This is a very informative video on how abuse changes the way you see the world. I watch these videos as they expand my awareness of these toxic behaviours I have seen from toxic tenants after me online, and help me heal!
In the early days of the toxic tenants’ psychological abuse, I experienced many of these things noted in this video, especially my sense of safety.
Thankfully, with therapy, I have recovered my sense of self and am no longer afraid. Learning how to see the terrible patterns of their behaviours, especially with the domains they created, has given me the ability to move past them, as noted in #6 below.
#7 was the worst for me for a long time. I was afraid of being “seen” while I was out in public due to the contents that were on those websites, especially stellareddy.com. I felt a lot of shame, not because of anything I did, but because my name was being abused so badly. They shared very personal info about me that they gained through the Human Rights applications, which was supposed to remain private, and yes, it was embarrassing.
I fear no more of being “seen”. I share my thoughts now all over the place, even on the internet! I have become very vocal!
Those 2 years living as a hermit in Ontario because of the fear of being accosted if I left my home played a big part. Every time I left, I was questioned by tenants I came across and I was afraid of physical attacks. I didn’t want to live that way anymore!
Even when I first started this website I have, I felt insecure with being recognized when I am out in the Community but over time, I got used to it. The first time I was recognized here in Newfoundland, it helped me get over that. Having people reach out to me through WordPress also helped me get over that too!
I have a right to be here, living my life and sharing my story of narcissistic abuse in the workplace I experienced due to toxic tenants. They believe their anger, resentment, and jealousy towards me give them the right to bully me for so many years. I am here to tell you they do not have that right.
As long as they retain the domain they created in my name, I will be here, as there are always 2 sides to every story.
From the site:
How Narcissistic Abuse Changes the Way You See the World | Distorted Reality & Emotional Damage
Narcissistic abuse doesn’t just hurt you—it reshapes your entire worldview. After being manipulated, gaslit, and emotionally drained, many victims begin to question everything: their worth, their judgment, even reality itself.
In this powerful video, we dive deep into how narcissistic abuse alters your perception of people, love, safety, and trust. Victims often become hyper-vigilant, emotionally detached, or struggle with crippling self-doubt. You may start expecting betrayal, fearing connection, or feeling like the world is unsafe.
📌 What you’ll learn: How narcissistic abuse causes emotional disconnection and isolation
Why you may no longer trust people—even those with good intentions
The link between gaslighting and altered perception of reality
How chronic emotional manipulation rewires your brain and beliefs
Why victims often feel broken, paranoid, or overly cautious
The connection between trauma, anxiety, and worldview distortions
Steps to slowly regain trust, confidence, and emotional clarity
This is more than trauma—it’s a psychological shift that can color everything around you. But the good news? With awareness and healing, you can begin to see the world through your own eyes again.
💔 If you’ve ever felt like you’re not the same person after narcissistic abuse, this video is for you.
(2) How Narcissistic Abuse Changes the Way You See the World (You Can’t Unsee It!) – YouTube
Video Timeline
HOW NARCISSISTIC ABUSE CHANGES THE WAY YOU SEE THE WORLD 00:01
NUMBER 1 YOU SEE RELATIONSHIPS AS POTENTIAL TRAPS 00:24
NUMBER 2 YOU QUESTION YOUR PERCEPTIONS 02:24
NUMBER 3 YOU SEE KINDNESS AS SUSPICIOUS 04:13
NUMBER 4 YOU FEEL LIKE HAPPINESS IS TEMPORARY OR FAKE 06:08
NUMBER 5 YOU EXPECT REJECTION BEFORE IT HAPPENS 07:40
NUMBER 6 YOU HAVE A HARD TIME FEELING SAFE 09:54
NUMBER 7 YOU FEAR BEING SEEN 11:49
NUMBER 8 YOU FEEL RESPONSIBLE FOR OTHER PEOPLE’S EMOTIONS 13:33
NUMBER 9 YOU FEEL UNCOMFORTABLE WITH PEACEFUL RELATIONSHIPS 15:25
NUMBER 10 YOU FEEL LIKE AN IMPOSTOR IN YOUR OWN LIFE 17:19