Some days, I catch myself in patterns I didn’t choose—overthinking, people-pleasing, shutting down, or snapping at the world like it’s the enemy. It’s easy to feel broken when your nervous system is just trying to protect you. But this poster reminded me: these responses aren’t flaws. They’re survival.
FLIGHT looks like perfectionism and panic. I’ve lived there—running from stillness, afraid of what silence might say. I am learning to enjoy the silence… I enjoy my own company these days!
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Sometimes our minds get stuck asking ‘why’, but in life not everything has an answer.” This reflection captures the mental loop of overthinking and the anxious need for control. The post gently invites readers to release that grip and find peace—a soft counter to the flight response.
FIGHT shows up in control and anger. I’ve slammed doors and raised my voice, thinking it would make me feel safe. These days, I use my anger to show me what I need to still work on!
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I know what it’s like to be pushed toward retaliation—to feel the sting so deep you want to hit back just to prove you can.” This post is a raw, honest reckoning with the fight response. You name the urge, reflect on its cost, and choose a different path—modelling psychological courage and boundary-setting without bitterness.
FREEZE is the numbness, the indecision, the exhaustion. I’ve curled up in that cave, waiting for the storm to pass. I sat in my home, afraid of the World, but I have learned over the past few years not to let my fear and anxiety stop me!
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I’m real, I’m healing, and every step forward—even the wobbly ones—counts.” This line speaks to the freeze state—where movement feels hard, decisions feel heavy, and exhaustion lingers. Yet you validate the slow steps as progress, offering solidarity to others navigating the same terrain.
FAWN is the erasure of self. I’ve bent over backwards to keep the peace, even when it cost me my own voice. I stayed quiet for way too long to appease others. Not anymore, I now educate people on my experience and whether I am believed or not is not my problem. I know what I went through, and that is good for me.
I shared it with people in my life, and it helped quite a bit for them to understand me better!” This post reflects the fawn response—over-explaining, seeking approval, and emotional labor to maintain peace. But you also reclaim that act as advocacy, using education to assert your truth.
This poster doesn’t shame these responses—it names them. And in naming, there’s power. There’s healing.
If you see yourself in any of these, you’re not alone. You’re not dramatic. You’re not weak. You’re responding to pain the way your body learned to survive it. And now, maybe, you’re learning to live beyond it.
I’m learning too.
Let’s keep going.
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