Highlighting Narcissistic Adult Tenant Bullies Demands

Narcissistic Personalities

I wanted to share this letter I have that highlights Narcissistic traits more so than any other I ever read. It is statements like this that these Adult Tenant Bullies made, in writing and in person, as yes, Kory Read does talk like this in person, that my doctor said shows the traits required.

Healthcare providers diagnose NPD when you have at least five of the following characteristics:

  • Overinflated sense of self-importance.
  • Constant thoughts about being more successful, powerful, smart, loved or attractive than others.
  • Feelings of superiority and desire to only associate with high-status people.
  • Need for excessive admiration.
  • Sense of entitlement.
  • Willingness to take advantage of others to achieve goals.
  • Lack of understanding and consideration for other people’s feelings and needs.
  • Arrogant or snobby behaviors and attitudes.

While you see Allison Read’s name there, they both wrote this letter, as I can see similar styles of writing as in the emails I got, demanding and entitled. 

This letter is in response to the Annual Fire Inspection that is required once a year by the Fire Safety Codes of Ontario. A Fire Safety Company, trained in these things, come to the property once a year to complete annual fire safety inspections of all units and all common areas. NO area of the property is not looked at during this time and all Smoke Detectors in all units, have to be checked for expiry and batteries replaced. A Notice was sent out a week in advance of this inspection, and this letter was their reply.

It is for letters like these, that will cause a tenant to be evicted! This letter was also included in the paperwork that was sent for the request for a hearing that was held Sept 2017, where they were evicted.

Even if the previous Superintendents, who replaced their smoke detector batteries 4 months previously as said in this letter, were Certified in Fire Safety like my hubby is, it is still required to be done. We had cause to change out batteries when we moved into the unit in June 2016, yet it was still checked and expiry date of the detector was noted, on this date of inspection in October. It is only when I sent them a printed documents stating the rules of Annual Fire Safety Inspection from the Fire Dept itself, did they allow entry for this inspection.

Not only did they complain about this inspection and claim it was fine and battery replaced just a few months prior, when these inspectors entered, they found the smoke detector owned by the property, was disconnected and battery was removed! Sure, they had personal smoke detectors around, it is the one owned and installed by the owners they were concerned about, as they were also hardwired into the building fire safety systems! If this unit had a actual fire, sure their own detectors go off, but the one hooked up to the building systems was disconnected, so the building fire systems would NOT go off. This system notifies the Fire Dept in case of fire and also other residents.

This is why hardwired smoke detectors are checked and batteries replaced every year. If it is disconnected, it is not going to work the way it should. Once an apartment smoke detector goes off, it causes the rest of the fire system to trigger and the building alarm would then go off and the system would notify our Fire Safety Company, who monitors this system from remotely. It causes a chain reaction, but if one part is disconnected, it won’t work the way it should. So many people just do not understand the seriousness of all this Fire Safety. 

This is also why the Fire Marshall can come to a property and FINE a tenant, up to $5000 for disconnecting the smoke detector in their unit and they could also face up to 2 yrs in prison. It is a serious offence to disconnect a smoke detector in an apartment in Ontario, as the repercussions can be terrible. Yes, when I heard they had disconnected the building smoke detector, I did offer to call the Fire Marshall on them, but was told “NO” by the owner.

One other thing to note, if I had control and influence there as the “property manager” they tried to make me, I wouldn’t need permission to call the Fire Marshall, I would have just done it, as they broke the rules. Property managers don’t need permission like that from property owners, as it is part of the job contract to do what is necessary to run the property in all safety systems, not just fire.

This letter was also sent to the City of Toronto Property Standards Inspector they called the following year, the one they lied too when they made the claim that the owners REFUSED to do any repairs that were needed. This letter clearly shows the owners did try to repair it all, but the tenant refused entry when it was scheduled, when ANYTHING was scheduled. This letter was also why the City did was willing to wait till they vacated for the repairs to be done, they knew what a nightmare it would be and it wasn’t worth it for us to go thru. They knew eventually the repairs would be completed, and they were, as soon as they moved out.

This letter contains a lot of information on the writers. This was also about a scheduled window glass measurement and replacement appointment and the technician’s child got sick, so he couldn’t come that day, and it was rescheduled for the next morning. This was denying entry for that too. After they denied entry, the glass technician refused to return. This was already the SECOND glass company I had called and scheduled to come for their window, and each time it was denied, so after reading this letter, I gave up on it.

They clearly state this was not an emergency issue, there is certainly no sense of urgency that would require it to be done immediately which would inconvenience me and family..

It wasn’t about “convenience” to them, it was about “control” at this point and you can see it in this letter. They even write like Bullies! 

As the majority of tenants also work during the same hours as building staff and contractors, they wouldn’t be home during the day anyway and no contractor will agree to schedule work for when the tenant is home in the evenings and weekend. If there is work scheduled, it is up to the tenant to arrange to be home at that time, if they want to be present, not the other way around.

These Adult Tenant Bullies wrote this way, as they believed they could. They thought they were allowed to write in such a condescending, entitled, arrogant way to the building owners, who they rented an apartment from.

Once I read this letter, I knew that there was not one thing anyone could ever do that would appease them, it was either their way or the highway and that this would be a nightmare tenancy. They were determined to find any fault possible to to make the job harder. 

As my partner was a super attendant for many years, He has informed me that he has NEVER had ANY contractors or pest control cancel out on him on the same day they were to arrive. I doubt very much if Kory Read ever held any position in an apartment building, otherwise, he would know he couldn’t do what he was doing! He had no idea of the these rules that were always in place for rentals in Ontario, as his tenancy showed me!

It was after this letter was sent and the Fire Inspection got done there, that we left them alone. I gave no notices to them for entry, as there was no need, and as per the owners, I let it all go and left them alone, but I knew it was coming. My gut knew this was not the end of it.

They sent in the Maintenance Request 10 months later, on August 22, 2017, with just the bathroom ceiling noted on there for repairs, and I gave them 48 hours notice, not 24, to protect myself. This action caused the nightmare that followed, that still continues to today with their domains online. All because these tenants wanted control over the apartment they lived in.

ALL of the traits noted above comes across loud and clear in this letter. That is all I see these days, the traits of narcissism they show in their writing. I don’t even see the words much anymore, just the traits they express!

The last paragraph is funny, I must say, as no, I don’t need to care about what they have planned for the week, why should I?  The RTA has in place the rules of entry for situations like this, put there just for this reason, as no building staff nor property owners, need to worry about what a “tenant” has planned for the week so they could arrange to work around it in repairs, it is too convoluted and time consuming to work that way. Obviously you are not capable of, or just don’t care about what myself and family have planned for the week enough to following up with contractors and informing me in a properly, professional or even in a reasonable manner of any “sudden” changes. So from this date forward we will work together to ensure that things are done properly and respectfully of everyone schedules and rights.

are done properly and respectfully of everyone schedules and rights.  When I see lines like this, I wonder, Who got to decide this? Them, or the rules of the Residential Tenancies Act of Ontario? They didn’t care about rules, otherwise they would have known they couldn’t write like this to the owners! As far as they are concerned, no one’s schedules was more important than theirs, not even a contractors. These tenants wanted FULL CONTROL over who entered and when, just for the sake of having control over it.


Allison Read
303 – 859 Kennedy Road
Oct. 17, 2016

I am forwarding this email to inform you that I will not be allowing you access to my unit ( 303 ) on October 18, 2016 as you have request to once again look at replacing the window that you have not been able to fix since I first requested it in or about September 2015.

Once again you set the time and the date for your convince, and once again you failed to show up as scheduled.

In the future I will inform you when I will be able to allow you access to my unit regarding the window. As this is not an emergency issue, there is certainly no sense of urgency that would require it to be done immediately which would inconvenience me and family..

In regards to the fire inspection dated for October 19, 2016. The previous super attendants ( Angie and Chris) have already performed this same fire inspection ( smoke detectors ) in or about June of 2016 changing the batteries. There is no absolutely no need for a second inspection in my unit within a 4 month time period.

I have given you access to my unit on 3 separate occasions already within the last month and half, and each time you have made no attempts to try and accommodate myself or my family in regards to the time and dates and if they worked for us or not.

Let us also not forget that you actually serve me an N5 form that you knew was deliberately false and misleading in an attempt to again bully/scare me into bowing down to your wants and needs..

It is also once again obvious that you are deliberately trying to in convince/bait myself and my family into getting a negative response in an attempt to try and build a case against me so you can try and have us removed through the court system like you did with unit #302.

It also again appears to me that you are also deliberately screwing up dates in hopes of again trying to get into my unit alone with someone being there. I am not sure what your fascination is with getting into my unit unattended?

If you are not happy with my decisions, that I have made in this email. You are more than welcome and within your rights to take this matter to landlord tenant board where I will supply all of your documents and evidence of yourself and Louie trying to get me and my family out of the building.

I am too old to play these childish games with you Stella and Louie, and as before, I will not play them with you. If anyone wants access to my unit for the bathroom, in which you started and did not finish since I first moved in back in June 2015. I will except a few dates to choose from, and I will choose from these same dates and times to let you know what works for me and my family.

Today you once again failed to follow up with your contracts to ensure that everything is in place for today. As my partner was a super attendant for many years, He has informed me that he has NEVER had ANY contractors or pest control cancel out on him on the same day they were to arrive. And yet conveniently it has happened to me and my family twice within a months’ time at the hands of Stella and Louie.

Obviously you are not capable of, or just don’t care about what myself and family have planned for the week enough to following up with contractors and informing me in a properly, professional or even in a reasonable manner of any “sudden” changes. So from this date forward we will work together to ensure that things are done properly and respectfully of everyone schedules and rights.

Allison Read 

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