My Entries

When My Unhealed Pain Met Their Bullying: How I Learned That Trauma Shapes What We Hear

As I began to heal, something shifted. I started seeing their behaviour for what it was: projection, insecurity, emotional immaturity, and a desperate need for control. I stopped taking their words as truth. I stopped letting their accusations define me. I stopped hearing them through the lens of my old wounds.

Understanding Narcissistic Immaturity in High‑Conflict Moments

Conflict with a narcissistic person rarely feels like conflict between two adults. It feels chaotic, destabilizing, and strangely juvenile—because it is. It is very confusing! Emotional maturity is the foundation of healthy communication, and when someone lacks it, every disagreement becomes a […]

Music: “The Living Years” By Mike + The Mechanics

Are you familiar with Mike + The Mechanics music? This song came out in 1989. Lyrics are below! This song feels like stepping into a quiet moment you didn’t realize you needed: soft light, steady breath, and a melody that settles into […]

Music: “This Too Shall Pass” By Fearless Soul

This song carries the kind of beauty that stops you mid‑breath—the kind that rises in your chest like a memory you didn’t know you were waiting to feel. Its harmonies move with a quiet power, unfolding emotion layer by layer until you’re wrapped in something tender, honest, and deeply human.

Poem: She Does Not Answer

A quiet declaration of strength, She Does Not Answer captures the moment a survivor steps out of the noise and back into her own life. Rooted in the Newfoundland coastline and the calm that follows chaos, this piece reflects the power of choosing presence over reaction, truth over distortion, and self-authorship over manipulation