HRTO Application: Against My Hubby This Time!

I wanted to share the text of the application that was submitted against my husband on May 13, 2019, even though it wasn’t accepted by the Human Rights Tribunal of Ontario.

This application reveals the strange familiarity with my life that the writer claims to have.

Upon reading the application, I couldn’t help but laugh at the outrageous and baseless statements they made about my personal life. The writer has no firsthand knowledge of these details.

I had little doubt that the HRTO would reject such an application. It is not about racism or discrimination but rather an attempt to shift blame onto others, claiming that they had the chance to address Stella Reddy’s behaviour but chose not to act. It’s absurd to think that someone could control or manipulate me in the way this document suggests.

Stella Reddy has been acting in this racist, prejudice and discriminatory behaviour since June 2016, and it has only increasingly gotten worse over time, because there has been no attempt to correct her behaviour by the systemically racist judicial system, owners LL, AL, Property Manager, Lawyer David Strashin, sister CJ , son JJ, family friend and from her submissive and obedient husband RR.”

There is a particular passage in the copied text that deeply troubled me. These sentences are not only toxic but also promote emotional abuse. They insidiously suggest that I should have a stroke from the stress they are causing or even contemplate suicide. It was this passage that exposed their true intentions and revealed the harm they sought to inflict on me and my personal life.

While reading these sentences was disheartening, they serve as a stark reminder of the toxic mindset of these bullies. They aimed to push me towards a physical or emotional breakdown, allowing them to walk away from the damage they had caused.

They silently sit by ideally and allow Stella Reddy to continue to travel down this path for only one of two reasons.

1)         They agree with her and they encourage her behaviour as she is the voice that they don’t have the courage to be, or

2)         They are hoping Stella Reddy has a stroke or commits suicide and they can walk away from this mess.

They consistently made baseless claims about me being branded a racist, but this is merely their delusional thinking. There has been no legal determination against me confirming their accusations, and there never will be. These toxic bullies are always resorting to false allegations, as expected.

Toxic individuals seem to believe that if they repeat something enough times, it will eventually be accepted as truth. By starting their sentences with phrases like “it is clear,” “it appears,” or “it seems,” they attempt to give their speculations more weight, even though these are merely opinion-based signals. These words serve to inform people that they are presenting personal opinions rather than verified facts.

Over the past few years, I have acquired knowledge that enables me to discern between facts and fiction. The consistent patterns exhibited by these toxic tenants in their verbally abusive documents betray their true intentions, without fail.

Just by educating yourself about toxic people with narcissistic traits like gaslighting, manipulation, triangulation, and blatant lies, you gain the courage and strength to confront and expose their actions against you. Standing up to these toxic bullies takes bravery, especially considering the backlash they may direct at you. The content on stellareddy.com provides insights into this journey.

Do not allow these toxic bullies to continue their malicious behaviour unchecked; speak up for yourself. No one has the right to disrespect you, as these adult bullies have done to me and my family. Unveiling their actions is the only way to safeguard yourself.

When reading documents such as this, it is crucial to remember that these individuals were merely tenants, and not friends, family, or even acquaintances. They lack any familiarity with the personal lives of those they write about, rendering their claims about thoughts and feelings implausible at best, and most likely false. This, to me, is the epitome of delusion.

I never placed any importance on whether these toxic tenants liked me or not. I was there to fulfill a job, not establish friendships with tenants. Their personal opinions of me as an individual were never my concern. I have no obligation to entertain their viewpoints.

My primary concern was the multitude of websites they created containing my private and identifying information. As the poster asserts, if you dislike me, do so on your own; do not disseminate lies about me in an attempt to recruit others into hating me alongside you.

When it comes to bullies, pay attention to their repetitive behaviours of posting on various websites where they threaten to expose everything that transpired, claim to have filed complaints with Human Rights, and assert that they were “forced” to create a website.

Once you recognize these tactics, it becomes evident that they are nothing more than excuses from a bully, for we all know that no one can be coerced into such actions. They are adults who should be held accountable for their choices. It is time for them to face the consequences of their actions.


Well it is clear that once again RR is encouraging and promoting his wife Stella Reddy to act in her racist, prejudice and discriminatory behaviour towards our family. Not only does he not attempt stop her or correct her behaviour of stalking and harassing our family, but he in fact has again been caught enabling her.

RR allows his wife Stella Reddy ( a tenant ) to use the Building STAFF ONLY surveillance system to stalk, record our family’s coming and goings from around the building and then he allows her to share it with other tenants in the building. There is no argument to this.

RR allowed his wife Stella Reddy to post the Divisional Court Decision on the public board in the lobby which was okayed by the owners LL and AL to try an embarrass our family and to intimidate other tenants into compliance.

It is clear that from day one, 3 years ago, when our family first meet these racist individuals Stella Reddy and RR at the restaurant. When Stella Reddy made racial slurs and asked prejudice questions towards our family and RR stood by passively, as he has continued to do for the past 3 years, saying or doing anything to control his wife Stella Reddy racist, prejudice discriminatory behaviour.

It is clear that by reviewing the whole situation and events from the beginning, RR has accepted, encouraged and stood behind his wife behaviour silently in public about her racist and ignorant views.

Stella Reddy has been acting in this racist, prejudice and discriminatory behaviour since June 2016, and it has only increasingly gotten worse over time, because there has been no attempt to correct her behaviour by the systemically racist judicial system, owners LL, AL, Property Manager, Lawyer David Strashin, sister CJ , son JJ, family friend and from her submissive and obedient husband RR.

By RR, like LL and AL, just sitting back and saying and doing nothing at a minimum, passively allowing Stella Reddy to act in such a racist, prejudice and discriminatory behaviour, and stalking our family they are as guilty as she is.

RR like LL and AL, have had many opportunities, time and time again to speak up and check Stella Reddy with warnings or seek help/assistance to stop her behaviour, but they deliberately choose not to. They instead sit back quietly in the shadows and allowed Stella Reddy to be the face and voice for their racist, prejudice views and beliefs against our family. They silently sit by ideally and allow Stella Reddy to continue to travel down this path for only one of two reasons.

1)         They agree with her and they encourage her behaviour as she is the voice that they don’t have the courage to be, or

2)         They are hoping Stella Reddy has a stroke or commits suicide and they can walk away from this mess.

There are no other possible outcomes for why they have deliberately been allowing Stella Reddy to continue with this racist and prejudice behaviour of discriminating against our family for 3 years.

As of May 11, 2019 RR was still encouraging and enabling his wife Stella Reddy to use the Building STAFF ONLY Surveillance System to monitor our apartment.

Stella Reddy stated on her website, which she has subsequently again removed “ I found out something today, KR & AR refused to accept judicial court papers yesterday from a courier sent by lawyers. I heard second hand…”

Again Stella Reddy wants us to believe that courier reported back to the customer that the envelope was not delivered to our home, and then that person/customer than called Stella Reddy to describe the situation to her so she could than report it on her website?

First and foremost how does Stella Reddy know who the envelope was from? If it was from the “lawyers” then that means the “lawyers” had to give her the “second hand” information. And I find that very hard to believe that any lawyer is calling Stella Reddy about anything.  Especially since the lawyer does not work for her.

Second, how does she know that the envelope was not delivered because we were not home?

Hmmm, this is an interesting thought. The camera view that looks down the hall cannot see if our door is opened or not. So how would Stella Reddy know if we refused or if we were not home?

The fact that she knew I answered the door, in and among itself pretty astonishing.

Let me clearly state that I opened the door and spoke with the courier at that time. I was not hiding, and I could clearly see down the hallway. And once again let me clarify that there was no imaginary “friend” present in the hallway to give Stella Reddy any imaginary “second hand” information.

Again Stella Reddy was watching the Building STAFF ONLY surveillance system, alongside her husband RR when they saw me come out from the unit and speak with the courier.

So now that we have concluded that David Strashin did not call Stella Reddy to update her the delivery situation, and there was no one in the hall at the time. It is pretty clear that Stella Reddy was sitting in her apartment watching the Building STAFF ONLY surveillance system at 6:30 pm that night. As her husband RR stood by encouraging and enabling her to stalk our family.

Just like back during the Great World War II, when Nazi soldiers and ranking officers would stand by ideally, protecting their mighty Führer Adolf Hitler.

Owners LL, AL, Property Manager, Lawyer David Strashin, sister CJ, son JJ, family friend and husband RR also stand by ideally, protecting their own Führer, Stella Reddy.

RR is as guilty as his wife Stella Reddy as for 3 years he has stood by ideally in the same home, watching and obviously encouraging his wife to act out in this racist and prejudice behaviour that clearly discriminates and has discriminated against our family.

RR has silently cheered on his wife Stella Reddy from behind their unit door as her racist and prejudice behaviour is only get worse by the day. And it is clear that RR, LL, AL, Property Manager, Lawyer David Strashin have no intentions of correcting Stella Reddy behaviour after 3 years, in the interest of protecting the racist Stella Reddy to protect themselves.

Their acceptance of the stalking habits and use of the Building STAFF ONLY service system on a daily basis by Stella Reddy and her enabler RR are again marginalized as insignificant and baseless.

Application filed against my husband on 13/05/2019

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