Toxic Abuse and Blame

Toxic Abusers are angry people, who feel like they deserve everything, and YOU are responsible for everything that has ever gone wrong in their life. 

Their mentality will never make sense to you. They are deeply flawed and abnormal human beings, who will forever think the world owes them.

The behaviour of the Tenants in this situation was very confusing for me! I came to see that the Toxic Bullies I had thought I OWED them, that everyone should have just allowed them to do what they wanted in their tenancy with no complaints…They claim to not have felt comfortable with anyone entering their apartment when no one was home and thought we should have accommodated that at all times. There is no provision in the RTA for that.

Just as I get the impression that they wanted the School to accept that their son had every right to become physical during alterations there. I saw a such sense of entitlement, it was confusing to me!

All the websites below contain evidence that the Toxic Adult Bullies I was in contact with are angry people who blame me for their eviction, among other things.,,, contains evidence that these Toxic Bullies are angry over the lifestyle of this Prime Minister of Dominica and want to SHAME them in any way they can. Geez, I don’t agree with some of the politics in Canada but that doesn’t mean I am going to set up a website bashing our Prime Minister, it will just make me look petty as it does for these Bullies. They are petty people picking on other people!

Now, Toxic Adult Bullies are sharing websites with new Targets they are angry with, who they feel are in the way of them getting what they wanted. The first site is about Bullying in schools and how these Adult Bullies believe that their child had every right to get physical with other children who went up to him. is against a Vet they feel didn’t give them what they wanted from them. They are attempting to shame this vet for his actions when this Vet has every right to protect his own business.

Every page of shows their angry outbursts and all their skewed perceptions of me and yes, it is hard to get past all that. I needed to build very strong self-beliefs to combat the effects of all they did in my name on the internet and it was hard, but it is achievable. It is MY LIFE after all, isn’t it? I am the one living it…They did these actions, they wrote these posts, and no one made them do any of that!

I had to grow a thicker skin after being abused so badly by these Toxic Tenants I had in my last place of work. I had to recover from the toxic shame they placed on me with their words of criticism I had every day. I had to rebuild my sense of safety, not only in the people around me but also in myself. I lost faith in myself and it was hard to get it back. It has taken me the better part of the last 3 years to do that. I don’t question myself anymore, I have once again become confident in my own intuition and judgements over my own personal life.

I am very grateful I am in a position where I no longer need to work, as I know I can’t deal with people as I use to. I don’t have the tolerance anymore to deal with people all day long. I am happy to retire as it is better for me. So thank you Tenant Bullies for forcing me to the path I needed to follow!! I have a lot of freedom these days to just be me, and it is very peaceful.

Learning to accept that there are people out there in this world who believe they have the Authority to try and control you and what you do in your own personal life, is what I had to accept. Before these people, I never thought that anyone would try and convince someone else that they knew me better than I knew myself. I never experienced this behaviour before and didn’t know how to deal with it. 

How could someone actually try to make someone else think that they were familiar with me well enough to say things as these Bullies did? I never thought this was a thing until I met these Toxic Tenants and saw all their written documents where they try so hard to get you to believe their version of events, even when it just concerned me! You see this on all the pages of that I share above and it shocked me! How could a total stranger assume so much about another person’s life? 

Where do they get off, telling me how I should have done my job and delivered notices to them? If they thought they could do a better job as Building Superintendents, why weren’t they working in the industry?

I was totally amazed that these people were claiming to know my motives and what I was doing, more than I did!! 

A lot of the content I share below is projection and placing of Toxic Shame upon me.

It is Toxic Adult Bullies who registered and made content for 6 domains in my name and others to “deliberately spread false and misleading information” about me and my family. They WROTE all that content, not me. They IMPLY all kinds of things they have no idea about.

I was told in the past that these sites were a “review of a person or business” but I never saw “reviews” like the content they have on their sites.

You see, Stella Reddy is so determined to try and convince herself and anyone who will listen that she is not a bigot and a racist. And that the female from interracial married couple / tenants is nothing more than a Black liar who is an Angry Black Woman. So to achieve this, Stella Reddy deliberately spreads false and misleading information about her and her family of 12 websites.

On almost a weekly basis, she tries to hack this site’s WordPress control panel, hoping to receive an email to log in and delete the site herself.

And since she can’t get it removed, she figures that she will continue to illegal try to obtain the administrator password via an email, where she would then log in and delete the site herself.

 is just as obsessed with our interracial family as his obsessed wife Stella Reddy because he allows her to devoted endless amounts of time in front of their computer, typing away her long-winded rants, search for our family through social media, posting endless lies and false claims, and maybe encouraging her to deliberately commit illegal acts like trying to hack this site administrator account.

One has to wonder, has R ever gotten or even suggested help for his wife, Stella Reddy?

Really, why would any spouse who allegedly loves their partner allow them to behave in such an unhealthy manner for years upon end? 

Again, either R is enabling her, or he wants it to end permanently. And if he can’t stop her, maybe nature will stop it for him.

We will never know, as R sits by passively in the shadows, saying nothing, allowing his wife Stella Reddy to continue to burden and overwhelm herself with emotions and guilt, the whole time trying to justify in her head her inexcusable racist behavior since 2017.

Making and posting websites titled in other people’s names is a game to these Toxic Adults, they said as much in their content online, copied below. They believe that playing with people’s lives is a game. This is their true mentality!

They like playing with people’s lives, personal and professional, and think nothing of using psychological abuse to get their way, as you can see by their words I copied below from

They claim that it was after they filed with Human Rights and created this website, that my mental health started to be seriously affected, but it started with and the spreading of gossip around the property. not the website in my name.

To be honest, KR didn’t know me well enough to know what “drives her crazy” and it is very obvious in the many bald statements he has made about my motives. 

A Tenant is a person who rents a space from a business, it is not a personal relationship where the Tenant and Landlord become friends and involved in each other’s personal lives. It is a professional situation that is covered by certain rules that personal relationships don’t have.

To claim to know me in such intimate terms as these Tenants do shows the very traits of narcissism I have read about. They use the Internet as their personal bashing playground, making websites here and there showing the resentment and anger they feel towards so many people. They feel entitled to make these sites where the content is deliberately geared to be malicious and nasty towards others. 

Yet, they expect people to trust them enough to use their business of

Yes, the owners of this Event Planning business are 

These are the same people who wrote the content I share below from This picture is from 

You just cannot trust these people with anything, personal or professional, as eventually they will turn on you and use that info against you!

All you need to do is look at their current websites, let alone the ones that are no longer active, to see what they do!

They use Fear, Distraction, Influence, Deception, Character Assassination, and Smear Campaigns against anyone they are mad at, hoping to SHUT YOU UP from exposing what they did to you. 

So this game will start over once again as my daughter and spouse will be moving here with my son and I, so our daughter can attend medical school at 17. We will all once again be together after a couple of months apart.

Stella Reddy claims that she is currently mentally sick, but she was not mentally sick when getting our family evicted. Nope, Stella Reddy was of sound mind and strong will.

Only after filing with the Human Rights and creating this website did Stella Reddy start playing the pity boo-hoo card of I was not mentally in the right place. Very convenient it was.

Stella Reddy is a performer who puts on whatever face/mask is needed for the time. It is that plan, and it is that simple. This website drives her crazy because it exposes just that, her act.

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