Why did Toxic Adult Bullies send me this email below on March 1, 2021?
It is total Gaslighting!
Toxic Adult Bullies once again trying to show that he knows Stella Reddy better than she does. This is Toxic Adult Bullies gloating and trying to “one up” Stella Reddy once again. Baiting for the emotional response!
This sentence is pure projection, as it is what they do online! I was surprised to see the blatant denials they write in their posts and emails to me, as it is clear they ignore their own actions.
These people have spent the past 6 years “spewing their hatred for me and my family” with their malicious websites containing my name for the past few years. I didn’t make that site in my name, they did but they believe that is okay.
“The best part about it is that you have done nothing but spew your hatred for our family with your racist and ignorant lies and deliberate attempts to portray our family as being nothing but a bunch of pitiful individuals for the past five years.”
These sentences below are gaslighting, as Toxic Adult Bullies don’t know what I was doing, does he? There is no way he can know what he claims below is even true, as he is not a mind-reader and he just does not know me like he thinks he does.
I don’t know anything about them, except for what they have done with me online and in person, and I truly don’t care to know people who behave the way they do. Why would I waste my time with untrustworthy people? Anything you say to them, you take the chance of them using it against you if you disagree with them and what they want!
These sentences show just who Toxic Adult Bullies truly is, a deranged narcissist upset I am getting away from any influence he thinks he has over who associates with me.
Once again they totally ignore their own acts of false allegations of racism against me on all their websites that contain my name, all without providing any evidence I did what they claim.
They state I know nothing about their family, it also means they know nothing about mine. They were Tenants, not friends, not even acquaintances and definitely were not family.
“On endless occasions, you have referenced our children and ourselves in your hatred and racist comments on your websites/blogs as lazy bums, who lie, have no ambition. You have endlessly criticized and insulted our children and our parenting skills.”
“It is clear that once again, you have proven that you know nothing about our family, and that you have never known anything about our family.”
“You assumed because Allison was black that she was not a good enough mother to provide a home for such a smart and gifted daughter. You also believe that because I spent most of my time at home with our children, I was a horrible father who was not a role model for our children.”
The only reason I think Toxic Adult Bullies felt he had to send me this missive is to gloat over his children’s accomplishments and to trigger me into a response he could once again use on his own content, which is just what he did. He was bored and had nothing new for his own content to draw more readers.
The newest pages all came from my response to this email, but of course, Toxic Adult Bullies don’t tell anyone he sent me this first. There is no way he would admit he set this up and there is also no way he would ever admit he causes come of these reactions. Nope. Toxic Adult Bullies just want to show what I did, not anything he did that brought it about in the first place.
So, below, find the nasty email, filled once again with projection, name-calling and personal degradation of myself, written by Toxic Adult Bullies Just more Gaslighting and manipulations!
That is a narcissist for you!
By the way, I do find them pitiful individuals for their lack of accountability towards ownership of those domains. Only pitiful individuals need to portray someone else as the bad guy while trying to be innocent.
You see, this email did trigger me into making the free site on Wix that he gloats over getting removed and then he claims I went to another free site, not admitting it isn’t free and of course he hasn’t mentioned anything about this domain yet. Of course not, it isn’t free and he can’t get it removed either, nor any of the content.
Toxic Adult Bullies are now in the same position as I have been for the past 3 yrs, dealing with a domain online that shares so much personal information about what they said and did. It is their turn to now be shamed, embarrassed, and negated for what they have said against so many people, not just me. QUID PRO QUO is my new Motto… What they can do, so can I.
You see, I have learned something in the last couple of months and that is that I am stronger than I thought. Though I suffer through emotional dissonance for making and posting my own domain filled with my personal info, I can deal with it better this time around than I did before.
I am determined to keep this site online as long as stellareddy.com is there so that in time if you find anything about me, you will find this domain and my side as well. That is all I want. It is about fairness, about knowing there are always 2 sides to every situation and it’s important for both sides to have a voice, and this is mine.
For clarification, history has shown me that these Toxic Bullies will remove their sites from Hosting from time to time, but the Domains still remain registered for use and could easily show up on another server at some point. I will remain online as long as these Domains remain registered for use, hosted or not!!
Time for Toxic Adult Bullies to accept that I too have the right to share my side, no matter how. Toxic Adult Bullies take things I write and try to Gaslight them away within their own domains, they made it very obvious!
Toxic Adult Bullies is turning my life into a target for ridicule and personal attacks, physical and mental, and he thinks that is okay. We need to show him it is not OKAY!
Sent: March 1, 2021 1:30 PM
Subject: D-Generation X – SUCK IT!!!
A and I just wanted to share these two remarkable letters that
K received over the past few weeks. As you can see, they are
letters of acceptance for her to attend medical school after graduating from
high school this year.
Yes, you did read that correctly. Kn will be attending Medical
School without having to go to university. As you are not very educated
yourself. The usual process is that one must attend university and obtain an
undergrad degree before applying to a medical school.
The best part about it is that you have done nothing but spew your hatred
for our family with your racist and ignorant lies and deliberate attempts to
portray our family as being nothing but a bunch of pitiful individuals for
the past five years.
On endless occasions, you have referenced our children and ourselves in your
hatred and racist comments on your websites/blogs as lazy bums, who lie,
have no ambition. You have endlessly criticized and insulted our children
and our parenting skills.
Unlike your failure of a child. Our daughter will be attending medical
school this coming September 2021, straight out of high school.
It is clear that once again, you have proven that you know nothing about our
family, and that you have never known anything about our family.
You assumed because A was black that she was not a good enough mother
to provide a home for such a smart and gifted daughter. You also believe
that because I spent most of my time at home with our children, I was a
horrible father who was not a role model for our children.
Well, Stella, it appears you could not have been any more WRONG!!!
From this point on, if you choose to reference K, we all would
appreciate that you referenced her as Dr., something that you and your
failure of a child would never achieve. With that said, you can now go back
to your life of being a Pot Head every day, crying about how the world has
done you so wrong, and continue on with your imaginary PTSD so you can
continue to live off us, the taxpayers.
Because as it goes, we have one more child to get into medical school in 6
years! When E gets acepted in also, I will certainly be the first to let
you know. Why? Because nothing brings me more joy than rubbing this in your
racist, bearded pig face. Because you need to understand that black people
can be successful and educated.
Our work as failure parents has obviously paid off for Kn. We are
just glad that we were not as big of a failure as you were for your
So you can now continue to hide in Newfoundland with all your racist friends
and family, and hopefully Covid-19 will find you, because you are a
disgusting Donald Trump supporter who can not stand the idea that a Black
person is more successful and makes far more money than you ever have.
I can only imagine how pissed off you must be to see the “Mulatto”
Kn being more successful at 17 than you or our family have ever
been. It has to burn you inside.
So in the words of D-Generation X – SUCK IT!!!