“I Need You Now” by Lady Antebellum is a beautiful song. It hits me in the feels…
I get emotional when I hear this song as I needed someone to be there for me and for a long time I didn’t “see” that there was, my husband. I made the mistake at times to lumps him in with everyone else as I felt he too was ignoring me.
I came to see he wasn’t though, he was there quietly in the background, ready to catch me whenever I fell really badly. He held me when I cried, he took my anger when I expressed it, and he was there by my side at Doctors’ appointments and even therapy. He didn’t say much, as he didn’t know what to say. He told me that he preferred to say nothing than take the chance of saying the wrong thing.
Over the years, as I learned, so did he. My husband has been by my side throughout this journey and I know he will always be there. In the end, that is all I need.