podcast! I want to share one of her videos that talks about the signs you’re healing from narcissistic relationships, no […]
What Healing Looks Like After Gaslighting
Back in August 2024, I was still writing about gaslighting from the inside of the nightmare. I was trying to understand why the tenants were still after me, to the point where they moved stellareddy.com to a free-speech host to keep their […]
Change Is the Doorway to Growth
So I’ve learned to let go — not of the truth, but of the version of myself who had to fight for it every day. I’ve learned to grow into the woman who no longer needs to defend her existence.
Video: “Marine Drive” by Meandering Newfoundlander
It’s a small slice of Newfoundland life, shared through motion, wind, and coastline views.
Poster: Don’t Pick Sides Until You Know the Full Story
Don’t pick sides until you know the full story.
Some people are really skilled at making others look bad.
Share: “Tired of People Not Life” By Inspire and Thrive
Watching this video helped me put words to something I lived through for years: I wasn’t tired of life — I was tired of the constant emotional strain of dealing with people who projected, demanded, and drained. This distinction matters.

When I look back at what I wrote on March 18, 2022, I can see so clearly now that this was the beginning where empowerment began to take root again. I was emotional, yes — but not because I was breaking down. […]
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