RePost: I Choose What To Believe!

This post was first written on May 10, 2022, and wanted to repost it, as it is still so very true. I am not responsible for toxic tenants comfort and I will never allow a Bully like that to ever convince me their interpretations of my “motivations” are true.

The new partial content on their site, stellareddy.com, claims that “after being called out” by these Tenants I “attempted to flee“. That is what they claim motivated me to move back to NL, as they will never acknowledge I ran away from them and their behaviour in my name. Their words in their content are always about me and what they claim I do, but they show nothing to prove their claims.

They have such a hard time admitting that they were trying to instigate people against me with their sites, they didn’t care about HRTO, they wanted the general public to come after me and they still do.

I LOVE the picture of me and my hubby that they are using, which they took from my Facebook. It was a picture I shared that I took from the Sugarloaf Trail we did a couple of years ago, you can see the harbour behind us. This picture reflects the happiness I felt that day for being where I was at that moment and you can tell. I don’t mind them sharing my pictures, they show how happy I am to be free of these people and how happy I am living here in NL!

After being called out for her racist attitudebehaviour and actions while working for Alto Properties. She attempted to flee her bigoted behavior and acts, by running back to her own province of St. Johns, Newfoundland.

https://stellareddy.com/

They won’t even admit they ignored the hearing that was held by HRTO for their applications, they prefer to act as if the files were still ongoing in this content. Yes, they filed applications against me, but they don’t say when they did that on their sites.

If they were honest people and cared about transparency, they would show they filed their applications against me 6 years ago, on June 4, 2018, and over the next 19 months, they did everything in their power not to have a hearing. When a hearing was scheduled for January 17, 2020, they didn’t even show up! Yet, here they are, still making their false claims against me in the public eye and even telling people they can research the subject and form their own conclusions. They don’t give anything for people to research so they could do that, but I do!

I do like this paragraph they added here though as it clearly states they are the only source of commentary on that site, and it is the same one they have on https://districtschoolboardofniagara.com/. I really like the last sentence of this, as their “best and most reasonable scenario” is so negative and filled with judgements, scorn, and ridicule. Even if I did anything nice, they would never say!

If you ever see comments like this at the top of a website, you know that the site is cyberbullying the target named within and was created to smear that person for everything they do and say, based on the writers’ personal opinions. They can’t prove what they say, but they have no problems saying it anyway.

Our family filed a complaint with the Human Rights Tribunal of Ontario and are the only source of commentary on this website. You are allowed to research the subject and form your own conclusions. Since we are unable to see in the minds of those invovled, we are unable to declare that our opinions are fact. Every opinion is predicated on what we believe to be the best and most reasonable case scenario.

https://stellareddy.com/


Don’t allow anyone to Bully you into believing their interpretations of your intentions. Some people are determined to misunderstand you, no matter what you do or say. It is their problem, not yours. You are not responsible to make others comfortable.

I am not responsible to make Toxic Adult Bullies comfortable. I have no accountability to them whatsoever!

I never did accept Adult Tenant Bullies’ implications of my motives, I never did believe that KR knew what I meant by anything I do or say, as I knew they were not a part of my life to know. My issue was that for a long time, I was the only one willing to speak up against them and what they do in my name.

I read their implications on my life and I wondered, Who are they, to even think they have a right to try and question my actions? It use to piss me off, to see his improbable implications on my life when he doesn’t even know me.

Just because KR claims Stella Reddy is a racist and a liar, it doesn’t mean a thing, as KR is not the adjudicator of Stella Reddy’s. He doesn’t even know Stella Reddy well enough to be able to make any informed opinions on her behavior, and he is not trained to determine such things.

His opinion is based on the personal judgments he made of Stella Reddy, it shows his own skewed views, and he shows he will never be willing to accept any evidence showing differently, no matter what it is or where it comes from.  

I know the Divisional Court decision clearly states there was no racism, yet KR wrote on his site’s contents, that there was. It is so easy to actually look at the decision online and see for yourself, but he will still say it does, as he has convinced himself of it. Just as he has convinced himself that I am racist and a liar, he will never see evidence showing I am not, no matter where it comes from.

Rather than accept even judicial systems decisions, he prefers to walk away and accuse them of collusion with me instead. The evidence of it is online in his domain contents.

These Toxic Tenants did apply to Human Rights of Ontario to try and have me determined as a racist, but he never did provide any evidence of such behavior, not in word or action, as there is nothing there! Just because he says it, don’t make it so.

After 19 months of the process, a hearing was finally set up in January 2020 to determine what evidence they had to prove their case, but they ignored it and didn’t show, so it was all dismissed. I know Toxic Tenants ignored the hearing as they knew I had enough evidence to disprove their accusations against me, each and every one of them, I was able to show did not occur as they say. Of course, they walked away, they didn’t want another loss! They knew they could never win that case.

I hated the process of HRTO, it was very invasive, but I got through it and did what I needed to do. Even with all the mental health issues I was having, I was there on the phone for the teleconference hearing that day and waited over an hour for them to show up, but they never did.

I was not afraid of the outcome, I knew there was nothing they could do. I had no concerns about the outcome of this process, not like the others. I knew that HRTO was a waste of time and even if they had shown up for the hearing by phone that day, they never had any evidence of racism being shown towards them. I was very confident of the outcome of this process.

I may have avoided them and their apartment after the hearing where they got evicted, but I did that for my own personal safety, and cause I could. To me, once they were evicted, Appeal or not, they were no longer tenants I had to concern myself with anymore.

Even the City Inspectors left us alone over the maintenance in there, as they accepted there was no need to stress me out with still trying to get the work done and face more possible aggression from them. I refused to deal with them, and so did the owners, so they were ignored. As for their requests that came for a copy of their tenant file? I wasn’t obligated to give it to them, at the time I no longer worked there, nor was the Property Management they hired after I quit, as they had nothing to do with that process.

You see, they were legally evicted. They applied for an Appeal on that eviction, but that appeal just put it on hold, it didn’t cancel it and make them tenants still. All while the Appeal was ongoing with Divisional Court, their tenancy was on “hold”, which meant I didn’t have to deal with them nor respond to any requests, as they were not technically tenants anymore. I had to deal with emergency issues for the property, but that was it, nothing for them as they were no longer considered tenants.

What got to me the most, was the fact that other people were willing to give in to Bullying. So many others were afraid of saying anything, as they didn’t want Toxic Tenants to turn on them too. It is nuts how such terrible behaviour can control the actions of someone else.

To know that if you speak up and go against KR and what he says, will cause him to turn on you, as he did with so many others in the past, even online on Facebook. You question him and you get his wrath. That’s all his sites are about, showing his wrath for not giving him what he wanted!

Do you know what other people’s main issue was?” Not to give them more ammunition to use against me“. I heard that phrase so often over this situation, but I had seen and accepted what no one else would back then, that it didn’t matter what I said or did, these Tenant Bullies would take it and twist it with their nasty implications anyway! I could have said the nicest things, yet they will take it and twist it to sound ugly, as it is the lens of hate and resentment through which they see me.

This created a poisoned working environment for me and over time, it got to me, but I still refused to give in. The internet is littered with my anger in the past and the times I tried to stand up for myself! Each and every time, I was shot down by others and told to even shut up by some. I did go quiet for a time, many times, but I always came back and shared my story. It was only this time, I was able to fight the dissonance and keep it online, as I know it is important to my mental health.

Now, I ignore anyone who tells me to “stay quiet” and let time make all this disappear. Anyone who complains about my site, and its contents, I ignore these days, as they didn’t live in this situation, I did. They were not the ones being mentally affected, I was. It isn’t their story to tell, nor it is their right to tell me NOT to tell it.

My response now to anyone who complains about anything I do? Don’t look and you won’t be bothered. If you don’t like what I write, don’t read it. 

All I see now is that KR became so ashamed that his actions of refusal of entry caused his family to be evicted, he couldn’t handle it so is projecting the fault of their eviction onto me instead. 

KR has convinced himself, his wife, his kids, and his flying monkeys, that I made up their actions of refusal of access, and that I targeted them out of racism. I lied and cheated and was in cahoots with so many other people in different agencies to help me evict them, all illegally. They convinced themselves that I misled the tribunal over their many consistent refusals of access and that they had a legitimate reason to deny entry when it was asked for, that they were within their rights to deny entry, all the time.

I will never give in to the bullying ways of these Adult Tenant Bullies, as they don’t deserve any consideration from me. I will continue to share all the ways they Bullied me, online and off, as it is my right.

No one will ever shut me up again.


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