Spotting A Narcissist Online, Like Kory Read!

It is for words that Kory Read shares on his own domains, that show the Narcissistic Traits I learned about and what is in this article below. I don’t need to speculate on what any of it means, as he shows his intentions very deliberately and openly!
The Big Picture
If you are dealing with a narcissist online, you will see these behaviors quite clearly. Next time, don’t be fooled about who might be narcissistic or assume that the person posting pictures of themselves is more narcissistic than the person bullying them for doing so. It is the narcissist’s toxic behavior towards others, online or in real life, especially innocent parties, which speaks volumes about who they are.
I don’t take saying that Kory Read is a Narcissist, lightly, as I know how labels placed by others, can hurt and seem unfair. I say Kory Read is Narcissistic, as my own doctor, a Psychiatrist, said he was, based on the writings he read and the online domains, and based on other professionals telling me the same. I heard this term from various people over the past 6 years, not just my doctor, then and now, but also from other people who have read Kory Read’s writings. So, no I don’t place that term upon them lightly. I do it based on 6 years of research, reading, and having qualified professionals tell me they see the traits on display, and whom point it out to me, so I can see it for myself!
I saw this Doctor from November 2018 till the pandemic shut me down in February 2020 and my counselling went virtual. This doctor, read every single piece of paper I ever got from Kory & Allison Read, right from the beginning. Every email, every letter, every legal application, so yes there was quite a bit of documentation written by Kory Read for him to see and read. This was the Doctor who first told me about Narcissism. I also had a member of the HRTO, also ask me if I was familiar with narcissism and suggested that I should read up on it!
The picture I share below, I took when I was tearing up all the printed documents I had for my Doctor. It was quite a bit of paper and I filled 2 garbage bags with it! Yes, it was a waste, but he wanted it printed so he could write on it! It was important to me that he read all these missives, even all the legal documents and applications, so I know I was not going crazy, they did write what I thought they did!

I had a lot of fun ripping that all up after I got the Dismissal Notice in the mail!!! It was quite a stack! I have it all on my computer still….
As I said before, I had a hard time wrapping my head around their antics, there was no personal boundaries, at all, as they didn’t respect any. They were Tenants, not friends, not even co-workers, so had no idea about my personal life, yet, they proceed to talk about it in such detail, like they were a part of it!
Which leads me to the article below that I found that talks about what to look for, on the internet. Spotting a narcissistic person online, has become easy for me these days. They are not the people posting selfies and posting achievements they attain, but the people tearing down someone for posting their own selfies and achievements! You will always find the Narcissistic personality, in the comment section, dissing that person for what they posted! Or, you will find the Narcissist as a Anonymous Administrator of other sites, about other people!
Narcissistic people, like Kory Read, are often the ones Bullying, Harassing, and Stalking others in cyberspace!
In stellareddy.com, you will find Kory Read exercising his sense of entitlement by trying to police my actions, and shaming me! By showing how extremely self-righteous and judgemental he is being, as he believes I deserve the treatment or brought it on myself. He never accepts responsibility for anything he does, especially those domains and its contents!
They will disguise this as self-righteous indignation when in reality, it is jealousy and envy at the root. Normal, empathic people do not go out of their way to harass strangers online, especially if those strangers are not doing anything to harm others. Envious and narcissistic individuals, however, will do so with fury in order to dampen another person’s enthusiasm or ruin an innocent person’s day.
Kory Read claims ultraism, shows such self-righteous indignation over what he perceives I said and did, when in reality, Kory Read is jealous and envious over the very fact that I stood up to him and wouldn’t let him Bully me and allow him to control entry. Kory Read did the domain, stellareddy.com, out of his FURY over the LTB and Divisional Court, not just trying to ruin my day, but my LIFE!
I came to see that Normal people don’t go out of their way to make and post a domain on the internet, in someone else’s personal name, where the contents are about that person, all written by an Anonymous “Administrator”, like Kory Read has done with stellareddy.com, 859kennedyroad.com, davidstrashin.com, sjtomemberkevinlundy.com. I didn’t do anything to Kory Read, except for the one thing he hated most of all, which is evicting them, especially for their own actions! I did my job and enforced the rules of apartment living and he just could not stand it. stellareddy.com, and its content, are evidence of that!
Narcissists will try to police even what complete strangers are doing, and take great pride in doing so.
Kory Read thinks he can POLICE my actions and even calls his site, and himself, the TRUTH speaker of Stella Reddy. Kory Read is trying to police me, a total stranger, and takes great pride in doing so!
This is how you know someone has narcissistic traits: the sheer entitlement it takes to go on a stranger’s profile and attempt to dictate what they post, or worse, shame them for doing so, speaks to their lack of empathy and excessive need for control.
The sheer entitlement it took for Kory Read to make and post a domain, in my personal name, and attempt to dictate what I post on my own site, or do in my personal life, and shame me for doing anything at all, speaks to their lack of empathy and excessive need for control, of ME!
The sheer entitlement it took for Kory Read to bash a this “Trevor” person on Facebook for commenting on his “poll” he had there, also showed this trait! I have a lot of examples to choose from that show this trait from Kory Read.
Welcome back to StellaReddy.com
So after being offline for 4 months. It is time to bring back the truth speaker.. StellaReddy.com
Now the site was offline as a test to Stella Reddy. Which of coarse she failed as always.
You see Stella Reddy has always complained about the sites being up and how inaccurate they are in their depiction of her racist behavior and beliefs. There are countless times that Stella Reddy has said if the sites “were gone” she would move on with her life.
Well the sites were gone for 4 months and what did Stella Reddy do?
Read Chapter 20 and your find out.
Perhaps the least surprising behavior narcissists engage in online is cyberbullying and trolling. Narcissists online enjoy bullying others and derive a sadistic sense of pleasure in doing so. They post provocative comments, disturbing threats, and mind-blowingly cruel insults.
Look at the contents of stellareddy.com, davidstrashin.com, sjtomemberkevinlundy.com, and 859kennedyroad.com, rooseveltskerrit.com, socialjustcetribunalontario.ca, and see the Bullying of others and the sadistic sense of pleasure in doing so. Within those domains, they post provocative comments, disturbing threats, and mind-blowingly cruel insults!
Within this content, Kory Read shows his trolling actions as he shared the evidence of it with pictures, addresses, and telephone numbers of so many people, not just me. He had to go trolling on the internet to find these items he shared there! How do you think Kory Read found all the Conduct review on David strashin, if he didn’t go trolling the internet to find them?
In short? The reason trolls and cyberbullies are able to abuse others so effectively (or at the very least persistently) is because they derive a sick sense of pleasure from harming others and do not suffer any negative emotional consequences themselves from inflicting pain. While not all trolls are created equal, those who are psychopathic and narcissistic are psychologically dangerous to those they target.
Narcissists online don’t just “stop” at trolling. They also resort to harassment and stalking online if they don’t get the attention they require. It’s common for a narcissist to create multiple anonymous accounts to persistently badger the people who threaten their false sense of superiority and entitlement.They will stalk people on multiple social media platforms, leave insulting and threatening comments, write public commentary misrepresenting the person, business, or brand, and try to “overtake” the sense of safety someone feels online.
Narcissists also don’t take “no” for an answer – to them, boundaries do not exist and do not need to be honored. They believe exploitation is a reasonable way to get their needs met. These are the types who will send you excessive messages online demanding a response, even if you do not know them, guilt-tripping you into believing you have to “serve” them. That’s because they feel entitled to your time and your energy, regardless of whether or not you actually owe them anything.
Kory Read showed a lot of evidence on these list of domains, of his harassment and stalking he does, not just with me, but with others. He wouldn’t have the info he shares on the contents there, if he didn’t Stalk myself and others, on the internet. He never respects any personal boundaries, either. It was a professional situation, but he made it very personal! He created a very elaborate Smear Campaign!
With their anonymous domains, Kory Read is writing a public commentary to misrepresent the person, business, or brand, and try to “overtake” the sense of safety someone feels online.
Kory Read refuses to take “no” for an answer, even refuses to accept the legal determinations released, that he applied for! Kory Read is exploiting myself and others, for his own personal gain!
I have, and shared, the numerous messages from Kory Read, demanding a response, trying to guilt trip me into believing I have to “serve” him and give them what he demands. Like the handwritten note that was with the application that Kory Read kept emailing me about, demanding I sent it to him.
Abusive narcissists can create numerous anonymous accounts to troll and stalk their former victims on their various social media platforms, post the victims intimate photos or personal information, hack into their accounts, stage smear campaigns online, or even create fake accounts of the victim in an attempt to ruin the victims reputation. There are many ways in which this form of stalking can escalate online and it can be an unsettling ordeal for victims who simply wish to escape the abuse, only to find themselves bombarded with traumatizing e-mails, messages or comments which ensnare them back into the vicious cycle.
I have evidence of Kory Read trying to “friend” me and other family members, by using his “DJ NotNice” account, his “bird and worm web design” account on social media, to get access to our personal info so he could steal it and use it on his domain. Kory Read posted my personal info, not just on the domains he owns, but also on Facebook and other social media I found and had removed. He shared 859kennedyroad.com, all over different groups on Facebook!
Narcissists enjoy pitting people against one another
This is triangulation and a tactic I am very familiar with from Kory Read! It is in every email sent to anyone, with a request to “check” my behaviour, especially with the property owners.
Kory Read is famous for sharing my personal details with others, on the internet, in email, in documents, in legal applications, and in person, with the request that they “control” my actions. He is a Tattle-Tale! Loves to go running to other people, especially on the internet, and tell them all the outlandish and completely outrageous, actions being done by someone else, that they attest they are doing. You don’t see any prove of their claims, just their words of suspicion! Then, he expects others to “control” me and stop me from doing anything, especially my hubsand!
They play on your emotions. Moreover, many find the game of getting the better of you amusing and satisfying. In short, they enjoy toying with you. Manipulative narcissists lack empathy. They don’t care how you feel or how you’re impacted by their behavior. All they care about is having their way with you. It feeds their already inflated ego to do so. To them, successfully manipulating you attests to their superiority.”
You can tell, Kory Read likes to “toy” with people and shows no empathy. He plays on people’s emotions. His domain alone, shows he don’t care how I feel nor how I am impacted by their behaviour. Kory Read gloats in telling you I am “fake” and my PTSD is “imaginary“, among other things. My site is filled with all the things Kory Read falsely accuses me of and how it affected me, but he shows he don’t care.
It feeds Kory Read already inflated ego to manipulate me and show how he “owns” me. I had to research the meaning of that post I share below. It took awhile for the meaning of it to sink in, but I finally got it!
http://web.archive.org/web/20211021165830/https://stellareddy.com/stalker-stella/
YEAP!!! But that is okay, we enjoy this game of cat and mouse with her and her husband Russell Reddy. We enjoy owning Stella Reddy and Russell Reddy and having them devote their entire days, weeks, months, years, and literally their lives to us. Stella Reddy goes to bed thinking about us, and wakes up thinking about us, and that is good enough for us.
I refuse to accept Kory Read determinations, on anyone. Kory Read is on a Power Trip, thinking he is superior to everyone. His words even show how he thinks his whole family is superior to everyone else! He gloats, all the time, about how “perfect” he is and how his children will become Doctors and “be more productive in society”.
His personal determinations he has made playing Judge, Jury, and Executioner, have gone to his head!
If you had any doubts about Kory Read and Narcissism, this post he wrote, that I share above, will erase any doubts, as it did for me. Nothing else showed me Narcissistic traits than this sense of Superiority he shows in this post, about “owning” me.
There is nothing in this world that Kory Read could have over me that he can ever use to FORCE me to do whatever he wants!
In slang, to own someone is “ to totally ridicule, embarrass, or defeat” them.
It means that someone has something over another person so that he can force that person to do whatever he wants. Polite honest people would never have a reason to say “I own you” to another person in this way. It is also sometimes used as a chiding cry of victory between competitors in a game.
My life isn’t a game to be played with, no matter how self-righteous Kory Read thinks he is!
https://stellareddy.xyz/adult-bullies-claim-our-family-owns-you-to-stella-reddy/
Can You Spot A Narcissist Online? 3 Surprising Behaviors Which Reveal Predators in Cyberspace
You might stereotype a narcissist’s behavior online as simply vain or self-absorbed. Yet the image of the selfie-taking narcissist does not cut it when it comes to how a narcissist truly behaves online. People share pictures of themselves online for various reasons; special occasions, meeting a new fitness goal, or capturing a confident moment. Real narcissists aren’t the ones taking selfies – they are often the ones bullying, harassing, and stalking others in cyberspace. Here are three behaviors that narcissists online engage in and how you can spot one on the internet:
1. Policing, controlling, and shaming others.
Perhaps one of the most underhanded ways that narcissists, especially female narcissists, exercise their entitlement is by policing and shaming others. As author and bullying prevention expert Sherri Gordon notes in an article distinguishing between true narcissists and the garden-variety self-centered person on the internet:
“Teens are often labeled narcissistic because of the multitude of selfies and over-the-top posts on Instagram and Twitter. But experts indicate there is a difference between self-centered teens who post excessively on social media and a true narcissist. In fact, there is much more to narcissism than having an inflated sense of self-importance. Besides self-centeredness, narcissists also exhibit some distinct characteristics that make them prone to controlling and bullying others…Narcissists also are extremely self-righteous and judgmental of other people. As a result, when they bully others, they often believe that the victim deserves the treatment or brought it on themselves. Consequently, they never take responsibility for their choices to hurt other people.”
For a narcissist online or in real life, it’s all about micromanaging and controlling others. Policing what others post, however innocuous those posts may be, and shaming them for it is one popular way narcissists get their sadistic “fix” online. It’s not uncommon for a female narcissist, for example, to criticize, insult, judge and shame other women on what pictures they are taking or posting on social media, especially if such posts evoke their pathological envy. They will disguise this as self-righteous indignation when in reality, it is jealousy and envy at the root. Normal, empathic people do not go out of their way to harass strangers online, especially if those strangers are not doing anything to harm others. Envious and narcissistic individuals, however, will do so with fury in order to dampen another person’s enthusiasm or ruin an innocent person’s day.
Narcissists will try to police even what complete strangers are doing, and take great pride in doing so. Male narcissists, too, can shame others (especially women) in a similar fashion, as narcissism in heterosexual males has been associated with misogyny and lashing out at heterosexual women (Keiller, 2010). This will not come as shocking news to any woman who has been trolled online and been subjected to violent threats and put-downs if she dares to speak out or basically exist on any online platform
Contrary to popular belief, it’s not the person posting the selfie, sharing good news, or writing an outspoken social media post you should be worried about: it’s the bully in the comments section who is degrading him or her excessively for daring to exist online. This is how you know someone has narcissistic traits: the sheer entitlement it takes to go on a stranger’s profile and attempt to dictate what they post, or worse, shame them for doing so, speaks to their lack of empathy and excessive need for control.
2. Cyberbullying and trolling.
Perhaps the least surprising behavior narcissists engage in online is cyberbullying and trolling. Narcissists online enjoy bullying others and derive a sadistic sense of pleasure in doing so. They post provocative comments, disturbing threats, and mind-blowingly cruel insults. They have long histories of serial cyberbullying, much of which should warrant prison time. These are the “professional” trolls whose online identities exist purely for the purpose of taunting others, especially those who are already marginalized.
Research has shown that those who enjoy trolling also happen to have high levels of narcissism, sadism, psychopathy and Machiavellianism, known as the Dark Tetrad of personality (Buckels, Trapnell & Paulhus, 2014).This means that the same narcissists and psychopaths you encounter in real life could very well also be doling out their abuse behind the computer screen.
An even more recent study revealed that while trolls have the cognitive empathy to assess how someone might feel about their insulting comments, they lack the affective empathy to actually care about how that other person might feel (Sest & March, 2017). The same study showed that higher levels of sadism and psychopathy predicted trolling behavior. The higher someone scored on psychopathy, the more likely they were able to recognize and provoke the suffering of their victims but remain emotionally indifferent to it. Unsurprisingly, the same conclusion about cognitive empathy versus affective empathy has been shown for narcissists in another study (Wai & Tiliopoulos, 2012).
In short? The reason trolls and cyberbullies are able to abuse others so effectively (or at the very least persistently) is because they derive a sick sense of pleasure from harming others and do not suffer any negative emotional consequences themselves from inflicting pain. While not all trolls are created equal, those who are psychopathic and narcissistic are psychologically dangerous to those they target.
3. Harassment, stalking, and boundary-breaking love triangles.
Narcissists online don’t just “stop” at trolling. They also resort to harassment and stalking online if they don’t get the attention they require.
It’s common for a narcissist to create multiple anonymous accounts to persistently badger the people who threaten their false sense of superiority and entitlement. They will stalk people on multiple social media platforms, leave insulting and threatening comments, write public commentary misrepresenting the person, business, or brand, and try to “overtake” the sense of safety someone feels online.
Narcissists also don’t take “no” for an answer – to them, boundaries do not exist and do not need to be honored. They believe exploitation is a reasonable way to get their needs met. These are the types who will send you excessive messages online demanding a response, even if you do not know them, guilt-tripping you into believing you have to “serve” them. That’s because they feel entitled to your time and your energy, regardless of whether or not you actually owe them anything.
Domestic Violence and Cyberstalking
It’s not just complete strangers who can behave this way, either. Many victims of malignant narcissistic partners also find themselves harassed, stalked and bullied online by their former partners, especially if these victims left their abusers first.