Narcissistic Victim Syndrome Applies: Kory Read Is A Narcissist!

 

I love this website, as it is so informative. Read this site and you will come to see what is happening to me, as the content within stellareddy.com fits these descriptions as noted here. I have been in a war zone with Kory Read & Allison Read since August 2016 when they started complaining over the procedures I was changing in the property. You can see it in their content on all their domains:   

https://narcissisticvictimsyndrome.com/

  1. stellareddy.com
  2. sjtomemberkevinlundy.com
  3. 859kennedyroad.com
  4. davidstrashin.com
  5. socialjusticetribunalsontario.ca

It is due to websites like this one that I am recovering from the severe abuse Kory Read has done to me, online and in person. 

Articles like this open my eyes and help me see the tactics within the content of stellareddy.com that shows me the truth. I am a target and Kory Read & Allison Read are the abusers.

I didn’t post 859kennedyroad.com online on November 2, 2017 after they lost with Landlord and Tenant Board. I didn’t write stellareddy.com either after they lost with Divisional Court in April 2019. My first website, mytruthoftenantbullies.com didn’t show up till 2018, after trying to get them removed legally by complaining to the hosting companies. I just couldn’t sit back and allow this garbage to be online as it was, it contained my info, not theirs. 

All throughout stellareddy.com, Kory Read has written about “Stella Reddy’s Self Pity / Boo Hoo website“. Kory Read is attempting to shame me from picking up for myself with these words. He thinks that making me feel uncomfortable will cause me to give up writing my own sites. It did in the past, but not anymore.

I don’t want pity, I want understanding.

I want people to see the actions of Kory Read & Allison Read for what they are, revenge. I want people to see the name tactics they use such as gaslighting, triangulation, manipulation, name-calling, and placing of nasty labels for what they really are. I want people to see the physiological abuse they put me through on the property, and online within domains and social media.

I want people to see and understand that actions like stellareddy.com and the rest, are tactics by a narcissist intent on placing blame for their losses on other people. 

Kory Read is a manipulator, using domains in personal names, against  these people. It don’t matter the content anymore, it’s the intent behind it. 

With the words below that I copied from 859kennedyroad.com and stellareddy.com, very clearly show Kory Read & Allison Read intentions: to negatively affect each person named within.

Do Kory Read & Allison Read have any authority to do what they are online? Who made Kory Read judge, jury, and executioner of me, and others, in this manner? Are these people arbitrators of anyone and what they do?

But rest assured, this website will not be coming down at any time, and I will start adding to it. We can’t have racist like get rent from non-whites and these same individuals not know they type of people they are paying their rent too.

It does not matter; the point here is that Stella Reddy is in a continuous losing battle because, in the end, everyone who searches her name from friends, family, or future or current employers and co-workers, will all see the truth about her and will deal with her accordingly.


What triggers Narcissistic Abuse Syndrome?

Narcissistic Abuse Syndrome often develops as the result of psychological and emotional abuse, gaslighting, baiting and bashing, belittling, hidden abuse, shaming, condescending tones, projection onto their target of what they are doing, smear campaigns & character assassinations, a false narrative, threats, mind control, distortion of conversations, circular conversations, word salad games, exploitative games, refusal to ever have a normal conversation, using targets strengths against them, exploiting targets vulnerabilities, countering, false accusations, omission of information for the benefit of one person and the destruction of another. It is a type of PTSD. It often causes victims to feel defenseless and beaten down. (Narcissistic Abuse Expert, Jayme Chenoweth)

Great Definition of the Narcissistic Smear Campaign: “When the smear campaign begins with a Narcissistic Sociopath, it is an intentional, premeditated effort to discredit our reputation, character and quite simply, our total being.  This premeditation is done in the same way a criminal puts into motion his act of crime. With a smear campaign, the Sociopath strategically starts recalling all the things you have ever shared with them regarding your own personal experiences (ie: triumphs/failures), any and all things shared about people closest to you, or anyone you had a relationship with prior to them. They then take this information and set out to destroy you emotionally and mentally”  Sociopathlife.com

How the Narcissist(s) will paint the Victim:

 1. Mentally unstable

2. twisting things

3. unreliable

4. pathetic

5. dangerous

6. untrustworthy

7. possibly demon possessed or something of the like.

The Narcissist(s) are projecting their OWN traits onto the victim which makes figuring out who is in the wrong confusing.

If they lie, they will accuse the victim of being a liar.  If the victim lied it was probably because they were scared.  

The Narcissist lies to order to DISTORT AND DESTROY.

If they manipulate, they will accuse the victim of manipulating.

 If they abuse, they will accuse the victim of abuse.

The portrait painted of the victim is typically an upside down version of who that person is or an exaggeration of wrongdoings.  

They will pull out all the garbage on the victim and exaggerate greatly what the victim has done.  

The smear is FULL of half truths, exaggerations and downright lies about the target.

They will even try to convince the victim that they are these things which a very altruistic and sensitive person will then begin to wear and feel badly about themselves.  

What makes a narcissist or narcissist family group so dangerous it that they truly believe their own lies about the scapegoat.  

They need to believe them and want to believe them in order to clear themselves.  

These are what the Bible refers to as “hypocrites” or “Pharisees”.

The scapegoat or victim may be guilty of some things but they will say sorry and admit failure.  

The Narcissist(s) never will admit that they are even more guilty than their target of lying, being manipulative and so forth.  

That is why reconciliation with a Narcissist is almost impossible.  

The Narcissist will sit as judge and jury over the other person who is willing to admit some fault.  But the Narcissist will admit none and will even accuse their target of having motives they never had etc. Therefore real reconciliation will be impossible.

Why does the Narcissist Smear?

  1. No longer a good source of supply
  2. Reputation is threatened
  3. The person has seen through the Narcissist
  4. The person has inflicted a Narcissistic injury
  5. Because it’s fun to torture someone else’ soul and get others to gang up on them.

Narcissistic Victim Syndrome is a serious and debilitating issue that you should not ignore for the sake of your own mental and emotional well-being.

It is getting scary with all the detailed websites online these days about Narcissism and the abuse they give out to others. The link above is another such site as the one above and it fits. You can see so much of these tactics within the content of stellareddy.com and the rest. I also felt so many of these symptoms they list! it is scary to see this online and see so much of my own experience within, but it is also very validating for my experience. Validation for your personal feelings is very important to recovery as well. 

I have a RIGHT to my own feelings and I have a RIGHT to express them. My Bullies try so hard to knock them down, but I am still here and so are my own rights. 

This is how NAS affects you

Narcissists are masters in playing mind games. They use a wide range of manipulative strategies that stifle their victims, such as gaslighting, triangulation and projection. As victims constantly live in a warzone riddled with landmines of love-bombing, devaluation and abuse, they struggle every moment to hold on to their sanity. In a MedicalNewsToday article, national speaker and author Mary Jo Fay, RN, MSN explains that people with Narcissistic Abuse Syndrome “are frequently rather nervous, with a guilt-ridden, anxious look and effect. They may appear restless, worried, and/or demonstrate a fake laugh that seems to hide something else.” Living with a narcissist in command means opening yourself up to invisible abuse that even you won’t realize at times. Although a narcissist may or may not abuse you physically or sexually, they will launch a barrage of imperceptible assaults on your identity, mind, heart and spirit. Narcissistic abuse often goes unnoticed until the damage is irreparable and extensive.

Some of the common symptoms of NAS may include the following physical and psychological symptoms:

1. Physical symptoms

  1. Weight loss or gain   I lost 120 lbs over 2 yrs, and have managed to keep it off. 
  2. Angry outbursts    I did this regularly, especially if someone told me to “let it go” 
  3. Rapid heart rate   Always, every day. I have high blood pressure and ended up in emerg a few times due to it being too high
  4. Muscle aches and pains  I suffer from this anyway but it didn’t help.
  5. Vomiting and nausea  Now I know why I threw up all the time!
  6. Insomnia or frequent nightmares  I had sleeping pills to help me sleep… Still take them sometimes.
  7. Eating disorders  I lost weight!! I couldn’t eat most days…
  8. Stomach pain, upset stomach or gastrointestinal issues  Always, though not so much anymore now.
  9. Fatigue  Always

2. Psychological symptoms

  1. Intense anxiety, nervousness & extreme fear
  2. Depression
  3. Trouble concentrating and impaired memory
  4. Phobias
  5. Insecurity
  6. Delusions
  7. Shame, irritability and guilt
  8. Panic attacks
  9. Suicidal behavior
  10. Obsessive-compulsive behaviors 
  11. Self-criticism and self-blame
  12. Ruminations or intrusive, repetitive & unwanted thoughts
  13. Flashbacks of a traumatic or abusive experience 
  14. Physical or emotional triggers
  15. Social withdrawal and isolation
  16. Avoidance of triggering situations or people 
  17. High alertness or being constantly vigilant
  18. Self-doubt 
  19. Seeking help

These symptoms are often caused by the toxic behavior of the narcissist who feeds their own ego by hurting or emotionally damaging the victim. 

The psychological symptoms above are not easy to deal with, especially when you know deep down you did nothing wrong. I suffered for a long time with the thought that if so many people say I did wrong, than I must have, but in the end, I came to see that is gaslighting, as people wanted to convince me I was wrong as they couldn’t accept that they were instead. 

It got to the point I was terrified to move, to make any decisions for fear of being attacked, right or wrong.  It is also why I will never work anymore. My head just don’t have the capability to take the pressure that comes with employment, especially when it deals with people. I wouldn’t be able to deal with other people on a daily basis as the anxiety would drive me insane…

This is a nasty fact after dealing with so much abuse from other people. While my Bullies whine online about my “boo hoo pity blog” they say this as they don’t want to be responsible for causing any of these symptoms in someone else. They have to try and convince you I am fake and imaginary and to dehumanize me, trying to convince you that I am lying once again and don’t have any of these issues so they won’t be blamed.


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