Welcome!
This website contains aspects of my recovery from a smear campaign and cyberbullying over the past 8 years in various domains created by upset Tenants from my last job for the specific purpose of naming and shaming me. I have learned their behaviour is very toxic. These pages show my education on these toxic traits.
They were mad over how I did my job as a Building Superintendent in Ontario from June 2016 to July 4, 2018, when I quit because of all the stress. They were evicted and this behaviour online was their revenge! Hubby and I finally left Ontario in the Fall of 2020 as I truly feared for my safety due to their actions online.
I will at times share some of the redacted documents I have received from these past tenants to show the various toxic traits I have learned about. I removed everyone’s name but my own, as I intend to educate not name and shame them as they do me. I am not comfortable with that, but I have no problem sharing their public websites that contain their names so you can see how they write about others, not just me.
I am recovering though, thank goodness! Thanks to therapy, gratitude, help from others, online and off, and mindfulness I have come to see they can have their nasty opinions. While they perceive the situation in their own way, the narratives they tell don’t align with the facts. My sense of safety has returned!
Everything I share on my site, the music, videos, and posters, even some websites, contain elements of toxic traits and narcissism and all speak to me and inspire me to think better, and eventually be better! I want to have a life, not just live.
All I share helped me learn new things that have helped me get where I am today.
On these pages, you will find shared items from YouTube, including from my own channel. I find the music, and videos, very personal and there are so many inspiring people out there whose works bring out so many emotions within me.
I also share various posters from Pinterest that I found over the past few years and I share my account where they are saved. Some of these posters helped save my life in the early days, as the words they contained kept me going day after day. If possible, I also share the author.
I share a lot of Psychology Today articles as I find them very helpful for mental health recovery. Once I got well enough mentally to absorb their meanings, my mind was in a fog in the early months, they too inspired me to keep learning and growing as a person.
You will also find that I will share other bloggers’ works that I find helpful as well! I have come across so many beautiful writers, like me, who are trying to find their way in this World. I have connected with a lot of wonderful people over the past 3 years and they too have taught me so much that helped me get through this situation I found myself in.
I found out I was not alone! We all have different journeys, but there are enough similarities that we understand your experience. I found empathy and it was just what I needed.
The many links I share are all online and accessible to the general public.
If anyone has an issue with any content I share on my site, please feel free to reach out to me by email at sredd4848@gmail.com