The Stella Reddy Adult Bullies portrays online does not exist! I know myself, These Bullies do not. It is that plain and that simple!

The Toxic Adult Bullies I have were Tenants, they were not part of my personal life to be familiar with it, and they didn’t even know my professional life! Why would they?

If the Stella Reddy that the Bullies write about online really existed, it would have come out a long time ago. No building staff working in Ontario would be able to hide racist beliefs for 16 years as these Bullies claim I did. And then to claim it was ONLY them?

No Tenant was worth me doing as alleged I did. I wouldn’t have taken any chances to ruin my own career, especially to “target” any Tenant. I wasn’t stupid…

Only a completely inept individual would go up to total strangers at some restaurant and say the thing they allege I said to them there, especially seeing s I would see these people around the property later. Besides, we all know these Toxic Tenants would not have kept any such allegations to themselves for 2 1/2 months if it really happened!

  • Toxic Tenants had hoped their many domains would draw attention and other previous tenants would come out of the woodwork and back up their claims against Stella Reddy and others named. They asked people dealing with me and the owners in the past to contact them. It didn’t happen as there is nothing there.
  • Toxic Tenants had hoped their many domains and the content within, would draw attention from some lawyer willing to help them go after this fictional Stella Reddy and others. That has also been noted on previous content of their sites that have been saved. That didn’t happen either.
  • Toxic Tenants had hoped their domains would stop people from renting apartments from the property owners at 859 Kennedy Rd. That didn’t happen either! It drew more tenants there!
  • Toxic Tenants had hoped their domains would cause embarrassment and shame on myself and my husband to the point where others would avoid us, and we would not be able to get a job, or a place to live and have no friends. That definitely didn’t happen as here I am, living in Newfoundland and enjoying my retirement while my hubby has a wonderful job that he loves with great bosses and co-workers who laughed when they were told about these sites online.
  • Toxic Tenants had hoped that their new site, lorriereddy.com, would get the reaction they wanted, thinking that Newfoundanders and Labradorians would get upset over the term “Newfie” that I use when it is a personal choice. If I choose to use the term, as someone born here, I can and no one will get upset over me doing that. I also assume that by sharing my Facebook there, they hope that other Newfies will attack me for the blatant statements they have in their content.

lorriereddy.com has been online since July 8, 2022, and no one has said a word to me about it! My Facebook is public these days and linked here, just like Pinterest. I refuse to hide, I have nothing to hide away from! I will never accept the definition of Stella Reddy they have in the contents of their many websites and neither will anyone else.

This action also shows traits of narcissism, the unwillingness to give up a losing battle. Toxic Tenants will keep going, even long after they become pariahs and are avoided, as they refuse to accept that anything they did is wrong. They will keep twisting the narratives until it is all about them and they get what they want. They said as much!!

They can’t expect to keep going after so many people with no end in sight, without others getting fed up with it all! Living in negativity so much will eventually affect your own moods.

You can only beat something into the ground for so long without people getting fed up with listening, reading, and seeing it! Their constant accusations against different individuals of racism and discrimination, do get on your nerves after a while and you do get sick of reading about it all in time. I do…

Living in the past doesn’t get you anywhere. I was turning into a bitter old woman and I didn’t want that, so I stopped and instead of focusing on all the terrible things Toxic Tenants has done, said and wrote, I started focusing on ME. I am focusing on MY recovery, on MY needs! To hell with them, they are irrelevant to me and their words are now irrelevant!

The words written about me on their websites are clearly made up and do not reflect the real me, but the version of me they fabricated. They minimize me in every way, denying that I have a right to my own feelings and thoughts over anything that happened and calling me fake whenever they can and trying to replace my reality with theirs with their many speculations.

Toxic Tenants has never proven anything against anyone, it is just words and his own personal opinions. While words can hurt over time, once you see the intentions behind their words, it becomes less hurtful! Once I started learning to see the psychology behind their many terrible actions, the better I became at tolerating it.

Once I started healing and understanding what they were doing with their sites, their actions didn’t bother me as much.

I have learned that Bullies bully others out of their own insecurities and fear of rejection. The more websites I see, as well as other actions on the internet trying to bring attention to themselves and what they have to say like the Change.org petitions, the more confident I become in my knowledge that they are toxic.

They always claim that their issues are the fault of someone else and it is these statements that cause others to reject their allegations. Mature Adults don’t behave as they do with websites on the internet and society is starting to see that.

Toxic Tenants has spent so much time and energy making up his little narratives online trying to convince you that he is very familiar with other individuals’ personal lives to state what they do. He claims to be a mind-reader to know other people’s motives so convincingly. We all know this is impossible and improbable. Toxic Tenants are not mind readers, no matter how convincing he tries to sound. It is gaslighting!

The Stella Reddy that Toxic Tenants write about within this content online is a fictional character made up by their imagination. This person does not exist. I should know!! If you want to hear from the real Stella Reddy, anyone is welcome to message me here, as I will not hide.

Toxic Tenants have taken what Stella Reddy has said and done and built a completely fictional character based on their own personal perceptions and opinions, not on actual fact.

Toxic Tenants are using their screwed-up interpretations to try and show Stella Reddy, and others named, in a certain light, which is a smear. It is becoming very well known!

I would like to show you now why I believe Adult Bullies are Narcissistic. I am not a doctor, but I have had my own Doctor tell me he sees narcissistic traits in the writings he read.

Once I remove emotion from the picture and just read the words as written by these Toxic Tenants online within these domains, you can see the traits below in all their glory! The traits listed below, you can see in the writings of Adult Bullies within the content of these domains they post.

All domains are about how this interracial couple/tenants were “targeted” by so many people, with the couple being these Adult Bullies.

It is about KR expressing how special they believe they are that others have to go out of their way to ‘take down” and evict them.

  • KR fantasizes about me, Stella Reddy, killing herself and winning. His comments in documents and even in searches on my own site about “go use some rope” show this. His resentment is showing.
  • KR always feels he is superior to everyone and his written content shows that. Grandiose thinking!
  • KR is also looking for praise for being such a good person for “exposing” so many people. He thinks that his words are so important for others to see that he creates domains to contain his speculations!
  • KR has shown his sense of entitlement all throughout their content with the expectations of free parking and that we demand a paying tenant give up a parking spot for them. There are way too many instances to name!
  • KR took advantage of other tenants living within the building in his attempts to get to me. It is also shown in their content when they speak of other tenants. Triangulation!
  • KR expresses his envy in terms of BBQs, and parking, especially that I had 2 spots, and his interpretations of how I was with other tenants, such as #402. Such jealousy!
  • KR shows this trait of wanting to be the centre of attention just by the simple fact of posting so many domains with nasty content within them. He wants to be noticed, good or bad!!
  • KR does not have empathy towards anyone experiencing mental health issues and his degradation over this is all within the content, especially when he calls Stella Reddy “fake”.
  • KR has ambition only so far as he has to be seen as special, with a special family! More Grandiose thinking!
  • KR is determined to smear myself and others online, out of revenge!
  • KR claims that so many people were in “cahoots” just to “illegally” target them for eviction but provides no evidence of it.

He is extremely competitive as he feels the need to “win” and have people know it was him that did it! He also has no trouble taking stuff I write to use on his sites, but when I disprove his lies, he ignores it. Toxic Tenants got my site removed from Awardspace for PII, but since I got it back online and put the other site back up, he has ignored it. Of course, he has, as I showed him up! He claims I will get one one day and poof, my site will be gone…He can’t control that, which is why my site is still here.

He actually said his domains are “legitimate” while mine are not.

Toxic Tenants definitely hold a grudge! All people named within these sites, and in the titles of the sites, all took part in evicting them! It’s been over 6 years yrs and he is STILL going!! 

No, KR doesn’t like being criticized, especially when it is deserved. Even total strangers on Facebook got it from KR for criticizing the poll he created and calling it strange. As for perfectionism, I don’t know.

KR could be depressed, but I don’t think he would ever admit it! His many domains are not getting the attention he wished they would and Stella Reddy has left Ontario and is no longer within any influence. He lost his legal applications, all of them, and had to pay a lot of money to various people. I know they didn’t pay the owners the $4000.00 they owe them!

Yes, I believe KR has trouble regulating his emotions as he goes off on tangents and you can see his resentment in his words. He believes in Bullying others, be it, children or adults, it doesn’t matter. https://web.archive.org/web/20221116135734/https://connaughtpublicschool.com/chapter-02/

What is there to be jealous of, really?

Possessions do not make the man. A job does not make the man. A Title does not make the man.

It is his ACTIONS that make the man. It is his MORALS that make the man. 

KR will degrade anyone who gets in his way of what he wants.

So much evidence showing the actions of KR fitting the descriptions below. 

  • 1. Always Talk About Themselves
  • 2. Fantasize
  • 3. Believe They Are Superior
  • 4. Require Constant Praise
  • 5. Sense of Entitlement
  • 6. Takes Advantage of Others
  • 7. Envious of Others
  • 8. You Enjoy Being the Center of Attention
  • 9. Lack Empathy
  • 10. Boundless Ambition
  • 11. Incredibly Insecure
  • 12. Incredibly Charming
  • 13. Extremely Competitive
  • 14. Hold Grudges
  • 15. Don’t Take Criticism Well
  • 16. Perfectionism
  • 17. Feeling Depressed
  • 18. Difficulty Regulating Emotions
  • 19. Feeling Contempt

Definition And Assessment

Narcissistic personality disorder is usually diagnosed through clinical evaluation. It is defined by the fifth edition (2013) of the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM) in terms of the personality traits of grandiosity and attention-seeking and in terms of significant impairments in personality functioning—such as looking excessively to others for the regulation of self-esteem, viewing oneself as exceptional, having impaired empathy, and having mostly superficial relationships. Those qualities remain relatively stable over time and are not attributable primarily to a medical condition, the use of drugs, or the individual’s developmental stage. Researchers have also investigated a less-extreme form of narcissism that is termed the narcissistic personality type. Such individuals possess most or all of the characteristics of the narcissistic personality disorder but are considered within the normal range of personality.

Persons who display either narcissistic personality disorder or the narcissistic personality type are preoccupied with maintaining excessively positive self-concepts. They become overly concerned with obtaining positive, aggrandizing feedback from others and react with extreme positive or negative emotions when they succeed or fail to receive confirmation that others hold them in high regard. Narcissists want positive feedback about themsleves, and they actively manipulate others to solicit or coerce admiration from them. Accordingly, narcissism is thought to reflect a form of chronic interpersonal self-esteem regulation.

Narcissistic Pathology And Behaviour

Research findings employing the NPI describe a portrait of narcissists as possessing inflated and grandiose self-images. It is not surprising then that narcissists report having high self-esteem. However, these positive self-images appear to be based on biased and inflated perceptions of their accomplishments and their distorted views of what others think about them. For example, they overestimate their physical attractiveness relative to judges’ ratings of their attractiveness, and they overestimate their intelligence relative to objective assessments of their IQ. In one experiment, narcissistic and nonnarcissistic men (as identified on the basis of their NPI results) were interviewed by a woman whose responses were scripted; thus, all the men received the same social feedback. The narcissistic men, however, assessed the woman’s attraction to them more highly than did nonnarcissistic men. Other findings indicate that narcissists take greater credit for good outcomes even when those outcomes occurred by luck or chance.

Although narcissists’ self-esteem is high, it is also fragile and insecure, as evidenced by its variability. It fluctuates from moment to moment, day to day, more than that of less-narcissistic people. Other research indicates that narcissists are more likely to have high explicit (conscious, self-reported) self-esteem and low implicit (nonconscious, or automatic) self-esteem. This finding suggests that although narcissists describe themselves in positive terms, their nonconscious feelings about themselves are not so positive.

Narcissists’ positive but insecure self-views lead them to be more attentive and reactive to feedback from other people. However, not just any response or feedback from others is important to narcissists; they are eager to learn that others admire and look up to them. Narcissists value admiration and superiority more than being liked and accepted. Studies find that narcissists’ self-esteem depends upon the extent to which they feel admired. Moreover, narcissists pursue admiration from others by attempting to manipulate the impressions they create in others. They make self-promoting and self-aggrandizing statements and attempt to solicit regard and compliments from those around them. They also respond with anger and resentment when they feel threatened by others. They are more likely to respond aggressively on such occasions and derogate those who threaten them, even when such hostile responding jeopardizes the relationship.

Narcissists attempt to solicit admiration from those around them, and their hostility when others fail to respond appropriately contributes to the disturbed interpersonal relationships that are a hallmark of the disorder. Research has shown that people describe their narcissistic acquaintances as trying to impress others by bragging and putting down others. These behaviours are initially successful in that those who interact with narcissists find them to be competent and attractive. However, over time these partners come to view the narcissist as arrogant and hostile.

Findings from a range of studies suggest a picture of the narcissists as people who use their friends to feel good about themselves. They pander for attention and admiration to support self-images that are positive but easily threatened. They are constantly on alert for even the smallest slight that they perceive as disrespect. Perhaps most important, narcissists’ striving to self-enhance at the expense of their friends ultimately costs them the friendships.

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