I wrote this post in April 2021 and it was one of the first posts I wrote for this site where you can see I was showing the education I was getting over toxic traits I was seeing from these Tenants.

I learned enough to know that as long as those Domains remain registered for use, they will return online in some form or another, as it isn’t the first time they disappeared from the internet since they were created.

This list is very exhaustive of what Narcissistic Abuse is all about!

This is the meaning I have come to see in these Tenant’s words and actions. Everything I have read since on toxic people and narcissism, just reinforces my beliefs that the Tenants who meddled in my professional and personal life in Ontario are very Toxic and behaved like Bullies. They are deliberately being mean to others.

These Narcissistic Tenants created a false perception of reality by making up a lie of a “prior meeting” where they made allegations I said racist comments to them. By embellishing this lie, they created fear in me of retribution against me by them, and by strangers coming in off the street, as I had to deal with people looking for an apartment to rent in my job.

They tried every which way to get people to believe this “prior meeting” occurred as they claim, even in the face of all the evidence I had showing it was not possible.

When lorriereddy.com came out last year, I wasn’t surprised, as I knew it was only a matter of time before they found my social media and tried to use it against me, as their antics in the past have shown me this is what they do.

They play Judge, Jury, and Executioner of people, thinking they have the power to do so.

While the content of their many sites is now gone from the Internet Archive, they are still registered for use and I do expect them to return at some point, just as they did last November after they gave up the hosting with the free speech Orangewebsite. They showed up 4 months later on a parked server with Hostinger and were redirected to the Internet Archive.

Thankfully, policies are changing with hosting on the internet and it isn’t as easy to make anonymous posts about other people.

Currently, there is still content on stellareddy.com/go as noted below where they claim to be the “truth speaker” of Stella Reddy and tell you they took their sites down in November as a “test” for me.

These words there highlight everything I have said about their Toxicity.

They claim to be the “truth speaker” of me, while our only interaction was that of Tenants and Building Staff. In reality, everything they write is a projection of themselves, as that is the only person they are familiar with!

They claim they took down their sites from the free speech hosting they had as a “test” for me to see what I would do with this site, which was online for 7 months at the time. They wanted me to remove my site that’s all so they could continue unchallenged with their websites. When did they become the authority to “test” anyone?

So after being offline for 4 months. It is time to bring back the truth speaker.. StellaReddy.com

Now the site was offline as a test to Stella Reddy. Which of coarse she failed as always.

You see Stella Reddy has always complained about the sites being up and how inaccurate they are in their depiction of her racist behavior and beliefs. There are countless times that Stella Reddy has said if the sites “were gone” she would move on with her life.

Well the sites were gone for 4 months and what did Stella Reddy do?

http://stellareddy.com/welcome-back-to-stellareddy-com/

April 26, 2021

Each one of these traits listed below, I experienced the past 4 years and 8 months from my Bullies. Even though I know Toxic Adult Bullies is the narrator of their content on the domains, they both did this, so I use both names.

Over the next few pages, I will take each trait and copy content from their domains that show they do this.

What is narcissistic abuse?

Let’s begin today by briefly defining narcissistic abuse. In a nutshell, narcissistic abuse is officially defined as the intentional construction of a false perception of someone else’s reality by an abuser for the purpose of controlling them. It involves a sort of constructed reality in which the narcissist manipulates you emotionally and psychologically over a long period of time.

It can be difficult to figure out that you’re dealing with narcissistic abuse because it can be very subtle and pervasive.

Signs You’re Dealing with Narcissistic Abuse

Find out if you are being emotionally abused by a narcissist by asking yourself the following questions.

Does someone in your life:

  1. Act like you don’t matter to them?
  2. Act like you’re faking it if you’re sick, or even say it out loud?
  3. Act really jealous sometimes?
  4. Always expect you to take care of their feelings, but never concern themselves with yours?
  5. Always make you wonder if you’re crazy?
  6. Always push and cross your boundaries?
  7. Always seem to kick you when you’re down?
  8. Always threaten you?
  9. Become angry or sullen if you don’t go along with their demands?
  10. Become overly critical of everything about you?
  11. Belittle your accomplishments?
  12. Blatantly lie to you about yourself and expect you to go along with it?
  13. Cause you to become anxious about confronting them about literally anything?
  14. Cause you to lose interest in life?
  15. Cause you to not want to do things you used to enjoy?
  16. Compare you to others?
  17. Compete with you over silly things?
  18. Consider themselves the “boss”?
  19. Dismiss your pain if you’re hurting (emotional or physical)?
  20. Do things they know make you uncomfortable?
  21. Embarrass you?
  22. Expect more of people than is appropriate? (For example, getting upset if the mailman forgets their birthday?)
  23. Expect you to get over it when any tragedy happens in your life?
  24. Feel entitled to your attention and UNCONDITIONAL respect, regardless of how they treat you?
  25. Forbid you from doing things?
  26. Force you to account for your time?
  27. Get angry at you for things you can’t control, such as contractor cancelling or changing appointments??
  28. Get excessively angry without warning over tiny things?
  29. Ghost you sometimes?
  30. Go into your social media accounts and question everything?
  31. Have the whole “Jekyll and Hyde” deal happening – where one side of them seems charming or even sweet and loving, while the other is mean, spiteful and downright hurtful?
  32. Humiliate you in public or in groups of people?
  33. Isolate you?
  34. Lie about you to others?
  35. Make a point of telling you how unattractive you are or of pointing out your flaws?
  36. Make everything “all about them?”
  37. Make threats about how they will “ruin you” or otherwise cause trouble for you at work, to your family or to others?
  38. Make you afraid or unwilling to talk about yourself?
  39. Make you afraid to tell them your feelings, or to express your feelings at all?
  40. Make you do things that you feel are unethical or morally wrong?
  41. Make you do things you don’t want to do?
  42. Make you doubt your sanity?
  43. Make you dread being around them?
  44. Make you feel completely worthless?
  45. Make you feel guilty for anything and everything?
  46. Make you feel like hurting yourself sometimes?
  47. Make you feel like your opinions are not worth hearing or expressing?
  48. Make you feel like your reality is twisted?
  49. Make you feel like you’re always sort of “on guard” and hypervigilant of their moods?
  50. Make you feel like you’re constantly on edge?
  51. Make you feel like you’re living in limbo?
  52. Make you feel like you’re not allowed to say no?
  53. Make you feel ugly, stupid, or otherwise unsavory?
  54. Make you feel unheard?
  55. Make you forget who you are?
  56. Make you regret your accomplishments instead of lifting you up when you do something good?
  57. Make you the scapegoat for all the arguments or problems?
  58. Make you wish you were dead?
  59. Make you wonder if you’re even a real person?
  60. Make you feel like you’re always “walking on eggshells” or living with constant stress, anxiety or generally in fear?
  61. Manipulate you ?
  62. Minimize your feelings or act like your feelings aren’t important or don’t matter?
  63. Never apologize to you unless they’re trying to get something from you?
  64. Not concern themselves with your needs, ever?
  65. Pick you apart?
  66. Play games with your head? Tell lies in order to confuse you or blame you for something you didn’t do?
  67. Play the “poor me” game anytime they don’t get what they want?
  68. Refuse to admit wrongdoing, or if they do, it’s only if they can blame it on someone else?
  69. Refuse to allow any privacy?
  70. Say overly critical things about your body and appearance?
  71. Say really mean things to you and when you get upset, claim they were joking?
  72. Say they know what you’re thinking, even when they clearly do not?
  73. Say things that don’t make sense and get angry when you point this out?
  74. Say things to intentionally confuse you?
  75. Say you’re mad at them when you’ve shown no indication of this and then get mad at you for not admitting you’re mad?
  76. Seem to find reasons to rage at you even when you do everything right?
  77. Seem to have double standards – as in, they’re allowed to do what they want, but you aren’t allowed to do what you want?
  78. Start arguments with you and others in your life through gossip or other forms of manipulation?
  79. Take out their anger about other things on you?
  80. Tear down your friends?
  81. Tell you they know you better than you know yourself?
  82. Threaten you with physical harm or make you feel afraid of how they will react when you speak or act in general?
  83. Triangulate you with other people in your life, pitting you against one another?
  84. Try to get revenge on you if you make them angry?
  85. Try to pit your kids or other family members against you or each other?
  86. Use your insecurities against you?
What are the primary characteristics that every narcissist shares?

All narcissists share, to varying degrees, these specific traits:

  1. An arrogant, condescending, haughty manner
  2. Complete self-absorption
  3. A total lack of empathy for others
  4. Epic entitlement and insatiable greed
  5. Disrespect for others’ boundaries
  6. Troubled relationships with friends and family due to their toxicity
  7. No accountability/responsibility for their loathsome behavior
  8. Suffer ‘narcissistic injury’ and fly into a ‘narcissistic rage’ at being reproached for their actions and behavior or if they perceive even the slightest criticism towards their character – can even become violent
  9. Bullying, manipulative and controlling behavior
  10. Irrational and illogical – can not be reasoned with, must ALWAYS have their own way no matter what
  11. Blatant and persistent lying about everything; deceptive behavior
  12. Love of money which means power and control to them
  13. Gaslighting – very destructive behavior towards others in order to control them by distorting reality and making others question their own sanity and perception of reality
  14. Projection – narcissists always accuse others of doing and being what they do and are
  15. Playing victim – narcissists always create drama and chaos around them, blame others for it and then play ‘victim’ to it all
  16. Have certain people in their lives to play certain roles – enablers, flying monkeys, narcissitic parents have scapegoats and golden children, narcissistic mothers tend to have ‘son-husbands’
  17. A total and complete lack of self-awareness for all of the above; narcissists live by a completely idealized façade of themselves though deep down they are very damaged people that are best to avoid when possible
What type of behavior could be expected from a narcissist if you know damaging information about them?

When you have dirt on a narcissist that could tarnish their fake show of flawless bliss, they will

(1) smear your reputation to high heaven in attempt to discredit you,

(2) recruit everyone they can to bully you, especially “friends,”

(3) attempt to destroy you by removing your support system,

(4) “get out ahead” of the truth about themselves by telling people an alternative narrative, paving the way to make the truth into lies.

Be prepared for an all-out war the likes of which you’ve never seen. The better your dirt on the narc, the deadlier their attack will be.

This is proven by this sentence I copied below!

“we have many, many more years together in this journey to expose your racist behavior to as many individuals as we can. Because remember, racist people like you need to be “called out.”

https://stellareddy.com/oops-i-did-it-again/

Toxic Adult Bullies has been accusing me of racism and bigotry for 4 years and 8 months now and I have yet to see any actual evidence of it. Where is it? Where are all the “forged” & “altered” documents they say were used, as well?

The incident at the Landlord and Tenant Board on September 26, 2017, at the hearing, is not actual evidence of his claims. They had no idea I would say any of that at the hearing, but it has become their main point that they say shows their claims. Where is all the evidence of this prior meeting and that I was “targeting’ them in my job after this alleged meeting?

Yes, I reacted badly at the hearing with LTB on Sept 26, 2017. I have never denied this. 

It is human nature to become defensive over hearing allegations against you, but Toxic Adult Bullies is taking that reaction and making a mountain out of a molehill, as they say. I don’t know how many times I have written this out and I am sure it won’t be the last either…

Yes, I appreciate and understand that what I said and did out of this defensiveness was inappropriate and I was willing to accept any consequences that could have been made by Human Rights for that action. I have stated as many times to them, to the Police, and even the Ombudsman Office when I spoke to them, to everyone. He even has this on the quote pages! I was desperate just to have it OVER and DONE!

As human beings, we all make mistakes and these mistakes should not have to follow that person for the rest of their lives because someone is taking it to use to terrorize them!

“DO SOMETHING ABOUT THIS ASS  OR I WILL, PRISON OR NOT.

” HOW ABOUT I CALL THE CHILDREN’S AID DOWN THE STREET  and make a claim that you abuse your children?

I AM EVEN WILLING TO GO TO JAIL, IF IT COMES TO THAT, if it also ensures that you and your family are held accountable for what you have done,

I will accept any form of punishment for myself gladly as long as you and your wife and YOUR CHILDREN are also punished.”

I admit my actions that day were not the best and it came about from the very strong emotions I experienced upon hearing details of some alleged prior meeting they claim we had at some restaurant. This is why Kevin Lundy said I was “oblivious” to what I said, as it was emotion-based. It is easy to see and hear in the recording, so please listen to it for yourself and make your own judgment.

I even told the Police at one point to come and arrest me as I was desperate to get out from under their constant barrage of documents and emails filled with degradation and accusation as I figured if I was in jail, I wouldn’t have to see any of it and could get some peace!

This recording will always remain in its entirety on this page I share below and I have a copy as well. It is over an hour long but very interesting to listen to. You can clearly hear my reaction to hearing details of this alleged meeting and know I am hearing all this for the very first time. Sue me for being human and having a strong emotional reaction to it, especially if you add this to the other stuff I had to listen to from them up till this point!

https://web.archive.org/web/20180805003756/http://859kennedyroad.com/

https://web.archive.org/web/20180805003756im_/http://859kennedyroad.com/court%20hearing.mp3
 

While Toxic Adult Bullies needs to take 14 pages to show what I did was wrong and not acceptable when I spoke of my Nephew, (not great-nephews & great-nieces eyes he shares online and talks about, but their father) I only need the audio he shared on the first 859kennedyroad.com website to show the truth. I am human and had a human reaction.

Toxic Adult Bullies proves himself that people are human and they get defensive when accused of something within these 14 pages…Why should I be any different? Should I be terrorized for it for the rest of my life within the content of these pages, all because Toxic Adult Bullies DEEMED that I should be?

I am a human being who had strong emotional reactions to hearing lies being told about her in a room full of strangers!  If I am not allowed to react, badly or otherwise, then I wouldn’t be human.  I am allowed to react to hearing such detailed lies about some prior meeting they were claiming we had, with the ability to quote what was said, but can’t remember the date of this meeting.

Toxic Adult Bullies had the opportunity to hold me to account for that reaction with their Human Rights applications, but when they walked away and ignored the Hearing on January 17, 2020, they lost all rights to get at me for anything I did. He walked from proving it, yet still continues online that he has.

Toxic Adult Bullies is also defensive within his content and has to take pages and pages filled with content to try and get you to see things his way, such as https://stellareddy.com/property-manager-page-1of5/ & https://stellareddy.com/show-me-your-friends-and-i-will-show-you-what-your-about-pt-1/

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