Toxic People and Refusing to Let Me Move On

I can’t believe the audacity of some toxic tenants out there who just refuse to let their targets move on and live their own lives in peace. It’s like they thrive off of making nasty comments and trying to bring others down.

I mean, who has the time and energy to be so obsessed with someone else’s life that they have to constantly harass them? Is their own lives really that boring they have to try and get into mine? They should be focusing on their own lives and bettering themselves, than stalking me.

I’ve seen it happen firsthand on stellareddy.com, and let me tell you, it’s not pretty. These toxic tenants will stop at nothing to try and make sure their targets feel miserable and trapped. They’ll send passive-aggressive emails, make snide remarks, and even go so far as to spread rumours and gossip in the content of the websites they create. It was nice of them to leave most of the content password-protected so no one could see it! It’s like they think it’s their life’s mission to make sure their targets never forget about them.

Are they really that important? Nope… If they didn’t own stellareddy.com and had the habit of abusing my name, I wouldn’t pay attention to them either. Which is why they kept it as they want something to hold over me to ensure they get my attention… That is all they want from me, my attention…

That is the purpose of all their websites, to gain attention…

I am trying to move on from a toxic relationship with a tenant who just can’t seem to let go. Every time I tried to move on and live my own life over the past 4 years, this tenant would find a way to insert themselves back into the picture through mean comments online on their sites or by sending nasty emails. It feels like this toxic tenant just can’t stand the thought I am moving on without them.

Whenever they see me going places without fear and writing about all the excitement I get to experience here in NL, they have to try and create fear within me with their comments. Good luck with that these days, as I am past that reaction.

I won’t take the baiting anymore, I am on to their tactics. I prefer to take their new action and report them to my contact with the Police. I am not afraid to contact the Police again as one day, they will do something that can be used to charge them under the Canadian Criminal Code. I live in hope…Maybe this is the content that will do it this time!!

All I see from their new content is jealousy… I am living very well despite what they do in my name. They can’t triangulate me with anyone now as no one I know pays attention to them anymore, so they think they will try to sic members of my community after me instead. How do they think that is going to work?

Are people all of a sudden going to think to search for my personal name on the internet and find that site with everything password-protected and no way to get the password? What does showing an address with maps and pictures gonna do when there is no context of why it is there? Everything else you can’t see, so why bother with it? They hope to create fear within me, that’s all, as they can’t do anything else.

Let me tell you, it is exhausting to deal with them. I used to be constantly stressed out and on edge, never knowing when this toxic tenant would strike next, as I knew it would come. It was like they were always waiting in the shadows, just waiting for their chance to swoop in and ruin my day. They have become pretty predictable to me these days and nothing they do surprises me anymore.

I am determined not to let this toxic tenant dictate my life, in no way! I refuse to let this person have power over me and instead choose to focus on my own happiness and well-being instead. And you know what? It worked. Slowly but surely, I was able to distance myself from this toxic tenant and finally move on with my life. Focus on the behaviour, not the person behind it, and it will make a big difference in your recovery!

But that’s not to say it was easy. There are still times when this toxic tenant would try to rear their ugly head and make my life miserable, like now. It is like they just can’t let go of the past and move on themselves. And it was sad, really, to see someone so consumed by bitterness and anger that they couldn’t see the damage they were causing to so many people. They are selfish, only concerned about themselves and it is easy to see from all their behaviours.

I think what these toxic tenants fail to realize is that by holding onto grudges and constantly trying to bring others down, they’re only hurting themselves in the long run. It’s like they’re stuck in a never-ending cycle of negativity and can’t break free. And it’s truly a sad sight to see.

But you know what? We don’t have to let these toxic tenants control our lives. We have the power to set boundaries and protect ourselves from their harmful behaviour. We can choose to focus on our own happiness and well-being, regardless of what they may try to do.

So let’s not let these toxic tenants get the best of us. Let’s rise above their pettiness and show them that we won’t be dragged down by their negativity. Let’s live our lives to the fullest and not let anyone’s nasty comments or actions bring us down. Because at the end of the day, we deserve to be happy and free from toxic influences.

Rest assured that in time, they will get what they deserve. Policies and Laws are changing all the time, just look at the new Online Harms Act, Bill C-63, that Canada is trying to put in place as the government knows its people need to be protected from people like this. Personally, I can’t wait…time for toxic people to be held accountable for what they do!!


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