Invalidation of Stella Reddy By Toxic Adult Bullies

Adult Bullies make a lot of misconceptions, as they become Biased against you. No matter what you do or say, they will always make it negative and use their imaginations to try and imply their thinking is true of you and your actions.
I am another human being and as such, no one has a right to claim my thoughts and feelings are WRONG as these Toxic Tenants have continuously tried to do to me.
Since I started my journey to learn about Toxic traits and narcissism, I have been even able to see some of this in my own responses I made during such a nasty time in my life and in counselling I learned I was in the throws of Reactive Abuse. It doesn’t absolve me of the things I said, but it makes it understandable. Still, I am entitled to my own thinking, right or wrong.
I was very religious in searching for references of my name and racism on the internet, as these Toxic Bullies did that to me. As they were the poster of such content in the first place that was so negative and filled with such scary allegations, they created the impulse within me,  I had to know what was being said online for my own protection. I refused to be sideswiped by allegations from anyone.
I made my own sites as I was terrified of the domains they have online in my name and the damage it could do to me and my personal life.
As they clearly state in their contents on stellareddy.com, “It does not matter; the point here is that Stella Reddy is in a continuous losing battle because, in the end, everyone who searches her name from friends, family, or future or current employers and co-workers, will all see the truth about her and will deal with her accordingly.”
I wanted a record of my Story to also be online, period. I don’t care if anyone believes any of it, it is there to be found with the contents in my name that they did. That is the bottom line.

I have every right to feel fear of their actions by posting websites online filled with content about me. The way they write would scare anyone!

They try so hard to sound confident and so very sure in their written narratives they write about me and claim to know what I do and don’t do.

Look at the contents below that I copied from one of the documents they sent to HRTO and below, are 2 documents they sent with a Form 10, also filled with their allegations of what a LIAR I am, not that I violated their Human Rights. They focused on the wrong thing!!
That has always been KR & AR’s automatic response, which is what a LIAR I am, yet, they still don’t show any evidence of that either! HRTO was never about what a liar I was being. they tried to wipe me out of existence to be replaced with the version of me they made up in their minds. The words in documents like this are very clear about that. Toxic Tenants say all the time, that I am wrong and they are right.
When you have websites online in your personal name, and others containing your name and personal pictures, put there by a Tenant from your JOB, of course, I will be religious in looking for more content after! It is a normal reaction to such a thing and not grossly exaggerated!
My feelings are irrelevant to them, but I am happy to say, not for all!
I’ll go through this and comment…
# 13 – Stella Reddy 4th Website – Daily Blog September 23 thru 25, 2019 ( Page 3 ) 
“ They have basically disappeared from Facebook, and other social media. They even made their children’s stuff basically disappear from online, which I agree with anyway. Yes, I admit to looking, as I want to catch anything noted about me, but they have disappeared ”
They show with their own words they were stalking me and what I do online, no different than what I did. I was looking for my name, as they abused it!!
Doing a search of my own name is quite reasonable considering they were the ones who put it online in the first place!
So let’s clarify. Stella Reddy claims “ I want to catch anything noted about me, ” This statement is so grossly exaggerated and an outright lie that it again goes to show how Stella Reddy will just make up false propaganda to try and prove and justify her threating and stalking behaviour. 
This is the same type of racist, arrogant and narcissist behaviour that we have all seen from her in past, when she deliberately tried to lie to the SJTO/HRTO to try and get what she was after. It has all been noted in the documents, with evidence and placed in the SJTO/HRTO file.
 The time Stella Reddy lied and quote deliberate inaccurate and false city bi-laws about BBQ’s in apartment buildings even after being given a print out of the city bi-laws from KR.
This statement implies that KR and his printed documents on propane BBQs, was the be all and end all of the situation. KR intrepreted the printed out documents his own way, but he is not trained nor has advance knowledge of propane BBQS and their use in apartment buildings. The owners wanted them gone and as it was their property, not the Tenants, they were allowed to do that. End of Story. 
 The time Stella Reddy lied and told the SJTO/HRTO that our family were THE ONLY tenants with a BBQ inthe building, when in fact videos and pictures showed there were 3 other tenants and Stella Reddy’s own sister Cindy Jones all had BBQ’s at the same time in the building.
Yes, these Tenants were later the only ones with a propane BBQ. My sister, and other Tenants later, got electric BBQs, which is totally different and were not part of the printed diocuments concerning propane ones. So easy hey when you leave out such a specific word as propane, isn’t it?
 The time Stella Reddy told the SJTO/HRTO that she was trying to get rid of all BBQ’S from the building, but still let her sister Cindy Jones move into the building with her BBQ, AFTER Stella Reddy made other tenants remove and throw out their own BBQ’s from their balcony’s with her phoney city bi-laws.
Once again, propane and electric is different and the notice given concerned propane BBQS not any other ones. KR claims the By-Laws as PHONEY…
 The time back in 2018 when Stella Reddy tried to deceived the SJTO/HRTO by stating that our family never handed in a form requesting parking for our new car 2018 Qash Qai, when in fact our family supplied a video that proved otherwise.
Such quibbling once again by leaving out specific words that would change the concept of this wouldn’t it? Sure they submitted a form, but you can clearly see was a Tenant Request Form for Maintenance, it was not the specific Parking Addition Form I sent them which explained the parking rules in detail to them and let them know what was required to get a parking space. As they refused to pay for it, they ignore the Parking Form and do a Tenant Request instead, thinking that as long as they did something in writing, it was good enough. It was not.
 The time Stella Reddy falsely claimed to the SJTO/HRTO that the front door of the building had a distinctive buzzard sound when using keyless entry vs. being buzzed in by a tenant. Again our family supplied a video that showed again Stella Reddy was deliberately lying.
This is total invaidation of everything I said about that situation. KR was caught using a keyless entry code months after they were all removed from the system by me. I assume he watched someone use it and started using it himself. I stilll have the video of him at the Entry Panel later that day trying to access the system… Good thing I changed the default password for it or he would have gained entry to it!! Adult Bullies got upset that he was caught and this is evidence of his defensiveness…
 The time Stella Reddy claimed to the SJTO/HRTO that she was not the Property Manager, but just a simple Superintendent, despite her own paperwork showing she called herself a Property Manager.
My job contract says what my Job Title was. End of Story
 The time Stella Reddy denied sharing video of our family from the STAFF ONLY SURVEILLANCE SYSTEM in
the building with her sister Cindy Jones, a tenant down the hall from her.
I didn’t share anything, I asked my sister why her friend was at these Toxic Tenants apartment door. The post they did on this shows their intention, and it wasn’t a good one, as you can see!  http://web.archive.org/web/20211021102210/https://stellareddy.com/cindy-jones-rats-out-her-sister/
Think about this…
If Stella Reddy is willing to lie to the SJTO/HRTO over a simple thing like just being called a Property Manager vs. a
Superintendent. What isn’t Stella Reddy willing to lie about to the SJTO/HRTO?
When did lying become apart of the Human Rights Tribunal of Ontario process?
The issue of Property Manager vs. Superintendent is such an insignificant issue, yet Stella Reddy HAD TO TRY and
lie and convince the SJTO/HRTO that she was not a Property Manager. FOR NO REASON!This act of lying by Stella
Reddy alone, says a lot about Stella Reddy and what she is capable of doing to make her look like the poor innocent
victim in all of this.
The act of these Toxic Tenants harping that I was the Property Manager, who had more authority to make decisions compared to a building superintendet who had to rely on direction from a Property Manager or Property Owner, is evidence of them trying to change the basic facts to fit their beliefs. Yes, I was a Victim of Toxic Tenants who lied about a prior meeting to have something to attack me with. If this was such a insignificant issue why did they harp on it so often? All they did was show their own arrogance in their thinking.
So, this statement by Stella Reddy about stalking our children, while looking for post about her on their social media accounts is so ridicules and just another great example of Stella Reddy trying to play the SJTO/HRTO for a bunch fools and idiots.
I wonder, who has control of all social media and websites in that household? Yes, KR would post and share their sites on his childrens social media. In all, I would look on all their stuff…I had absolutely no trust in these people, I wonder why?
At no time have our children EVER posted anything or referenced about the LTB, SJTO, HRTO, Divisional Court, Court of Appeals or any individual involved with this whole situation on their social media accounts, let alone anything about this pitiful individual Stella Reddy.
No, I agree the children themselves never posted anything about me, but as their father had total control of what happens in that household, he also had control and access to their social media and he would post things there himself.
Our family is confused as to why Stella Reddy would say such a thing?
Is it because our children are bi-racial ( Black & White ) that Stella Reddy makes these false and misleading statements about our children? Is Stella Reddy now trying to portray them as ANGRY BLACK CHILDREN like their ANGRY BLACK WOMAN mom?
It appears that Stella Reddy loves to label Black People as angry, why?
Such speculations being made once again  in these sentences above and KR is jumping to conclusions based on his own skewed views of everything to do with me. He no logner see a human being in me, just all the labels he placed on me. 
Because you’re racist member Kevin Lundy allowed Stella Reddy to portray AR as a stereotypical Angry Black Woman at the LTB hearing without Stella Reddy ever having to produce a single piece of evidence to support her racist arguments. 
Once again, KR is making misconceptions based on his own views. I never once called anyone a stereotypical Angry Blackanything, what I “repeated” at the LTB was just that, a repition of the gossip I heard going around and what they claim I said. Absolute Privledge!
So, now Stella Reddy thinks that she can get away with labelling our children as Angry Black Children, who are shit disturbers and are actively involved in all of this foolishness, by implying to the SJTO/HRTO that they have previously post things about her on their social media accounts. Again without ever offering a single piece of evidence to back-up her implied bigotry comment about or children.
I didn’t say any of this, KR is saying it based on his interpretations. 
You see Stella Reddy got away with this stereotypical racist Angry Black Woman tactic at the LTB hearing with AR, and her behaviour was not corrected by your racist member Kevin Lundy. So being who Stella Reddy is, she now thinks she can again escalate this new racist lie to now included our children under the same Angry Black Person persona.
Stella Reddy is so obsessed with our children, and so obsessed with them being punished. That she placed their names and photo on her website, so any random search of their names, which are unique and one of a kind names, will be pulled up will all of Stella Reddy’s negative comments from her websites about our family, with pictures of them in her attempt to embarrass and punish them.
# 14 – K and E Google Search Result – October 5, 2019
# 15 – Stella Reddy Websites – K And E Names
Awe, yes, the action above that I did, was out of my anger and reactive abuse as a result of the content they have written about me online in stellareddy.com. I reacted, very badly to their actions out of my extreme fear of what their words could do to my life.
Stella Reddy makes this exaggeration and outright lie claiming that she was trying to use our children’s social media accounts to see if THEY were posting about HER on THEIR accounts.
When you find you name all over social media and on the internet, you will look everywhere to find evidence of more… So, yes, looking at their childrens, their family members and friends, social media is all part of my reaction to being Smeared so badly as they did online. For them to expect me to NOT look, they are delusional! They themselves show they looked at MINE! Such hypocrisy…
Stella Reddy is obsessed with our children, as she makes references about them in her emails and websites, along with pictures, despite them being 9 and 15 at the time and them NEVER having any interaction with her.
And still to this day Stella Reddy continues to make references to them in her website, emails and stalk them on social media even after we moved out from the building to get our kids away from her and her husband  who have very unnatural and unhealthy stalking obsessions.
Awe, I wouldn’t have had unhealthy obsessions looking for references of my NAME on the internt and socail media, if THEY hadn’t put it there in the first place! KR & AR created this need in me to look for my name by their acts of abusing it as they have in creating strllareddy.com and the other sites.
Let us remember that our family finally moved out when it was exposed that Stella Reddy were video recording our family from around the building, and that they were sharing it with other tenants.
They “finally” moved out because they lost Divisional Court and the stay on their eviction that this appeal made, was lifted and these Tenants knew they had no choice than move out before the Sheriff came to lock them out! They LOST the Appeal on their Eviction… Once again, making false implications, trying to make it all about me, not their own actions. People can see right through this lie.
This unhealthy behaviour scared our children to the point where they would not travel around the building alone. Our daughter would wait outside the building for ½ hour until I ( KR ) got home from picking up her brother E from school, because she was scared she would run into Stella Reddy in the elevator, hallway or stairwells.
They are using my own words against me here… lol
Their admitted unnatural and disturbing stalking behaviour of our family and children was the turning point for our family. We no longer felt safe and the children were trapped in their own home as they would not leave it without one us ( their parents ) being present to accompanying them to the park or by a friend’s house.
So there is absolutely no justification for Stella Reddy’s to be using or viewing our children’s social media accounts!
There was no justification for KR to make stellareddy.com and the other sites!! 
What was really happening with Stella Reddy and our children’s social media accounts was her and her husband were continuing to try and stalk and monitor our family through social media, period!
What was lorriereddy.com all about I wonder? Remember that is a new one as of July 8, 2022
You see, now that we have moved out and left the building. Stella Reddy and her husband can no longer monitor and stalk our family’s movements, spy on our guest and take pictures of our car from their 4th floor balcony for her website.
They can no longer use the building the STAFF ONLY SECURITY SURVEILLANCE SYSTEM that L and A allowed her to use to record and share videos of our family from around the building with Stella Reddy’s sister Cindy Jones who is a tenant down the hall.
Stella Reddy without fear, openly admits on her blog that if our family was to return to 859 Kennedy Road at ANY POINT IN TIME from this day forward to visit our friends in unit # 402 which is right next door to unit # 401 – Stella Reddy and her husband unit. Stella Reddy will have to “ teach them ( us ) some of her justice ”
And yet Stella Reddy wants the SJTO/HRTO to believe on October 3, 2019 at 08:20 am that she is so fearful of “ physical retribution ” from our family?
Yes, bravado does help at times doesn’t it?
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# 16 – Stella Reddy Email – October 3, 2019
“ As the applicants defied the CAD sent May 31, 2019 with these frivolous submissions, On Sept 25, and Oct 2, 2019 , I expect a decision on Rule A7 and A8 as mentioned there, to be determined at the earliest opportunity by your office. Any further delays will only lead to more abusive treatment from the applicants towards all involved, especially myself. Since they vacated the building I have been less fearful, but with the actions and language coming from the applicant in the recent forms, I am getting fearful once again of physical retribution ”
KR would drive around the property after they moved out. I have pictures of him in his car.
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This section below is disgusting to me. It is just total invalidation of me as another human being with thoughts, feelings, and beliefs of my own.
KR & AR with their narratives written below, are telling anyone who reads this missives, that they don’t approve of what I feel and are telling you that I am wrong to feel this way. They are trying to claim to know me better than I know myself! It is total psychological invalidation of Stella Reddy. 
This newest email by Stella Reddy is absolutely remarkable and just another great example of Stella Reddy playing the fearful victim despite never producing ANYTHING from our family that could even remotely be interrupted as being even vaguely threating or intending to harm her or her family. NOTHING!!!
The below is well document in the paper work with evidence that is filed with the SJTO/HRTO on how…
 Stella Reddy had NO FEAR at the time…
when she has made her false accusations that she knows I beat my wife AR on numerous occasions in her emails and on her websites.
 Stella Reddy had NO FEAR at the time…
when she has made her numerous threats of physical violence and harm against our family and children in her emails and on her website.
 Stella Reddy had NO FEAR at the time…
when she has threaten retaliation against our children and hopes they are punished by the SJTO/HRTO in her emails and on her websites.
 Stella Reddy had NO FEAR at the time…
when she was sitting on her 4th floor balcony laughing, talking excessively loud and recording our family on her phone for hours upon end while we moved out of the building.
 Stella Reddy had NO FEAR at the time…
when she was telling her friends and family how she was going to sit in the lobby, pointing and laughing while watching our family move out on Facebook.
 Stella Reddy had NO FEAR at the time…
when she called out to KR from her 4th floor balcony when he was leaving the building, trying to get his attention and to provoke a response while she tried to secretly recorded him on her phone.
 Stella Reddy had NO FEAR at the time…
when she threw a lite cigarette at KR when he was leaving the building and then she tried to run into her apartment before he could catch/see her.
 Stella Reddy had NO FEAR at the time…
when she came to the Divisional Court and was sitting in the courtroom, laughing and giggling with her sister Cindy Jones and her husband during our family’s Appeal hearing.
 Stella Reddy had NO FEAR at the time…
when her and Luigi Liscio and Anthony Liscio posted the Divisional Court Decision in the locked Community Board in the lobby of the building in their attempts to trying to embarrass and humiliate our family with other tenants.
 Stella Reddy had NO FEAR at the time…
when posting on her website last week, another threat of physical violence against our family “ I’ll wait till they come back here again.. taking matters in my own hands with KR & AR and teach them some of my justice. ”
 Stella Reddy had NO FEAR at the time…
when ( we suspect ) she dropped a stone off her 4th floor balcony during the night and hit the hood of our brand new 2018 Qash Qui that left a dent.
This explains why Stella Reddy refused to give our family parking around back of the building. Instead she would make us park upfront in visitor parking, under her 4th floor balcony so she could vandalize our car.
 Stella Reddy had NO FEAR at the time…
when she used Allison Read as a prop at the LTB public hearing to prove that she was not racist.
 Stella Reddy had NO FEAR at the time…
when she proudly compared AR’s “ dark ” complexation during a SJTO/LTB public hearing to another individual in her family to prove she was not racist.
 Stella Reddy had NO FEAR at the time…
when she called our children the racist slur “ Mulato ” outside a public restaurant and at the SJTO/LTB public hearing.
 Stella Reddy had NO FEAR at the time…
when she proudly uses the slur and derogatory term “ Newfie ” numerous times during a SJTO/LTB public hearing and in her emails, social media and on her website.
 Stella Reddy had NO FEAR at the time…
when she threatens our family with civil lawsuits.
 Stella Reddy had NO FEAR at the time…
when she threatened physical violence against KR to the SJTO/HRTO about go to prison if they do not “ DO SOMETHING ABOUT THIS ASS OR I WILL, PRISON OR NOT. ”
 Stella Reddy had NO FEAR at the time…
when she created an unauthorized blog under KR’s identity, making deliberate false and vindictive statements on his behalf.
 Stella Reddy had NO FEAR at the time…
when she was posting pictures of our children and our car on her website, telling potbelly landlords not to rent to our family, in her attempt to to make our family homeless.
And the list can go on and on, as there is no shortage of Stella Reddy’s NO FEAR moments. It is all document with
evidence in the SJTO/HRTO file.
And yet, Stella Reddy can not find one piece of material/evidence that our family has ever threatened or even implied any harm to her and her family. Despite all the prejudice things she said and done to our family over the years.
The funniest part of all this is that Stella Reddy told the SJTO/HRTO that she needed to have a Summary Hearing via phone because she was so fearful of our family, and the SJTO/HRTO conveniently bought right into it.
You gave Stella Reddy what she wanted without any proof ever being offered by her to justify her request.
And now Stella Reddy again wants something and as previous patterns and habits go with Stella Reddy. She is going to try her luck again with the SJTO/HRTO and her – play the pity card, and the I’m so scared routine to get what she wants.
Stella Reddy figures she suckered the SJTO/HRTO into believing it once, she can do it twice!
But do Stella Reddy’s fabricated claims of fear of our family really warrant her scared pity story? NO!
It appears more like that Stella Reddy loves the idea of trying to antagonizing our family, the whole time looking for a
response.
People who are legitimately scared of people don’t go out of their way to..
– kick the hornet’s nest,
– poke the bear, or
– wake up the sleeping giant.
But here is scared little Stella Reddy doing all of the above, and then putting on a big show about how she is so frightened of our family and the retribution that we MIGHT do to her based on what? ABSOLUETY NOTHING!!!
What Stella Reddy is truly afraid of is having to go to trial or having a hearing where she has to appear in person ( hence her request for a Summary Hearing via phone ).
Where Stella Reddy would have to then explain everything in person, having to try and explain away all of her discriminatory behaviour, all of her racist remarks and actions and the endless amounts of lies she got caught telling to the SJTO/HRTO and the world.
Stella Reddy’s biggest fear is appearing in person, because she can not hide behind her computer monitor and ignore the facts. She can’t just sit back and take her time while in person trying to think of excuses until she gets one that she likes. Stella Reddy is a horrible liar, and even worse when trying to lie on the fly.
This is what Stella Reddy is really afraid of…
You see Stella Reddy loves to deliberate lie and use exaggerations based on absolutely NOTHING in her attempt to embellish and portray our family as a group of crazy lunatics that are unpredictable, unstable and violent.
KR & AR’s actions of posting various websites in other people’s names and the names of their businesses is more than enough evidence to show who these people really are. They are very unpredictable as you don’t know what website will show up next!! It wouldn’t surprise me if they got violent for losing, as I saw it in him at Divisional Court!
All you need to do is read the content of all these sites to know who the narrators are, as it definitely isn’t me!!
stellareddy.com, lorriereddy.com, davidstrashin.com, sjtomemberkevinlundy.com, 859kennedyroad.com, connaughtpublicschool.com, stcatherinesanimalhospital.com, rooseveltskerrit.com. 
But this is not the end of Stella Reddy and her unlawful and fearless behaviour. Stella Reddy has now use KR’s identity again, this time to try and illegally obtain a 2nd set of mailbox keys to our families mailbox on St. Clair Avenue. KR received an email from Canada Post on September 26, 2019 at 5:01 pm stating;
 

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