Grateful for Changing Mentalities!
Behavioral modification, changing how I look at something done by another, like Kory Read with stellareddy.com, is so important to my mental health recovery and articles like this help a lot! Context is the key in how we take things, isn’t it?
I have come to see the domain stellareddy.com, and the others, as proof these days as a compliment! I changed how I look at it!
In order for me to move forward, I have been coming to accept I need to change how I look at this domain of stellareddy.com. When in counselling I have always been told that it isn’t so much what happens, it’s how you react to it, that is important.
I have reacted to the psychological abuse with stellareddy.com from Kory Read & Allison Read with defensiveness. Trying to lay out the truth of the situation based on evidence of their eviction, trying to show they are lying to cover up their own actions. I went nuts trying to prove they lied. I have learned I don’t need to do any of that, as it isn’t important. People are going to believe what they want anyway.
I have said the truth is in the released orders and that is where it should stay, as it is there. http://canlii.ca/t/hpbxw
I realized all I need to do is explain their tactics and why they use them. Show how they fit the terms of a Narcissist on a Smear Campaign by gaslighting and triangulation. Kory Read’s content online within his domains, and even in the emails he sent, show all these traits I highlight on this site. You get to see these traits in action!
Kory Read gloats about renewing this domain in my name, stellareddy.com, for another 2 yrs till April 2023 so I have decided to take that as a compliment! He is so obsessed with me and my family, he continually spends money on a domain in my personal name where the contents are about me!
Even all the topics are about me! They wrote so much about me and my life, they must have found something really interesting about me they have to highlight!
If you notice, the last few topics all came about since I started my own site, first with stellareddy.ga then with this one, on another server. Every time Kory Read conned my server into removing my site, he gloats about it on a new page on this domain.
The last 2 topics is Kory Read’s confession for his bullying ways of me, online and in person.
Since he made this admission below, it has freed me in such a dramatic way I am still absorbing it! He shows his obsessional stalking he has done of me and anyone to do with me. He goads, manipulates and triangulates me anyway he can to get to my psyche like he use too, not realizing his tactics is giving himself away.
Stella Reddy claims that she is currently mentally sick, but she was not mentally sick when getting our family evicted. Nope, Stella Reddy was of sound mind and strong will.
Only after filing with the Human Rights and creating this website did Stella Reddy start playing the pity boo-hoo card of I was not mentally in the right place. Very convenient it was.
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I have become such a driving force in Kory Read & Allison Read’s lives, they can’t go a day without thinking about me, reading about me, or writing about me! They created the perfect way to obsess over me, in stellareddy.com, and the other domains!
He can’t log into his computer without seeing my name, everywhere! What a compliment, knowing I am such an important person to them they have to obsess over every aspect of my life.
To think that I am so important to him that he spends so much time, money, and energy on writing about me in these domains, he just had to renew the ability to do it for another 2 yrs! Wow! When you look at it that way, it changes your whole outlook!
I must be such a threat to Kory Read and his ability to con people that he has to make such a effort to take me out, as he has tried to do in all these sites since November 2, 2017, implying I was the problem and not his own actions. To think, he has been obsessed for almost 5 years when you look at it that way!
He is so engrossed in my life he even had to make a domain in my personal name to look at every day on his own personal computer, that is how obsessed he has become. In this domain, he tries to list all the things wrong about me, trying to convince you that Stella Reddy is such a racist lying bitch because he can’t stand the thought that it was his own actions that got his family evicted. The words are there everywhere!! Then look at the other domains and see how I am the subject in all of them!
The recurrent theme is Stella Reddy in all these domains!
He has been caught out, shown that “inconveniencing“ him with entry is not a good excuse to refuse, and is what caused their eviction, not anything I did or didn’t do. The more they write to hide this action, the more prominent it becomes.
“ Once again you set the time and the date for your convenience, and once again you failed to show up as scheduled. In the future I will inform you when I will be able to allow you access to my unit regarding the window. As this is not an emergency issue, there is certainly no sense of urgency that would require it to be done immediately which would inconvenience me and family.”
Kory Read & Allison Read made stellareddy.com to try and influence people against me but all it shows is his personal obsessions with me in how, and where, I live my life and what I accomplish in it. There is no need for them to write about this situation anymore, it is over and nothing will ever change it. By continuing, they prove without a doubt what they are and what they are doing against me.
stellareddy.com and the other domains belong to Kory Read & Allison Read and the contents within them is a reflection of themselves and their own way of thinking, no one else. As they have obsessively kept them online since November 2, 2017, even changing servers whenever they had to due to my complaints about PII, shows just how important I am to them and their lives.
It does help to think this way, accepting that Kory Read writes on stellareddy.com not because I was bad, but because I was too good at my job and stuck to my guns and made them accountable for their actions of refusing entry, which is breaking the rules of apartment living!
As I said before, stellareddy.com, and the other domains, have become a joke, something to laugh at for the extremes they they show Kory Read & Allison Read will go too!
What you need to understand and keep in mind when regarding narcissists is that they are gossipers because they have no lives. constantly talk about others to make them feel better about themselves or to get people on their side.
A normal person would approach and communicate with you. They will attempt to resolve things, not destroy your character and reputation.
They gossip and spread rumors about you because they want to earn the trust of others by seeming the victim. Remember that they are the perpetrators of cruelty and you need to use your voice to stand up for yourself.
Another reason why they engage in the smear campaign is because they have been found out and will do what they can to convince people that YOU ARE THE BAD GUY. This is so that they continue their bad behavior on people who have no idea what they are capable of. It is a form of damage control for the narcissist because you have them figured out.