The very first domain showed up 7 years ago on November 2, 2017, of 859kennedyroad.com. It is currently parked on GoDaddy and I noticed this morning it was renewed once again for another year.
Oh well…I have adapted to having these domains online and seeing it no longer bothers me as it did. The toxic tenant’s antics haven’t caused me any true hardship, only in my mind not in life, and I accept now it never will.
I have also come to accept that over time, people come to see the true colours of the toxic tenants who created this domain, with others like stellareddy.com and davidstrashin.com. I have watched these various domains come and go on the internet for 7 years, and their content did nothing. It is just the personal subjective opinion of a tenant looking for revenge after they were evicted for breaking the rules of entry. If I can see the toxicity they show, so can others.
I am truly tired of the situation, even writing about it, which is why I haven’t been. I lost interest as I have gained all the knowledge I need to know to protect myself. I laughed this morning when I saw the domain was renewed again for another year as I know nothing they do will ever get the satisfaction they looking for. As they say, once you heal, you want to move on to other things. Which is what I have been doing…My life has become very full these past months.
Once my fear disappeared to the point where I now feel comfortable in social situations again, I knew I would be okay. I come and go now with ease…
So below are some tips I found that helped me over the past 8 years from toxic tenants and their emotional abuse. I noted all these traits in the content of https://koryread.com, his political aspirations of becoming the next MP of St. Catherine’s ON, which is now also gone. It’s normal for these toxic tenants to quit when the going gets rough…I have seen it play out over the past few years.
Here are some tips for identifying potential narcissistic traits in others early in a relationship or interaction:
– Pay attention to talk vs. listening ratios. Narcissists tend to dominate conversations by frequently steering them back to themselves without showing interest in reciprocally learning about you.
– Note exaggeration and grandiosity. They may make improbably elaborate claims about accomplishments, status, wealth, intelligence, etc., without real evidence or corroboration.
– Watch for a sense of entitlement. People who act like they deserve special treatment or admiration do not have earned it through legitimate achievement or consideration for others.
– Lack of empathy is key. They are insensitive to your feelings and problems or act annoyed when the focus isn’t on them. Little care is shown for how actions impact others.
– Overly flashy or excessive in self-promotion through social media, displays of wealth etc. Always needing validation and attention.
– Criticism sends them into rage or retaliation rather than reflection. Disproportionate reactions to perceived ego threats.
– Hypocritical boundaries but lack thereof for you. Rules apply to others in their favor but they can violate boundaries without consequence.
– Idealize then devalue treatment. Will love bomb you with charm initially then suddenly turn cold if you disagree or don’t fulfill their needs 100%.
Being aware of these traits can help you identify potential narcissists sooner before you’re too enmeshed or invested. Paying attention to actions, not just words is key.
Here are some more subtle signs you may miss in the early stages of identifying a potential narcissist:
– Excessive flattery and compliments that seem over the top or meant to manipulate rather than communicate genuine care or interest in you.
– Name-dropping or finding ways to subtly insert references to their status, connections or success into conversations.
– Monopolizing discussions but with few follow-up questions about you or your interests/experiences. Conversations remain very surface-level.
– Seeming forgetful of details you share about yourself/life but laser-focused on recalling their own anecdotes.
– An unintended air of superiority or talking down about others behind their backs to boost themselves.
– Subtle body language cues like eyes that don’t fully engage when you speak or feigned interest/smiles that don’t reach eyes.
– Constantly seeking reassurance even for minor tasks by asking “Was that right?” fishing for compliments.
– Misattributing your accomplishments or achievements to themselves through twisting events.
– Relying heavily on social-proof behaviours like name-dropping, and showing off possessions.
– Demanding instant feedback/gratification from you via endless check-ins/texts rather than giving space.
Paying close attention to vocal tonality/intensity, eye contact, and body positioning during conversations can help uncover subtler signs underneath the verbal content.