I cannot fathom the level of cruelty and evil it takes for someone to intentionally exploit and provoke the trauma wounds of a person who has already been through so much. It is a despicable form of abuse that goes beyond comprehension. To witness someone stoop to such a low level of depravity is both shocking and enraging.
For toxic tenants to continue with the website and its contents in my name, shows their depravity. They know their behaviour with stellareddy.com bothers me, and this is why they do it. Their behaviour is truly demonic and evil, in my opinion.
Trauma is something that can have a lasting impact on a person, shaping their thoughts, behaviours, and relationships. It is a deeply personal experience that can leave scars that may never fully heal. To intentionally trigger and manipulate someone’s trauma wounds for one’s own gain is not only heartless but truly demonic.
I cannot begin to imagine the pain and suffering that someone must be going through to resort to such despicable tactics. It is a sign of a deeply troubled individual who lacks empathy and compassion. It is a betrayal of the highest order, preying on someone who is already vulnerable and in need of support. Their behaviour shows me they have no remorse.
They wrote this sentence on one of their sites, showing they have no understanding of PTSD. “possibly even some sort of post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) upon the family”. There is no such thing as “some sort” of PTSD, either you have it or you don’t and it requires diagnosis by a Specialist who sees you over some time. You can’t just walk into a psychiatrist’s office once and walk out with a diagnosis!
I have never seen any medical reports in their names showing they suffer from any mental health issues, as I doubt very much that they ever went to see anyone for it!
To me, for someone to treat school administrators with such total disrespect as they have, they don’t have anxiety issues. For someone to take their perceptions of events and act as if they are facts to be believed, they don’t have PTSD. These people clearly show they have no concept of what Post Traumatic Stress Disorder even means!
For someone to post all the insults, name-calling, and derogatory comments they make towards other individuals online in the domains they created and share it so publicly, they have no anxiety. They don’t know what it means!!
For someone to attack an individual, not the behaviour they are so upset over, they don’t have any mental health issues, they are just interested in revenge! Someone with anxiety will try to do the “right and moral” thing at all times to prevent backlash from anyone. They don’t show that behaviour as they are aggressive and degrading in all they do.
The effects of such abuse can be devastating, causing further psychological harm and exacerbating the original trauma. It is a vicious cycle that can be difficult to break free from, leaving the target feeling trapped and helpless. The emotional scars can run deep, leading to feelings of shame, guilt, and worthlessness that are hard to recover from.
It is important for those who have experienced this type of abuse to seek help and support. No one deserves to be treated in such a callous and manipulative manner. Survivors must know that they are not alone and that there are resources available to help them heal and move forward. The toxic people don’t have any control over your life and what you do or don’t do, they just like to pretend that they do.
It is also important to hold abusers accountable for their actions. No one should be allowed to get away with such heinous behaviour, as it only perpetuates the cycle of abuse. Society needs to stand up against such evil and ensure that those who engage in this type of behaviour are held responsible for their actions. The more we spread the word about their behaviour, the more informed society becomes and the more things change! I have seen a lot change in the past 8 years but there are more to come!
In some cases, the abuser may themselves be dealing with unresolved trauma and issues of their own. This is not an excuse for their behaviour, but it is important to recognize that hurt people hurt people. They are still responsible for their behaviour. It is crucial for those who have experienced trauma to seek help and support in order to break free from the cycle of abuse.
For those who have been victimized in such a manner, it is important to remember that they are not to blame. They did not deserve to be treated in such a cruel and exploitative manner. Survivors need to practice self-compassion and self-care as they navigate the healing process, as it is so important.
It takes immense strength and courage to confront and address past trauma, especially when it has been triggered and exploited by someone else. I do it every day with stellareddy.com and its nasty contents returning from time to time. It is a long and difficult journey, but it is possible to heal and move forward from such experiences. Survivors need to surround themselves with a supportive network of friends, family, and professionals who can help them on their path to healing.
It is also essential for survivors to set boundaries and stand up for themselves against further abuse. No one has the right to exploit and manipulate another person’s trauma for their own gain. It is important to assert one’s worth and value to break free from the cycle of abuse.
In my case, I emailed so many companies that deal with the internet, like Jetpack, SEO, Google, Bing, etc to let them know that stellareddy.com was not created by me, but by a Cyberbully out to bully me in the contents. Usually, once they do see what is shared there, they understand and are very helpful to me. The word has been spread over the past 5 years that I do not own that domain and it is there sharing my info without permission. When I explained it was a past customer from my last workplace looking for revenge against me for doing my job, they understood.
Don’t let your feelings of embarrassment, or shame for getting caught up, get in your way, you are the target and have every right to speak your truth. It is your life to live, no one else’s.
In conclusion, the intentional exploitation and provocation of trauma wounds is a despicable and evil form of abuse. It takes a special kind of depravity to engage in such behaviour, preying on the vulnerabilities of someone who has already been through so much. Survivors must seek help and support to heal and move forward from such experiences.
It is also important for society to stand up against such evil and ensure that abusers are held accountable for their actions. Healing is possible, and no one deserves to be treated in such a callous and manipulative manner.
