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Tag: healing journey

Ruminating Thoughts From Gaslighting By Toxic People *Repost*

Yes, ruminating serves a purpose. I have learned that ruminating comes from gaslighting, as your brain is trying desperately to make sense of and learn from what happened.

Stella Reddy Got Her Groove Back! *Repost*

Going back through my site recently, cleaning things up, I stumbled across something I hadn’t looked at in a long time: the pages KR posted back in 2021 and 2022, where he gloated, threatened, and tried to tear me down. At the […]

When Narcissists Rewrite Your Identity: How a Smear Campaign Tried to Erase Who I Am

For years, narcissistic tenants twisted the truth of their eviction into a smear campaign that painted me as the abuser instead of the target. Their lies tried to erase who I am and replace my story with their distortion—but they did not succeed.

When Bullies Deny Accountability: How Toxic Rhetoric Escalates to Discredit the Target

When bullies refuse empathy and accountability, they double down — rewriting reality to label victims as unstable. This post exposes the toxic pattern and reclaims the truth with emotional clarity and resilience.

“She’s Crazy” — The Weaponized Whisper Meant to Silence

Reclaiming my identity from toxic labels like “crazy” used by tenants in a 2019 smear campaign. This post shares my journey of healing, truth, and emotional resilience through storytelling and self-empowerment.

Video: “People Who’ve Been Through Hell and Back Always Show These 11 Signs” By Inspire & Thrive

The video emphasizes these traits as marks of a survivor, not as scars but as evidence of incredible strength and growth. I recognize these signs in myself and while I still struggle with a couple of them, it makes me feel content knowing that I am growing as a person.

What Healing Feels Like on Hard Days

Healing feels like reclaiming my story. It feels like laughing again. It feels like planning for summer and actually looking forward to it. It feels like knowing I deserve joy, even when the past tries to whisper otherwise.