Smear Campaigns: 5 Years Later stellareddy.com

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Hello and Welcome to My Story! 

My name is Stella Reddy and I am recovering from a nasty Narcissistic Smear Campaign that some Tenant Adult Bullies started online in November 2, 2017.  859kennedyroad.com. This domain was the first and  over time, there were more domains added, including the one in my personal name of stellareddy.com in April 2019.

Update: All these domains lost the hosting in November 2021, but have been slowly returning on a Parked Domain, mostly they are being sent to the Internet Archive and what they previously had online. Feb 22, 2022 they did put stellareddy.com back online, but it was removed the same day, and all again March 2, 2022. I do believe it will return. As long as all those domains that make up their Smear Campaign are still registered for use, this site will be here. I wasn’t as specific in the past, just said as long as they remain, so will mine. As long as stellareddy.com and the rest, are registered for use, they can return online, just like they have, even with new content. These Adult Tenant Bullies should have known what I meant, but I guess not. 

In the end, they made 6 domains that contained my name within the contents. I have come to accept it is a Smear Campaign done by Narcissists who are very toxic.

I have learned a lot over the past years about Smear Campaigns and Cyberbullying, all done by Adults. I have studied Narcissism, Gaslighting, Triangulation, Manipulation and other traits used by Adult Bullies in their attempts to get out ahead. I have read blogs done by others, psychological texts, and speak to counsellors and specialists. I first learned of Narcissism from my Psychiatrist in Ontario in 2018. 

I have managed since to recover my Mental Health after such an onslaught against me to the point where I am no longer triggered by their actions into an emotional mess. I am learning to regulate my emotions, therefore my reactions. 

I am still angry over some of their actions, and I have a right to be. They took personal info they gained during the Human Rights process and shared it online for strangers to gawk at. It wasn’t his info to share, nor was it his to invalidate. Everything Kory & Allison Read did to me and my name, was wrong. 

I have been severely Gaslighted, by TENANTS! 

Gaslighting is a form of manipulation that often occurs in abusive relationships. It is a covert type of emotional abuse where the bully or abuser misleads the target, creating a false narrative and making them question their judgments and reality

tenants, not personal, but professional
  1. a person who occupies land or property rented from a landlord.

Every page within these domains contain severe Gaslighting and Invalidation of Stella Reddy, as it tells you how I feel, what I think, what I mean, giving me motives, insisting I am lying and twisting everything I said. 

There is so much Kory Read and Allison Read wrote within all their domains that show their deliberate Gaslighting and Invalidation of Stella Reddy. 

Gaslighting

There were 6 domains online posted by the same Anonymous Administrator. I share all of it within the following pages. It is a very elaborate Smear Campaign! They all went offline November 16, 2021, but are still registered and some have been renewed. They will return in time, it is what they do. 

I have  exposed their ownership of these nasty domains, that are now all offline. They were saved to the Internet Archive and that is where these links will take you. 

Kory Read & Allison Read don’t know me personally, they were never a part of my personal life, were just tenants living in the building I lived and worked in. We never socialized, never had any dealings outside of my job I did there for 2 years. Yet, they claim to know me so intimately, to imply what he does in the contents. 

They are trying to GASLIGHT you into thinking they know me! 

I knew that in time these domains would disappear, which is why I saved it all on the Internet Archive. I did it as I didn’t want the evidence of my Bullies actions to disappear completely. Links are below so you won’t have to look.

Read it and make up your own minds on what these people are attempting to do to me and my life! I share it all, not just what I want you to see!

It’s important to document what others do against you. I have every document, email, website contents, even other sites they personally owned so you can see they all came from the same place! I have found a lot of evidence that shows who owns those domains, as it wasn’t me like they are implying it is! Gaslighting is so insidious, it makes you question everything so I share it all here. They are not Anonymous anymore. Even if these domains show back online, we all know who owns them, as there is no need for anyone else to have personally named domains like that. 

Why would anyone else, besides me as that Stella Reddy, have a domain in that name, filled with her personal pictures, addresses, emails, and very personal information? It is my info there, but I didn’t do this domains nor any of its contents. 

Most people have a hard time believing such viciousness exists as it’s hard to wrap your mind around this man’s actions, all done under the cloak of anonymity. 

The people Kory Read writes about in these sites do not exist. These writings all come from Kory Read’s mind, based on his own personal perceptions. Kory Read is trying to gaslight you into believing he knows me well  enough to claim what he does within the content.

Kory Read & Allison Read engage in severe Gaslighting  and Invalidation of so many people, all in attempts to convince you that his version of events is the absolute truth and everyone else is wrong, even the judicial systems of Ontario. 

The last post done by Kory Read on October 22, 2021, tells the truth but he didn’t realized it till it was too late and he couldn’t take it back. He finally admits to his actions and my own words tell the tale of how it affected me! It was not long after this post that they all got suspended! 

Kory Read has always maintained that it is all an act, that I am so inhuman that his words and actions have no effect on me, “Stella Reddy is a performer who puts on whatever face/mask is needed for the time. It is that plan, and it is that simple. This website drives her crazy because it exposes just that, her act. 

This sentence tells you so much about this writer, Kory Read. Here he is claiming that he KNOWS this is the ONLY reason possible for me to get upset over the contents of his domains? Tell me, please, how would Kory Read know any of this? He don’t.

Kory Read knows what his actions from August 2016 till now has done to my psyche. He knows how badly his gaslighting confused me, made me question my sense of reality, and damaged my self-esteem. He knows what his constant word salad and twisting of everything I said, did to me and my frustration level. He knows all these things, as I told him throughout the process of HRTO. He did it anyway. 

Kory Read did all these things to me, deliberately. 

He knows that his actions caused severe mental distress and he knows what he did that started it and put me through hell with his severe gaslighting for 19 months, for no reason. He had no intention of showing up for any hearing where he would be expected to prove his claims, against anyone. He thought his words would just be accepted due to the nature of it and he had high hopes that his domains would cause people to come after me. After all, he included everything needed for people to find me with address, telephone number, a map of the property and pictures!

Kory Read tried so hard to instigate people into action against me, you can see his baiting within by sharing info to find me and my family. He hoped the climate at the time would cause someone to become so upset with his allegations that someone would attack me. Why else share how to find us, if he wasn’t wanting someone to use the info?

Kory Read spent 19 months trying to gaslight everyone into accepting what he says, changing situations to fit his perceptions and ignoring the facts right there in front of him.

He was delusional and expected people to accept his delusions, as the truth. Yes, I am sure my mental health issues are very convenient to have… I am sorry but that comment shows what such lack of empathy for anyone with mental health problems, it helped cement what a Narcissist he is.  

Stella Reddy claims that she is currently mentally sick, but she was not mentally sick when getting our family evicted. Nope, Stella Reddy was of sound mind and strong will.

Only after filing with the Human Rights and creating this website did Stella Reddy start playing the pity boo-hoo card of I was not mentally in the right place. Very convenient it was.


Legal Actions from November 2017 till January 2020

My Bullies got mad they were evicted for their consistent refusal of access to the apartment. Order released October 3, 2017 and this Smear Campaign is revenge for this eviction.    http://canlii.ca/t/hpbxw

My Bullies tried to Appeal with Divisional Court in October 2017 and the hearing held February 2019, 18 months later, they LOST!     http://canlii.ca/t/hzs47 and  http://canlii.ca/t/j2z21

My Bullies even filed with Human Rights of Ontario in June 2018 and decided after 19 months not to bother to show up for the hearing finally scheduled January 2020!    http://canlii.ca/t/j4z4w

They didn’t show up for the HRTO hearing as they knew they were losing!    http://canlii.ca/t/hz14r

If you bother to read any of their content online you will notice that My Bullies dehumanizes each individual he names with labels and put downs yet never admits to their own actions that got them evicted in the first place. Of course, they refuse to admit their actions got them evicted! 

My Bully doesn’t even bring up that they always refused access that got them before the LTB!

The first website showed up November 2, 2017 of  https://web.archive.org/web/20180805003756/http://859kennedyroad.com/ and it has expanded ever since. I have saved all versions of each domain on the web archive of  https://web.archive.org/ if you want to see how each have changed over the years!


You want to see a nasty smear campaign in action and see the effects it has on a person? Read these sites, then my own, and you will see what a Narcissistic Smear Campaign can do to you!

I have since learned that they are usually started by desperate people trying to blame others for bad things in their lives. Kory & Allison Read were facing eviction due to refusing access they admit to doing, so had to try and come up with some story to validate why they did that. They decided to try and triangulate me with the Internet where they try to Gaslight people into believing he knows me and others well enough to claim what he has online that we did.

They had to try and cover up their actions with by putting the focus on someone else, namely me.

I was very angry for a long time over what they did and it has taken me this long to come to terms with it and accept that it was my own EGO that caused me to be so upset.

Ego is what causes individuals to become defensive and I was very defensive. I was stunned that total strangers felt comfortable enough to create such outlandish lies about me and gaslight so much. I had put so much into building my reputation in the property management industry for 18 yrs and some stranger was doing his best to ruin it, by Gaslighting you into believing his narratives.

That was my biggest mistake, as a job is was not the total of my life, though it felt like it at times. I was not there to allow tenants to ignore the rules cause it was inconvenient for them! Kory Read wanted to control entry at all times and it don’t work that way. You can see it all laid out online in https://socialjusticetribunalsontario.ca.stellareddy.com/ . https://web.archive.org/web/*/socialjusticetribunalsontario.ca

I am not that angry anymore, I worked out most of my angst by writing this site and all its contents. Some content in here is very angry and that’s okay, I had a right to be. Kory Read was very arrogant, acting as if his version is the only one! There are always 2 sides to everything!

Now, I just pity them, as they have proven themselves to be untrustworthy and liars. Doing to others what they have done online just gives them away, not anyone else. They show with their nasty words, on so many different personally named domains, just what type of people they are! Kory Read shows his tactics with Gaslighting, Triangulation, Baiting and Bashing, and outright lies. He shows my crazy defensiveness to his allegations, not what he wrote that got that response. Kory Read is a Narcissist.

Kory Read will never be satisfied with his life, his writings tell you he will always find some excuse to blame someone else for his personal shortcomings! If he don’t get something he wants, its someone else’s fault, never his own!

Every page below contains Gaslighting of Stella Reddy by Kory & Allison Read. Once you know what it is, how it looks, you cannot unsee it, ever again.

Within these pages, Kory Read, as anonymous administrator, is Gaslighting you into believing his narratives occurred as he claims and he completely Invalidates Stella Reddy as another person with thoughts, feelings, and opinions of her own.

Even their page https://web.archive.org/web/20200816110445/https://stellareddy.com/newfoundland-and-racism/ is about trying to shame me into thinking I am responsible for all racism in Newfoundland. Why else put it there? 

Newfoundland And Racism

Kory Read even got so intimidated by a comment from one of my readers, he had to try and discredit her too! The content within these pages are filled with GASLIGHTING! Kory Read enjoys speculating and putting all his personal opinions online like it is the absolute truth! We all by now it is not. 

They treat so many other people like shit, put them down and degrade them as individuals with their personal opinions and suppositions. Kory & Allison Read show the world with their words just what type of people they are, as normal people don’t do these things to others. Normal people don’t viciously attack someone else by making and posting a domain, in their own personal name, in order to psychological abuse them with! That is all these domains are about, to ABUSE others with their contents! Kory Read tried to make me a TARGET, to incite hate against me and have me physically attacked. I have no doubts about that, his words give him away, every time!

These sentences are the last Kory Read wrote on stellareddy.com and I have never seen anything that gives away Kory Read more. Kory Read is showing it is he who is competing with others. How his children becoming doctors will make them more productive in society, I have no idea.

Kory Read is not the arbitrator of anyone’s worth to society! Just like he isn’t the arbitrator of my worth!

If Kory Read want to believe they are all superior to everyone else, go right ahead! He can think whatever he wants and shout it out all he wants, it don’t make any difference anymore, especially to me. I am happy with my life and what I achieved within it. It brought me home and early retirement! I love my life and have no wish to be anywhere else!

Nothing else showed me how jealous Kory Read is of me and my life than these sentences below!

Don’t you just love gaslighting? Any time you see someone claim they speak for someone else, it is pure gaslighting, as there is no way they could know what they claim is true! Kory Read don’t know me and his claims to know in such detail is ridiculous!

Our lives are solely about our children becoming doctors and being more productive in society, more than Stella Reddy and her family have nor ever will be able to.

Racism, unfortunately, will always exist because Caucasians like Stella reddy and her enabler husband Russell Reddy can not stand the idea that a Black female is more successful than they are, or ever will be. It is such as shame that they live their lives competing with others.

Kory & Allison Read are total strangers to me and will remain that way. They allude to a personal relationship, but you can tell by their writings online, they have no idea who I am as a person and they will never know. Kory & Allison Read are too Toxic for me!

I wouldn’t have people like that in my personal life, as I have come to see they are severely Narcissistic. My own doctor gave me that word, after reading some of their writings in 2018. I can see the traits in their online domains contents. I have researched so much on narcissism and smear campaigns, I will never be fooled again! Knowledge is POWER!

I have spent the past 4 years in counselling and doing my own research, and have finally reached the point where it bothers me no more and I am recovering and learning to manage my C-PTSD. This past year, since I moved away from the area that caused me so much distress, has helped me more than the 3 yrs I lived there still.

I knew I wouldn’t get better while still in that environment, I had to get out around normal people who were not involved in the situation to see it clearly and let go of the fear I had. I have done that this past year. I have learned that normal people don’t do what they did with these sites.

It also helped me greatly that I already had PTSD for the past 30 years! A lot of the strategies I learned then is helping me now. I consider myself very lucky in that regard, otherwise I would be dead by now with the stress and severe fear I was in. Psychosis is not easy to deal with, especially concerning such severe fear like I had and Kory Read constantly played on that, as you see on stellareddy.com. Kory Read constantly played on my fear and it is so easy to see him do it too!

Kory Read loves to gaslight me into thinking everyone I meet will go home and search my name online and once they find his sites and “will deal with her accordingly”. You would think that Kory Read words are so powerful that they will cause people to believe him! 

It does not matter; the point here is that Stella Reddy is in a continuous losing battle because, in the end, everyone who searches her name from friends, family, or future or current employers and co-workers, will all see the truth about her and will deal with her accordingly. https://stellareddy.com/oops-i-did-it-again/

Other sites, like https://cheriewhite.blog/, has helped me greatly. There are so many personal stories online like mine that it has shown me the truth, that they are Bullies and I need have no fear of them. I am not alone in being Smeared online, it happens to other people every day. They need to be Exposed!

Way too many people are subject to this type of treatment and rather than hold the Bullies to account, they are allowed to walk free. It shouldn’t be. I do believe in karma though and I know it is working on them! koryread.com and the way it is with the other personal domains tell me they are hiding! They “parked” all their own personally named sites, gave up all their personal social media too, and disappeared. Kory Read changed his name, but he can’t change the way he thinks and I would know his writings anywhere!

Finding the courage to share my side and to open myself up online for total strangers to read, was the last thing I needed to do to take my POWER back! I own my own story and I have a right to my voice.

I have found that I have my own rights and if I want to spend hours writing my story on my own personally named domain, I can do that. Kory Read can stay what he wants to try and gaslight me into taking it down, like he did before, but I know what it is now.

Kory Read came after me and tried to destroy me because I did my job and held them to account for their actions as tenants and breaking the rules of apartment living in Ontario, Canada. They came after me and others out of revenge, hoping to incite hate against us for the false allegations they made of racism and discrimination. They made the allegations against so many but have absolutely no evidence of it, which is why they lost!

They flipped the script and lied about us, refusing to admit to what they did. It is all over their own content though, once you look past all their griping. Kory Read made the sites anonymously to complain about other people and what he claims they did to him and his family.

That is what a Smear Campaign is after all! Kory Read can write the nastiest content and call me names all he wants, no one is accepting it, not even me anymore. In time, he gave himself away with his own posts on stellareddy.com! It took 4 years but Kory Read finally showed himself!

I have spent a lot of time the past year around people who have had no involvement in this situation and they have all pointed out to me that it is obvious this person don’t know me and it’s obvious that this person is trying to hide, hence the Anonymity and lack of contact info. The Administrator of these domains refuses to show who he is, so no one will trust his words. Every single person I spoke to and showed these domains too, tell me the same thing so time I accept it and moved on. Kory Read just has no power!

I am living my life these days in peace, not just physically, but also mentally. I have learned to let go of what I can’t control and live for the now, not yesterday not tomorrow even, just the here and now. It has made me feel so much happier and FREE!

I wake up every morning feeling such gratitude to be here living among such beautiful scenery and wonderful people. I go out every day, taking in the fresh sea air and the smiling faces of the friendly people here. What a life I have now!

I am very content with where I am and what I have in my life. I appreciate every day I can get up and go out to LIVE, not just exist. I find so much joy in the simple things each days shows me.

I am happy, as I choose to be. Simple really, isn’t it?

I am grateful that the powers that be saw through their lies! Just like everyone I come into contact with over the years have seen through their lies!

I am grateful, period, and I live in gratitude every day. I am ALIVE – to breathe, to think, to enjoy, to love and to JUST BE ME!

I was very angry and hurt for a long time after they did this to me, in person on the property and online. The trauma I experienced was life changing and not something I would wish on anyone. I changed my whole life around to get peace and I don’t regret any of it. I am in a way better place now and am very happy and grateful.

The extreme fear I felt, living in that building with these words online as they are, I was terrified some stranger would attack me. Racism is a touchy subject and I didn’t want to become a statistic.

I have since learned my mistake. It took 4 years for me to learn it was my own ego that caused me to react the way I did. I spent so long feeling lost, wondering why someone would do that to someone else. I was lost in my own speculations and came to realize this was what was driving me crazy. I can’t control any of that, so had to learn to let it go. I am happy I did.

I had to learn to let that go, as I know I will never know why Kory & Allison Read felt they could do that to me and other people. I am not responsible to figure them out, that is their story to tell. I can only tell my own.

Writing out my story on this site, has saved my Mental Health and my life. It has helped me to come to terms with it so I can let it go and relegate it to history where it belongs.

I am not defined by other people’s words, but by my own. I am responsible for myself, not anyone else.

 I now see their words are a reflection of themselves, not the person they are writing about. 

This is where all the angst for me came from, trying to convince myself and others that they don’t know me well enough to write what they do. I had to let that go, as it is my ego talking and I don’t have space for it anymore.

I came to understand, who really cares? People will think what they want, no matter what anyone says. If someone wants to believe their words, I can’t stop them and it isn’t my problem. I don’t need to allow anyone willing to believe their words in my life, do I?

As they say, what someone else thinks of you is none of your business, it is what you think of yourself that truly counts. I don’t need to allow disrespectful people in my life anyway and have the choice. 

Once you accept that thought, you become free of influence from others. 

I am free to live my life my way and don’t owe anyone else, especially, Kory & Allison Read, any explanations for anything I do. They can believe what they want, their opinions don’t matter in my life. They have no authority to force anyone to believe them either! I know that now.

They made this site to humiliate, embarrass, shame, and instigate others against me, just for doing my job. They wanted me to be attacked, physically and verbally. They just couldn’t do it, as they are no one and have no power. 

They are welcome to think, believe, say and do what they want, it don’t make it true and it don’t mean they are being believed either.

What I think is more important than what they think. 

No one in my life now cares to know what some stranger has to say about my actions from so long ago during a job I once had. It is history and no longer pertinent.

I have accepted that there is no reason for anyone to read and accept the words written online in these domains, as personal opinions from total strangers don’t really count to other people in my life. They prefer to make up their own minds about me and it is what they will do.

NO ONE CARES ABOUT MY HISTORY! They want the HERE AND NOW! 

I accept they are nasty human beings intent on trying to destroy others out of revenge.

The very fact these sites have been online for the past 4 years and I am still here living free of any influence they hoped to do, is proof they don’t have any power to force others into believing what they write online.  This knowledge has freed me too!

I have friends, my hubby has a great job doing what he loves with great co-workers and we have gained total freedom from any influence these domains and their contents may have on our lives.

I have been home in Newfoundland a year and the only times these domains came up was from me, asking my new friends to read them and give me their opinions. How else was I to learn that no one in my life cares to know what these anonymous people have to say if I didn’t ask?

I have had a year to work through all this angst and while I know I still have work to do on myself, I am stronger for it. My peace of mind is more important that some words from a asshole anyway. 

I have a great social life now, even joined a Dart League and fear controls me no more. I am out just about every day and with the recent windfall we got, we now have financial freedom!

These words copied below, are just that, words. This is only Kory Read and he just do not have the control to bring any of this about. He can’t FORCE anyone to search my name online, nor believe his words if they find them. This is just Kory Read trying to Gaslight me into thinking he has that control when he does not.

It does not matter; the point here is that Stella Reddy is in a continuous losing battle because, in the end, everyone who searches her name from friends, family, or future or current employers and co-workers, will all see the truth about her and will deal with her accordingly.. https://stellareddy.com/oops-i-did-it-again/

I have a normal life these days and see the beauty in all around me. I have learned to slow down, appreciate every moment I have in this life, to appreciate the beauty, in nature and in people.  I refuse to dwell in the past anymore and live in fear and anxiety. I don’t want it and I am determined to get past it.

I have attained peace. Nothing anyone says or does anymore has any bearing on my own personal emotions. I have learned to shut my ego off, as it don’t serve me any good purpose. I am where I need to be and I am content.

I don’t intend on wasting anymore of my life living in anger, fear and resentment. I let my ego go and am free to be who I am meant to be.

This is my story of recovery!


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