Articles on Recovery from Narcissistic Abuse: These Traits Sound Familiar!


This is another site I follow that provides me with some very helpful information. I have come to accept and understand that these Tenant Adult Bullies after me are just totally blind to what they do. If they saw just what they are doing in, the total hypocrisy they show, they wouldn’t do it. At least, normal people wouldn’t do it! I guess they not normal people.

Everything I read on Narcissism and their traits, I see from these Adult Bullies, Kory & Allison Read. They do everything in their power to try and shame me with their words.

Try every which way possible to make me feel fear, guilt, and shame for creating my own site that highlights and exposes their acts against me.

They use their words to try and effect my psyche. It don’t work anymore, thankfully. I come to see they nothing, no power to cause influence on my life like they claim. They just think they do!

What a joke they are, they had online for almost 3 yrs and was there even longer, yet I have a site I managed to keep online for almost a year, and they complain. As they say, payback is a bitch. 

Time for them to accept that they don’t control me and will never stop me anymore from what I want to do. If I want to do 50 websites filled with what I experienced, no one can stop me. I can write and share online anything I feel comfortable in doing. As they had control over their domains, and its contents, I have the same privilege, as I made sure I could.

Yes, I created my own smear campaign and I am sharing everything I have that shows I was a target of Narcissistic Adult Bullies out for revenge.

I have a right to expose the actions others do against me, especially in a domain in my own personal name they stole to use. I have a right to defend myself against anyone who attacks me personally online, especially when they don’t know me. 

fear, guilt, and shame.

I feel empowered these days!

If you know what it’s like to experience narcissistic abuse, then you might understand the level of damage that narcissists can do. It is profound and life-altering – and not in a good way. Narcissists destroy you, but if you want to put yourself together again, you can absolutely do it – starting with focusing on understanding what happened to you. Your next (and most important step) is then moving forward into intentionally healing and embracing your true self. Let’s talk about it.

How do narcissists destroy you?

Narcissists are masters of manipulation and control, but the effects of being in a toxic relationship with someone affected by narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) are life-changing. The narcissist’s form of psychological and emotional abuse is so harmful that most survivors find it impossible to go back to the way things used to be after recovering from narcissistic abuse.  Their trademark lack of empathy and compassion spills into every interaction with you.

Here are just a few of the ways they destroy you through narcissistic abuse in toxic relationships.

  • They make you believe you’re unworthy of love or respect.

  • They require and take absolute control over your life.

  • They drain your life of energy, confidence, and happiness

  • They see and treat you less like a person and more like an object.

  • They destroy your self-esteem.

  • They isolate you.

  • They shame you.

  • They use your kindness and devotion against you.

  • They make you dependent on them.

  • They manipulate you into staying with them, first through future faking and later through fear, obligation, and guilt.

Narcissistic abuse takes a lot from its victims: Our sense of self, our security, our trust and happiness, and sometimes even our memories. Often, when we finally break away from a toxic relationship with a narcissist (or any other abuser), we are left feeling like there is no true “us” anymore. We are merely empty shells of the people we used to be.  Can you relate to that feeling?

Narcissists are expert manipulators who use their false selves to get close to their victims and then use their true selves to manipulate them into staying put by causing fear, guilt, and shame.

Are you ready to release your past and own your future?

If you are ready to release your past, to forgive yourself, and to love yourself despite what has happened, you will also be able to find your own place in the world. You will find your voice and your truth, and you can live confidently with a deep knowing that you are enough.

To do this, you have to let go of the shame and self-blame. You need to understand how their abuse works so that you can recognize it for what it is – the actions of someone who wasn’t capable of seeing you as their equal, who may have had a sort of “god complex” – and who wanted to use and abuse you as an object. If we see these things clearly, we can begin to heal ourselves.

Why do narcissists play mind games with you?

To be able to play mind games, the narcissist has to ignore the feelings of others completely.   They have no empathy and can’t see their pain or feel it.  They have no ability to connect with others on any other level than a superficial one.   They have no interest in others as people other than how they can use them, and they lie for no reason other than to avoid being honest.


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