Stella Reddy Got Her Groove Back!
I wrote this post on September 17, 2021, just a year after I left Ontario for my site. My husband and I left Scarborough, Ontario, on September 15, 2020, and Continue reading
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Making Meaning Out of Toxic Abuse
Things change as we learn, and I have learned a lot over the past few years. I have made meaning of this mess… Continue reading
Unsolicited Advice From Strangers
Too many of us allow criticism to slow us down or, many times, stop us cold in our tracks. Dealing with criticism can be difficult sometimes, but we should not allow others’ opinions to detract us from our intended actions, goals and objectives. Continue reading
Forgetting the Toxic Tenants: Lessons Learned from an 8-Year Smear Campaign
To those who may find themselves in similar situations, remember: This too shall pass. Stay true to yourself, document everything, seek support, and trust that in time, the truth will prevail. Continue reading
The Power of Speaking Your Truth: A Survivor’s Perspective
Explore a survivor’s perspective on the power of speaking out, dealing with disbelief, and the importance of standing firm in your truth despite others’ reactions or abuser’s tactics. Continue reading
Healing from an 8-Year Smear Campaign: My Journey of Growth and Resilience
If there’s one thing I want others to take away from my story, it’s this: you are not defined by what others say about you. You are defined by how you choose to move forward. Keep going. You’ve got this. Continue reading
Spotting a Narcissist Online
It is the narcissist’s toxic behavior towards others, online or in real life, especially innocent parties, which speaks volumes about who they are. Continue reading
Smear Campaigns Never Last
I still remember the anger and hurt I felt when I first discovered those smear campaign websites years ago in December 2017. Finding my name attached to sites created with Continue reading
The Gaslighting Content of Stellareddy.com
I have learned quite a bit about Gaslighting and came to see the distortions done by the Toxic Tenants I had. You can see it in the content they created on stellareddy.com, rooseveltskerrit.com/, districtschoolboardofniagara.com, and even in their koryread.com. Continue reading
Ruminating Thoughts From Gaslighting By Toxic People
Yes, ruminating serves a purpose. I have learned that ruminating comes from gaslighting, as your brain is trying desperately to make sense of and learn from what happened. Continue reading