When Toxic Adult Bullies were taken to the Landlord and Tenant Board for eviction, it started them on the path of looking for revenge. 859kennedyroad.com was the beginning of it.

This explains how to tell who the Narcissistic person really is. They do give it away, every time!

The victim will tell the entire story: what the narc did, what others did, what they themselves did.

The narcissist will only tell what the victim has done.

Within the first edition of that domain’s contents, Toxic Adult Bullies were very careful over the info they shared, but they made sure to play the victim and only told part of the truth, as they left out the most important piece of it, that they refused access. Nowhere, on any domain contents, does Toxic Adult Bullies admit they broke the rules, nor do they admit ownership of these websites, except for the very last post on stellareddy.comThis is how I knew I was dealing with a Narcissist. 

As noted below, Narcissistic people only tell you what they say their targets did, not anything about them. Toxic Adult Bullies will never tell you about all the times he stood in the Lobby, trying to talk to tenants, and their company, about how terrible I am at my job, what a Bully I have been towards them, and how I am a bitch for evicting them, for trying to “pick up for their rights”.

They told people I was illegally evicting them because they tried to enforce their rights for maintenance needed in their apartment. They outright lied. The evidence shows differently. 

This is how I started to notice the Narcissistic traits I was reading about, I looked at the words being spread about me and how these Tenant Bullies left so much out! At no time, do you ever see Toxic Adult Bullies admit to anything they have done, in an open manner? They have let things slip out over time, but never any open admissions of their actions. That to me was the surest way of telling me these people were Narcissistic!

Mature Adults would always admit their mistakes and try to fix them, Narcissistic people always blame someone else!

I started reading articles like this below, from people who have experienced similar things, and I learned from them.  I came to see that my experience was not unique, there are millions of targets out there who suffer such mind-blowing psychological abuse, every day. Every story is different, but the traits on display, are what all Narcissistic people do. They follow a similar pattern and it is easy to see, once you know what to look for.

By taking Toxic Adult Bullies to the Landlord and Tenant Board, and accusing them of breaking the rules of entry, we caused them Narcissistic Injury. We embarrassed them by exposing their actions within the property of refusing access, laid out their total disregard for the rules, and shared their emails of refusal with other people, specifically the LTB. We put them on the spot for their actions, and they didn’t like it, and would never admit the truth.

They made the play that yes, they refused access, but only because I MADE them do it because they were worried “about stuff going missing” from their apartment. They admit to refusing entry, but with the excuse that I made them do it.  

This action caused Toxic Adult Bullies to become vengeful and they sat around for hours upon hours, typing out their revenge in a domain of 859kennedyroad.com, and the Facebook posts. Over time, they just added more vengeful sites, laying out their false narratives of what they claim was done to them. They spent a lot of time from Nov 2, 2017, till the last site was posted on June 2020, making the contents of these domains.

The timeline shows that a domain showed up after each loss in the Legal System, as Toxic Adult Bullies didn’t like the legal determinations, so decided to make and post their own instead! They decided to become the Judge, Jury, and Executioner, and ignore the legal decisions released. They even ignored the loss they had in Divisional Court and I know they never paid the $4000.00 fee they owe for that either. They tried and lost. These many domains, and all their contents, are revenge for that loss. It’s too obvious.

It took over a year to come up with the details of this lie from a prior meeting they told at the hearing, as a way to take the light off of them and place it on me instead. I said they did some action, and they respond with some outlandish accusation against me in return. All you need to look at is what came first…

Toxic Adult Bullies didn’t factor in how to convince others of a prior meeting they claim we had when they didn’t mention any such allegations for 2 1/2 months after they say it happened, not to anyone. This claim all a sudden come out of thin air after they refused access and received a Form N5 for doing that. 

All of a sudden, I am reading about these false allegations, in vague terms, in a 7-page letter. Then I hear rumours from tenants in the building, of the story being spread about me to other tenants, of this alleged prior meeting at some restaurant, sometime in June 2016, where I said inappropriate things to them.  I heard so many rumours within that first year from Aug 2016- Sept 2017 from other tenants. I had one tenant, who would make weekly visits to the office to tell me all the gossip she heard that week going around about me in the building among tenants.

Because we dared to take these Tenants to the LTB, we are faced with all the things below, and then some! They slandered us, in person and online, they stalked us on social media and the internet, spread rumours, tried to triangulate to ruin relationships, threatened to cause more harm to the business image and reputation, and harassed me by email and within these domains and their contents. Toxic Adult Bullies tried to befriend me and other family members on social media through his other accounts, looking for more “dirt” he could use against me, they even went to my previous workplaces, asking about us. Toxic Adult Bullies has always acted like he despises me and his writings show the same. The only thing I did to Toxic Adult Bullies, denied him control over entry and this is the result of that.

“A narcissistic person will begin a smear campaign against you, telling anyone who will listen about your horrible actions and words towards them. They will play victim and when you retaliate, that is proof and they will play victim even more.”

Every post on stellareddy.com is geared toward revenge, and they have taken everything I have ever said and done, and twisted the context with their vicious speculations and nasty suspicions, to play the victim.

Such wishful thinking Toxic Adult Bullies shows in this post! It is for posts like this, that I know just the type of person Toxic Adult Bullies is… A Narcissist!

In this post, Toxic Adult Bullies is telling you in no uncertain terms, who I am and what I do, when in reality, he has no way of knowing. Also note, that Toxic Adult Bullies ONLY writes about me and what he claims I am, not about anything he did or said, just all about me.

This post is also a perfect way to tell that Toxic Adult Bullies doesn’t know me, as only Friends and Family know about the house fire I had in 1991 and the outcome of it with PTSD. I didn’t advertise that with tenants living in the properties I worked in, as they didn’t need to know. My employers always knew as I told them, but Tenants? No. I never told tenants about my personal issues, not even my health issues, as really, it was none of their business. 

Everything noted in this post, was absolutely none of Toxic Adult Bullies’ business, but they made it so anyway. Why? Because Toxic Adult Bullies was getting scared and was lashing out so viciously as a result.

I wrote a post on Karma on a free site I had, and this was the response to that post, Toxic Adult Bullies is trying to minimize my PTSD. He has to, as there is no way he will ever let anyone think HE was responsible for anything I was going through, so he has to try and convince you of his beliefs.

He has to make you think I am using my PTSD as a ploy, not that it is a serious thing. I am sure that everyone who has PTSD thinks it is a “convenient” thing to have! It is such an idiotic thing to say!  He also makes the play that I should go around advertising my issues to everyone when it isn’t their business.

When everything was going in Stella Reddy’s favor, there WAS NO ISSUE OF PTSD. But now that Stella Reddy feels like the world is crashing down around her. And she is beginning held accountable for her actions and having to answers for her behavior.

Now the conveniently fabricate PTSD is an issue that she wants people to believe. It appears to be a convenient illness that Stella Reddy has been using for years for multiple reasons to try and gain pity and sympathy.

http://web.archive.org/web/20211021165828/https://stellareddy.com/i-am-a-firm-believer-in-karma/You see Stella Reddy and her enbaling husband  can not afford to live in Toronto, as NEITHER ONE OF THEM ARE PROBABLY WORKING now, and Stella Reddy, who is leeching off the Government of Canada for her Canada Pension Plan Disability Benefits only gets as she states “$694.16 per month”

It is amazing is how Stella Reddy conveniently was able to suddenly work in June 2016, despite her February 2015 Cervical Spinal Stenosis diagnosis of which got her approved for for her Canada Pension Plan in March 2016.

Stella Reddy also likes to claim that she has imaginary Post-traumatic stress disorder ( PTSD ) from a house fire in Newfoundland back 29 years ago in 1991.

Stella Reddy’s behavior is an insult to all individuals who really have PTSD.

Stella Reddy uses her conveniently fabricate PTSD as a crutch and a way to to leech off the Canadian government. Just like she did to her husband and enabler Russell Reddy when she decided she wanted to retire from Property Management and live off his small cleaning income.

Stella Reddy constantly plays the pity card as she tries to relate the events from June 2016 to present for her PTSD.

Post-traumatic stress disorder ( PTSD ) is a mental health condition that’s triggered by a terrifying event — either experiencing it or witnessing it.

Stella Reddy house fire has never been an issue in her conveniently fabricate PTSD.

Stella Reddy has never claimed to have the symptoms of flashbacks, nightmares, severe anxiety, as well as uncontrollable thoughts about the fire that night 29 years ago.

Stella Reddy always relates her conveniently fabricate PTSD as being related to the situation in which she created with her racist and anti-black behavior.

Stella Reddy did not have PTSD when …

  • she had a pattern of her making the interracial married couple/tenants sit around all day, waiting 3 times for her and she never bothered to show up, without notice.

Stella Reddy did not have PTSD when ……

  • when she was plotting and serving illegal N5’s against the interracial married couple/tenants.

Stella Reddy did not have PTSD when …

  • she was throwing away the key to their unit to justify her illegal N5 to get them evicted.

Stella Reddy did not have PTSD when …

  • she was in front of the racist Caucasian Social Justice Tribunal Member Kevin Lundy of September 26, 2017, lying and providing altered and false documents as evidence to have the interracial married couple/tenants evicted.

Stella Reddy did not have PTSD when …

  • she refused interracial married couple/tenants parking at the building, but at the same time gave the all-white tenant that same privilege she was refusing the interracial married couple/tenants.

She did not have PTSD when …

  • When she deliberately lied and stated that the the interracial married couple/tenants were the only tenants with a barbecue despite there being 4 other tenants. One being her own sister Cindy Jones.

Stella Reddy did not have PTSD when …

  • When she showed support that she was a racist Donald Trump on Twitter.

Stella Reddy did not have PTSD when …

  • When she threatened to call the Children’s Aid Society on the interracial married couple/tenants bi racial children, twice.

Stella Reddy did not have PTSD when …

  • When using racial slurs, racist actions, derogatory and prejudice language during the ltb hearing in a public form.

Stella Reddy did not have PTSD when …

  • When she messaged the the interracial married couple/tenants two young bi-racial children with hateful content on Facebook messenger.

And the list goes on forever.

When everything was going in Stella Reddy’s favor, there WAS NO ISSUE OF PTSD. But now that Stella Reddy feels like the world is crashing down around her. And she is beginning held accountable for her actions and having to answers for her behavior.

Now the conveniently fabricate PTSD is an issue that she wants people to believe. It appears to be a convenient illness that Stella Reddy has been using for years for multiple reasons to try and gain pity and sympathy.

Stella Reddy is a fake and is milking the Canadian Government like others do in order to not have to work full time, if at all.

As it has been proven time and time again. Stella Reddy is a liar, a really bad liar. And the pattern of her lying only continues with her conveniently fabricate PTSD.

 

If you have caused them narcissistic injury:

  • • embarrassment
  • • exposure
  • • lay the truth out on the table
  • • call them a narcissist
  • • warn others about your experiences with them and how they treated you

Etc. etc. etc…

They definitely will get you back. They are vengeful creatures. Upon the most vengeful people you can encounter in your life. They will try to one-up you with revenge and can sit for hours and think of all the nasty ways to get back at you for the horrible things you did to them.

They will:

  • • slander you.
  • • stalk you to be like you and copy you.
  • • spread rumors about you.
  • • ruin your relationships with other people or anyone that will listen.
  • • threaten you with the law or other actions such as to threaten to harm you or ruin your image and reputation entirely.
  • • harass you in any form they can (mainly through social media, finding out your number or email, asking others about you)
  • • make hidden accounts to test you, befriend you or find out your biggest weakness or flaw so they can use it to their advantage.

They will see you as the worst human being they have ever encountered. A disgusting person. They act like they despise you and your very existence. The biggest sign that you are dealing with a narcissist is to see what they do after a discard. A narcissistic person will begin a smear campaign against you, telling anyone who will listen about your horrible actions and words towards them. They will play the victim and when you retaliate, that is proof and they will play victim even more.

They will feed off of that attention of being helpless and a victim as if they can never get full. It is hard in the end to figure out whether the actual victim is exposing the narcissist for who they are or if its the narcissist on a smear campaign.

Narcissists would never outwardly expose themselves. They are slick and think ahead.

The victim will tell the entire story: what the narc did, what others did, what they themselves did.

The narcissist will only tell what the victim has done.

I hope that really helps to tell who is the narcissist and what to watch out for.