Poster: Narcissists Don’t Want to Resolve Issues or Conflict
I have learned in my reading that narcissists often avoid resolving conflicts or addressing issues, as they prioritize their own needs and desires above others, even over their own family!
Their self-centred nature leads them to dismiss differing opinions and feelings, viewing them as threats. This refusal to engage in constructive dialogue can create a toxic environment, leaving others feeling unheard and undervalued.
Instead of seeking solutions, narcissists may resort to manipulation and gaslighting, further complicating relationships.
An example of this behaviour can be seen on this page of stellareddy.com:
https://stellareddy.com/fabricateidentities/
The words written below tell you their mentality, they are determined to misunderstand and there is nothing I can do to change that so why waste my time trying?
They are not worth the energy anymore for me to “dispute” their claims. I know they are lying, they make it obvious these days, and that is all that matters to me.
And this is a daily occurrence, revealing just a small fraction of Stella Reddy’s madness. It shows that while she is quick to bully others, she cannot handle being bullied herself and now feels powerless to stop it. As an unstable narcissist, Stella Reddy resorts to playing the victim through an imaginary third party. This is the kind of erratic behavior she has exhibited for years!
So when you deliberately go out of your way to evict a family with young children for no reason other than a Black woman standing her ground and challenging you over a simple rent issue, this is what you get. From the beginning, the racist and unstable Stella Reddy thought she could bully a racialized female. And when the female and her husband stood their ground and challenged her behaviour, she got her equally racist bosses, to eventually evict them.
The irony is that when the family finally moved, Stella Reddy was immediately fired and had no choice but to run back to Newfoundland because she couldn’t make it in the big city.
There’s a saying: one should be careful what you put out into the universe because you get back what you put out. Eight years later, the racist and bully Stella Reddy and her enabler husband Russell Reddy are sitting in their basement apartment, regretting the whole situation. This is why Stella Reddy continues to send these types of emails, begging for communication with the family. So sad, so very sad, but that’s karma for you!
Ultimately, their lack of empathy and unwillingness to compromise hinder genuine communication, making it difficult to achieve mutual understanding or resolution in conflicts.