I did make quite a few mistakes during the process of Human Rights in Ontario with these Toxic Tenants, one of which is below that I recently found again while looking for something else.
One of my mistakes!!
Every time I reacted to their emails filled with their projections and lies, I ended up giving them too much info. I knew they were not going to show up at any Human Rights Hearings that would be scheduled at some point, I don’t know how I knew that, but I did. Their antics on the internet were to gain attention, as they hoped the public scrutiny would cause the Property Owners to back down and give in to their demands to make it stop, just as they tried to bribe me at one point with stellareddy.com.
Every action done by these Tenants was deliberately done to create humiliation, shame, and embarrassment for Targets with their public claims of racism and discrimination. They hoped that in the climate at the time, it would cause the Owners toxic shame to have such things online that they would back down and give up fighting them. That is what all their sites are about!
In the conversation I recently heard between this Tenant and the owner, I clearly heard that they made “motions in court” as the Owners were ignoring them and they wanted to get their attention. These things show me this man is a child, upset over not getting his way. The Property Owners were ignoring them completely when these Tenants thought they should have either responded to their emails or called them, hoping to “fix” the situation for them. How petty can someone be?
12. K: Okay that’s fine. Why haven’t you responded to my emails?
13. L: I can’t anymore, it’s gone that far
14. K: But why didn’t you call me ( inaudible ) far
15. L: I don’t know, I told him that, I told the lawyer that ( Inaudible ) happen
16. K: Yeah because now I just got to go to court and file a motion against you because you’re
17. L: Oh you did that now too?
Below is an email I sent to these Tenants about the Divisional Court hearing that was on February 19, 2019, where I once again gave these Tenants information I shouldn’t have. A part of me was hoping these Tenants would ignore these HRTO files, as to me, ignoring them after all that time would also show people that they were lying about these claims against me. If they walked away, I win!
I was very naive about this stuff… I couldn’t even tell everything they did was a projection!
I had the silly thought that if they “abandon” their applications with HRTO after losing in Divisional Court, everything, including all the websites, would disappear. I was sadly mistaken, as they made another site on June 1 2020 http://web.archive.org/web/20211021092150/https://socialjusticetribunalsontario.ca/
Also, even after I moved to NL, it took time but they found my new Facebook and made lorriereddy.com on July 8, 2022 to share it in! They were very determined to cause as much negativity and stress in my personal life as much as they could, their many projections give it away, as they are not as familiar with my life as they would like you to believe.
It was after getting the response they sent on January 1, 2019, filled with nonsense that had nothing to do with their applications nor proving their claims, that I started waking up, as there was nothing there. They didn’t even tell more lies about that fake prior meeting they claim we had!
They had nothing, no evidence that I had done this type of thing before to any other tenant, not even any Tenant on that property! They didn’t even make anything else up!! Most of their paperwork is about other HRTO files and even talks of an application I filed on August 24 2017 that was later dismissed. I didn’t even read it all, as it didn’t make sense and the content was not related to their applications.
You can see some of my returning logic in this email below. I called and spoke to a member of the Human Rights of Ontario, who informed me that most of the back-and-forth emails were not being accepted for the files, just the legal forms that were done. It was not long after, on May 8 that we got the CAD that said the same thing I heard in this conversation. My Epiphany Moment!
Most of what I wrote here I came to see with the help of counselling I was having at the time. When you are emotionally compromised, the logic goes out the window, but once I started seeing, and understanding, all the gaslighting they were doing, it started to return.
Their claims were not logical, and it just did not make sense for any strange person to walk up to other strangers, in a public place, and speak as they allude I did. I know this was all a lie but it took time to see that the way they went about telling it to others, also shows they were lying. There were just way too many discrepancies but in my emotional state, I couldn’t see them then. I do now!!
“Your lies and false accusations are not important in that the people who know me know I didn’t, and would never, do anything like you are accusing me of and the people who don’t know me and prefer to believe your lies, don’t really matter in the end.“
“It is very hard to try and convince people to believe that a person spoke like that to you and your family when there is no proof you can provide and there is no history of this behaviour from me, nor have I done it since to anyone else.
You expect people to believe that I just went and said all these things you allege I did out of the blue for no reason and only to you and your family, in a public place. You do realize how stupid that sounds don’t you? We both know your fantasy of this restaurant meeting and your accusations of what I said is all lies and I no longer have any concerns about your racism accusations it as it is easy for everyone now to see. It was just a matter of time and the time has come as I knew it would. The more you try to convince people the more foolish you sound.“
I was also at this point ready, willing, and able to face any consequences that HRTO deemed of me, I didn’t care anymore, I just wanted it over and done. I knew I didn’t do anything wrong during their tenancy and eviction, but I do know I was a little nasty myself at times during the Process of HRTO after I quit my job there on July 4, 2018. Even some of my own past websites’ contents were also not very nice, and I was ready to take the consequences of my own actions, as long as they too were held to account for theirs. I had hoped they would be responsible adults and finish what they started, but it was not to be… they decide instead to be cowards and ignore it all!!
Yes, I was very confident in the result of the Human Rights Tribunal of Ontario’s applications against me by this time in 2019. I was still emotional, but logic was starting to take over. I didn’t care what came for me, I just wanted it done, as I was done. I was ready to move on and I will, one day, when all those sites are gone!!
No, I won’t remove my own site, but it will change, into what I am not sure of yet…
If it comes that I was ignorant in anything I said or did, I will accept it and do what I have to do to account for it. I have no problems dealing with any mistakes I may have made, like an adult, and I have admitted I am not perfect to all concerned, but I have a feeling this application will backfire on you. Time will tell and I hope that you won’t walk away from this application as I think you might once tomorrow is over. You should finish what you started with HRTO and deal with the consequences as I am willing to do.
It is amazing sometimes, the level of detachment you reach after being terrorized so much for so long on various websites on the internet put there by prior Tenants who got pissed off over being evicted for their own actions.
Those websites aren’t about me personally, but about a stella Reddy that doesn’t exist except in their fertile imagination, as it isn’t possible for them to know some of the more personal items they write about in such detail in that content. It is so obvious to me now that my emotions are not so involved.
It reaches the point where their narratives have become so fantastical, you can’t help but laugh. I know who they are, and I know what they write are all lies, and people who find this stuff on the internet, all they see is all the blaming they do of other people, people it is clear they do not know personally.
I know most of the traffic to their sites, comes from me sending people there! I came to see that the general public doesn’t pay attention to their websites, as they just don’t care what some random anonymous person has to say about someone else.
They never take responsibility for anything, it is always someone else fault for them finding themselves in a bad situation, as they refuse to admit they contributed to it in any way.
I will always recover and return to living my life from any Trauma I experience, whether from a house fire or from being severely Bullied, as I learned over 30 years ago that you can survive anything mentally if you have the will and determination to do so. As they say, where there is a will, there is a way!
These Bullies don’t know me, they have no idea of my history that made me the person I am, they just love speculating in such a nasty manner over things that just do not concern them! That is why I would always win against them, no matter what they do, as it is easy to see they are lying.
From: “Stella Reddy”
Sent: 2019-02-18 1:06:00 PM
To: k; a
Subject: Re: The Last Email
The thought hit me the other day after my conversation with HRTO, as I did call them to discuss that sharing you did once again on Facebook to ensure this action was included in their decision, that all this stuff you are saying about me does not really matter anymore. This is why I deleted that stuff you sent me in an email on Facebook, as I realized it don’t matter.
Your lies and false accusations are not important in that the people who know me know I didn’t, and would never, do anything like you are accusing me of and the people who don’t know me and prefer to believe your lies, don’t really matter in the end.
It finally hit me after all these months that I am now RETIRED and will no longer have to worry about my professional reputation as I won’t be working in the industry anymore. My reputation as it stands is still great as the people who know me all know that your accusations are lies, as it is not in my character to do as you accuse me of, so for future prospective tenants I have no concerns as I won’t be dealing with them.
I no longer care what you say about me or the accusations you accuse me of, as the truth is finally coming out. So, go right ahead, do as you wish and say as you wish, it no longer matters and I no longer care.
I did report that post of yours though with Facebook that you have on your site so I have a feeling in the end it will all be gone from Facebook anyway as they won’t tolerate that stuff online. The truth will be exposed and you will look the fool for continuing with trying to convince people that what you say about me is true.
It is very hard to try and convince people to believe that a person spoke like that to you and your family when there is no proof you can provide and there is no history of this behaviour from me, nor have I done it since to anyone else. You expect people to believe that I just went and said all these things you allege I did out of the blue for no reason and only to you and your family, in a public place. You do realize how stupid that sounds don’t you? We both know your fantasy of this restaurant meeting and your accusations of what I said is all lies and I no longer have any concerns about your racism accusations it as it is easy for everyone now to see. It was just a matter of time and the time has come as I knew it would. The more you try to convince people the more foolish you sound.
As for HRTO, share this if you wish, but it won’t make a difference. Seems everything that was sent after the Reply you did is not counted and will not be used in the Decision they have made already and are working on we will get soon. So all the work and emails we both sent after the REPLY was a waste of time. As I was told when I called to make sure this sharing on Facebook of that website you did once again, it is already done and nothing we send now is included.
I received no details about this decision but I know there will be another step and to be honest, I have no concerns over it. If it comes that I was ignorant in anything I said or did, I will accept it and do what I have to do to account for it. I have no problems dealing with any mistakes I may have made, like an adult, and I have admitted I am not perfect to all concerned, but I have a feeling this application will backfire on you. Time will tell and I hope that you won’t walk away from this application as I think you might once tomorrow is over. You should finish what you started with HRTO and deal with the consequences as I am willing to do.
It has reached the point now that it is what it is. The Divisional Court hearing is tomorrow and you will find out just what that process is really like and just how strict they are over what you can talk about. I see that there is a Motion on Notice hearing first for the lawyer to get this dismissed so it’s possible there may not be a hearing afterwards in front of the 3 judges.
I guess we will all see tomorrow what the result will be but I am very confident as I have been here before and I know how this will end.
This is the last email you will get from me. The process with HRTO for me is over as no matter what I say now it won’t make a difference to that outcome either so writing anymore is a waste of time that I no longer wish to waste.
The Divisional Court hearing tomorrow will end the LTB process and the eviction so what happens next is all on you. I refuse to engage in your antics and accusations anymore as it is a waste of time for me and no longer matters what you say, I know the truth and so do all the other important people in my life.
We will let the courts and tribunals settle these matters now. Once tomorrow’s hearing is over, please note that if the appeal is dismissed the owners will be applying straight to the sheriff’s office afterwards to apply for the sheriff to come evict you and the costs will be added to your rental account. You will be notified of the date of the eviction by the notice the sheriff’s office will tape to your apartment door that you cannot remove. This notice is on bright yellow paper and taped to the apartment door with the eviction date on it and the time frame that they will be coming to lock you out in bold black letters. The sheriff will come the day specified and the staff will change the locks on the door. If you are still here they will give you enough time to take what you can while the lock is changed and then you have 72 hours to arrange for a 4-hour block to remove your stuff.
I hope you are all moved out by then, as it is not easy to go through that. It’s all up to you now how this all ends.