Once you understand the dynamics of narcissism, you begin to see abusers for who they really are. By educating myself on toxic traits, through psychology articles, other people’s experiences, and therapy, I can no longer unsee these patterns of behaviour anymore.
This knowledge has been invaluable in helping me set boundaries with these types of individuals, now and in the future! It has also shown me how NOT to behave!
My personal experience has taught me that there is no justification good enough for a past tenant to create a domain in my name, StellaReddy.com, where they malign my reputation with their spiteful personal opinions.
They clearly harbour intense hatred toward me for doing my job and this is their way of seeking revenge. They have shown me their patterns of behaviour, online and off the past 8 years dealing with them.
When trying to overcome the severe Gaslighting they do to me, I focus only on the released legal decisions, shared below. While they try to portray themselves as innocent in all aspects, the legal decisions show they broke the rules of entry, which was the reason they were evicted, and it was upheld in Divisional Court.
When it came to Human Rights (HRTO) they applied for in June 2018 I stayed with the process, learned quite a bit, and followed the Adjudicator’s direction but in the end, the applicants didn’t.
After 19 months of such emotional upset, a summary hearing was scheduled via Teleconference for January 2020, but the applicants didn’t bother to show up so their applications were all dismissed as “abandoned”. Not attending the hearing showed me quite a bit about their behaviours as well.
Legal Actions. These facts are all I need!
- Landlord and Tenant Board Eviction Document released October 3, 2017: TEL-83876-17 (Re), 2017 CanLII 84930 (ON LTB) https://canlii.ca/t/hpbxw
- Divisional Court Document Released April 15, 2019: https://canlii.ca/t/hzs47
- Human Rights Tribunal of Ontario was Released on January 22, 2020, after KR & AR didn’t show up for the Hearing by Teleconference: ER v. Liscio, 2020 HRTO 73 (CanLII), <https://canlii.ca/t/j4z4w>, ER v. Liscio, 2019 HRTO 415 (CanLII), <https://canlii.ca/t/hz14r>
This practice of creating websites to target and defame someone is known as “doxxing,” and it is rapidly becoming illegal in many jurisdictions in the US and Canada. The past tenant who created this domain, and various other websites, had to resort to a “free speech” hosting company based in Iceland, as they were unable to find mainstream hosting providers willing to support this type of abusive and unethical behavior here.
It is deeply troubling to see how the toxic traits associated with narcissism, such as a lack of empathy, a sense of entitlement, and a willingness to abuse and manipulate others, can manifest in real-life scenarios. The impact of such behaviours on individuals, families, and communities is profoundly damaging.
I have spent almost 7 years now with stellareddy.com being online filled with the same malicious content and it is for my education that I can tolerate it better than I have in the past. The content on their sites has become very predictable and boring for me these days.
Moving forward, I will continue to educate myself on these issues and advocate for stronger legal protections against doxxing and other forms of online harassment. By raising awareness and standing up to abusive behaviour, I hope to empower others who may be facing similar challenges and work towards creating a more just and compassionate society.
I live in Hope, always!