Detachment:
As the poster says, detachment isn’t about not caring, it’s about taking care of myself first and letting others take responsibility for their own actions without trying to save or punish them.
I have been working on detaching from the smear campaigns and cyberbullying being done in my name, and the people behind it, and I feel like I am finally in the position to do so. I don’t feel negative anymore!
Their behaviour shows who they are and I know one day they will face the consequences of their behaviours. You don’t get to cyberbullying so many people for many years and not get some consequences from it!! I am hopeful that one day they will be held accountable for their actions online.
I no longer feel the need to defend myself. I have done all I could within my control. They are nobodies trying to become somebodies by smearing other people. Their actions are saying “Look at me, my opinions about this person are important for you to read”. I will leave them to it. In time, the readers of their many sites will come to see what I do.
I am not responsible for these toxic tenants and their actions, what they do is all on them. I am not responsible for their comfort and never was. They thought they could publicly humiliate me with their posts in the domain they created in my name for the past 8 years, but over time I have come to see they are only humiliating themselves with this behaviour. It is their writing, not mine.
They have made some very serious allegations against me that they have never proven, and now they never will. Their time is done and all they can do now is keep repeating themselves, hoping to convince others they tell the truth about me and other people. No one else seems to care about what they have to say about me anymore so it is time I stop caring as well.
I want to write about so many other beautiful things that are important to me! I have been feeling fantastic these past few months and I want to spread it around! So, while I won’t delete posts anymore, I am going to start sharing what I want.
Time to start looking after myself.