Adult Bullies: The Sharpest Critics

To me, there are some serious concerns when Toxic Adult Bullies make and post websites filled with their own skewed perspectives just on other individuals’ lives. Sure, some would argue I do no different but in all honesty, the people who think that way, don’t bother to look below the surface. I have done my own websites to share the truth and in my own defence, as I refused to allow these Adult Bullies to abuse my name all over the internet by signing up with various services as they have done in the past. I am standing by my name! When I saw my name on LinkedIn, associated with stellareddy.com, that was enough for me! I had to find some way to stop them from adding too many lies by adding their sites to the Internet Archive, and sharing it as it was at that time, ensuring they couldn’t change anything to make it sound worse than it already did. I had no problem picking up for myself, though I may not always do it right! I wanted to share it all, not just what I want people to see, so I did.

I preferred for others to make up their own minds about this situation if they were curious enough to do so, not just tell them my perspectives. I believe in being fair, even showing my own disordered thinking! Why not? I am a human being who experienced serious trauma from being Bullied by Adult Tenants, who are now using the same malicious Bullying tactics on others! If I can prevent even one person from getting caught up in these Adult bullies’ lies as I did, I will be content.

They talk the talk, but in the end, they are cowards who hide anonymously behind the internet.

I am sharing my story, what I have learned, and exposing Adult Bullies and the many Smearing websites they own on the internet. It is up to you whether you accept what I write or not. I have reached the point where I don’t care anymore whether I am believed or not, I know what I experienced.

I was Bullied by these Adults for the past 6 years and 5 months and I have been following their online antics, not just in my name either. While checking that they don’t try and change history against me and accuse me of more false allegations, I have seen what they do with other sites, including their own private ones. I’ve seen various sites show up and then disappear again, but their smearing ones have remained, except for the Social Justice one.

I was shown by the Police that the internet is an open forum and any site is there for public use, so I use their own sites that are freely accessible online to show their actions in other people’s names. They are not Anonymous to me and I share how I know it is them too! I can take and share any website I find for my own personal use. Like so many posters I have seen, if they didn’t want anyone to criticize them back, stop criticizing others. Simple really. They made their personal issues very public and should accept that there will be people who will criticize and question their perspectives, just as they criticize and question others. It is human nature.

In all honesty, if you really look at the contents of their many websites, you will see how one-sided it is!

They don’t question their own actions, just what others have done and said. All that matters to them, is their own perspectives and feelings, everyone else is wrong and of course, everyone else is a “racist” person.

That is what I see in the contents of their website these days, their lack of maturity and ability to be responsible for their own lives. They prefer to blame other people for their experiences, rather than accept they are responsible for how their lives turn out! They have issues with other people, they make their issues very public in the contents of the websites they post. I will never understand it and am very happy about that, as it shows I am not like them!

If you don’t like something, you don’t make and post domains to smear, blame, and cause Toxic Shame on other people! Their reactions to issues they experience in their lives, whether it is being evicted for their own actions, or their child being bullied in school, show how unreasonable and immature they are being! They are reacting like children having a temper tantrum for not getting their way.

To me, The Toxic Adult Bullies I have had to deal with, are hypocrites. They spend their days making websites with particular content that criticizes every aspect of someone else’s life, never their own. They don’t know these people and are not friends or family, so we all know that all they can do is speculate, not state facts they can prove.

Just look at the last page of stellareddy.com, where they imply I am a stalker yet, a few months after posting this, they made lorriereddy.com where they share my new Facebook I made after leaving Ontario. They show evidence of their stalking me and think it is okay but make such a big deal of me looking at the sites they have in my name. It is my name after all, not theirs to use and abuse as they have done.

Even though this Bully shows my nickname on stellareddy.com, https://stellareddy.com/stella-reddys-use-of-children-to-promote-her-racist-behavior/, he still tries to claim I made up a “new” name, trying to hide. There are just some examples of their duplicity! So many contradictions written!

As I wrote earlier, they are hypocrites who believe they can do whatever they want, while no one else can. They have websites about me, yet flipped when I made one about them. That alone showed me their true personality when they bashed me for my first site, koryread.ca. Showing the mentality of “do as I say, not as I do”. I knew then I was dealing with a very disordered person!

I copied the text below from https://connaughtpublicschool.com/chapter-02/ where these “concerned parents” talk about Bullying. While I appreciate that Bullying in schools is prevalent, there is a procedure to follow, not blatantly posting it on the internet, opening these children up to more ridicule! It is sad when an Adult has to be mean to children to get his way!

I have accepted that these Adults are hypocrites and have no problem doing something that they terrorize others for doing. A lot of this text, I saw before, as it was written to me and it is easy enough to see. This Adult is being a Bully just for posting this site.

It is the actions like this that these Adults do, that show me just how Toxic they are. Who writes like this about children, calling their own child an “Angry Black Man/Child“? Such derogatory terms they use to describe people, even their own family members! Remember, he said the same about his own wife before too.

The last sentence is almost identical to the one in the letter I got from them in August 2016! As I have learned, Toxic Adult Bullies become very predictable over time and use the same tactics against all their Targets, as you can clearly see here!

I guess we will have to start looking into Eexii wearing a body cam to school to protect him from any future false allegations by your staff and aggressive behavior from your students.

It is clear that you and your staff do not care about the effects of bullying on children, especially Black children named Eexii by different Caucasian students named Marcus and Natasha. Hell, your vice-principal Mrs. Ravazzolo has now taken up calling him a liar to protect her own interest in her failure to do her job without bias and stereotyping Eexii.

Mr. McInnis, you are more interested in labeling Eexii as an Angry Black Man/Child than you are about the mental effects this abuse could have on him that he is enduring while in your care, in your school. A bodycam will definitely stop people like your vice-principal, Mrs. Ravazzolo, from making future false allegations that Eexii is a liar. A bodycam will certainly stop bullies like Marcus and Natasha from randomly verbally and physically attacking Eexii for no apparent reason.

This discussion is done. I await a written response ONLY in regards to the two previous incidents that Eexii was involved in. Do not email me telling me about your black friends, or your black family members, or how you love “Soul Food” because your words mean nothing as your actions clearly speak loud enough for all to see what is in your heart.

https://connaughtpublicschool.com/chapter-02/

I want to acknowledge that I have received your frivolous and empty threat of eviction due to YOUR INABILITY TO GIVE PROPER NOTICE.

As my memory serves me, your original notice that I signed and agreed to was dated for: Monday August, 29, 2016 between the hours of 11:00 am to 3:00 pm.

On this above date, you notified me at 2:01 pm via an email and not by a phone call that you had cancelled that appointment after 3 hours of me waiting, and you had already rescheduled for the next day at 9:00 am without okaying it with me or getting my signature for the Tuesday August 30, 2016 pest control appointment.

These are your () exact words:

“Magical Pest Control screwed up our service date and has moved treatment to tomorrow at 9 am for this building. I am very sorry about this but it is out of my control. Treatment will be done tomorrow at 9 am. “

It is obvious that (  ) could not be bothered to ask anyone if it was convenient for them, nor did you care if it even was. Obviously you had some deep desire to get into everyone’s unit as fast so you could ( I assume ) to assess their standard of living and report back like a good little worker to () on what you had seen.

There is no other logical reason for the pest control to come back immediately the next day less than a 24 hour period later.

It could not be the cock roaches as they have been present in this building since I moved in over a year ago. So I am unclear as to why you could not reschedule the pest control for at a minimum couple of days later?

This would allow people to make any arrangements they needed to have someone there when you enter their units. Believe it or not, people are not comfortable with strangers in their apartments, even alleged superintendents that have been working in this field for 16 years in Canada.

Noting that the previous date that you set for pest control was set in and about a week prior to them coming. Suddenly on this day, you NEEDED pest control to be there STAT the  following day.

I guess that and yourself () think that people do not have to go to work, nor do they have any type of errands, appointments or business to take care on any given day.

Apparently and yourself () did not care that everyone emptied their cupboards, pulled out their stoves and refrigerators and waited 3 hours for an appointment that never happened that was  arranged by you.

Instead of the 3 of you being considerate to everyone else needs, and the fact that you have now asked the tenants to do pest control back-to back days. The 3 of you decided that you would do what you want, when you wanted and how you wanted.

Under the act it clearly states:

27. (1) A landlord may enter a rental unit in accordance with written notice given to the tenant at least 24 hours before the time of entry under the following circumstances:

I may not have been in school for a while, but when I last check 2:00 pm on Monday August, 29, 2016 until 9:00 am Tuesday August, 30, 2016 is ONLY 19 hours. This obviously does not fall with in the 24 MANDATED time frame.

Once you did not meet YOUR OWN timeline that YOU created for pest control, YOU decided to reschedule without considering anyone else’s ability to meet your needs to have this done on back-to- back days. It did not become mine or any other tenant’s problem when you could not met your arrangements with pest control.

We as tenants are entitled to a 24 hour written notice and I would expect someone who claims to have been an alleged superintendent for 16 years in Canada, would have a much better and clearer understand of the act with its clear wording.

But being that you are a bully in nature, you just tried to set a date and time and expect everyone to fall in line with YOUR needs.

Apparently you deliberately misread the act and were trying to use the Entry Without Notice clause to get into my unit.

  • (1) A landlord may enter a rental unit at any time without written notice,
  • in cases of emergency; or
    • if the tenant consents to the entry at the time of entry.

Which we both know that you cannot apply this to the August 30, 2016 date.

Up until this very moment, I am still confused as to what was the big hurry to get pest control into everyone units?  I suspect that there is more to this than just pest control issues.

I also need to address the fact that you stated in your email, and to everyone involved that pest control would be here at 9:00 am on August 30, 2016. And yet you did not knock on my door until around 11:30 am I am told. I am sure that your video footage would confirm that.

That is a 2 ½ hours gap from when pest control was supposed to be here according to you. Pest control had to do 3 apartments on the 4th floor before reaching my floor ( 3rd ).

That means if pest control  was on time, it took them 50 minutes to do each unit on the 4th  floor with a little powder sprayed behind the refrigerator an stove and some gel in the cupboards.

Upon speaking to other tenants that did receive the pest control treatment. Pest control was in and out in approximately 5 minutes. So I can only conclude that again you inaccurately stated what time they were coming.

I again guess the and yourself () think that tenants have nothing to do for 2 days in a row other than sit around waiting for your timelines to come and go?

So with the above now clarified, I know what to express my thoughts about your deliberately inaccurate and false N5 legal document.

I do not appreciate and yourself () harassing and threating me and my family with eviction purely based on the issue that I told you in an email this morning, that I was going to file a complaint with the Landlord and Tenant Board based on the issue of the camera you have facing into units. 203, 303,403 and 503.

There is no room to interpret this spiteful act as being any form of coincidence or happenstance. It was only after I emailed you () at 8:45 am on Wednesday August 31, 2016 for the names of the owners of the building for my application for the Landlord and Tenant Board. That suddenly I am now being targeted and given a deliberately inaccurate and false N5 legal documents that PROMISE to get me evicted based YOUR INABILITY TO GIVE PROPER NOTICE.

It amazes me that more than 24 hours had passed before you suddenly decided that there was a need to give me this inaccurate and false M5 legal document threatening eviction after learning of my intent to take an issue in front of the Landlord and Tenant Board.

It also amazes me that I was in fact given over 24 hours of time before I was served with your deliberately inaccurate and false N5 legal document. And yet I could not get that same courtesy in regards to the pest control wanting to come into my unit on back-to-back dates.

You have been nothing but a bully since you enter this building as the superintendent. I want to inform you that I no longer wish for you to seek me out to speak to me anymore. If you wish to speak to me regarding something related to my unit or the building, you need to put it in a letter or email from this point forward. I WILL NOT communicate with you were a paper trail cannot be made and followed.

I have to say that from the moment I met you, I had the strange feeling that you had some kind of issue with me. You asked inappropriate questions, at first you refused to accept my rent on the grounds that you “ were not comfortable “ with taking it, and then the excuse changed to it was “ a liability issue.”

Now there is the issue of and yourself () placing a camera that looks into my unit and takes pictures.

Add this threating and intimidating N5 eviction legal document that is based on information the 3 of you know is deliberately inaccurate and false. Has only strengthened my beliefs that I am being targeted by the 3 of you.

Let me make this very clear for you.

I am not sure why it is that suddenly everyone has taken such a sudden interest in trying to build a case on me and wanting me out of YOUR building. I am not sure if sudden on of you realized I was black, maybe someone realized that my children were mixed, or because I am on Social Assistance.

I mean it could very well be that because my partner is white and that inter-racial relationships are frowned upon by you 3 white people and is not tolerate or welcomed in YOUR building. But I do know that the problem starts with you,.

I have lived here for over a year without ANY issue and suddenly I am having issues with and yourself (). You not wanting to accept my rent, threating me with eviction if I don’t pay my rent via cheques or money order, even after paying with cash since I moved in.

I don’t know if never had the nerve or courage to act upon their hatred for me and my family, and now that the old superintendents are gone and you’re in. Maybe now they have suddenly found themselves the MARTER  that they can rally behind?

Seriously, the 3 of you give me an N5 form that threats me with evictions based on everyone knowing that the information that is to be provided is deliberately inaccurate and false.

By threating to present this deliberately inaccurate and false legal document to the courts as a legal document, you would be acting in bad faith. The N5 that has been presented to me by and you () is at worse misleading. It certainly violates the basic standards of honesty in dealing with others and it would be recognize just as that in any civil lawsuit.

Let us not even start to discuss the issue the serving me with this deliberately inaccurate and false legal document and how it was done purely to be spiteful and, to send me a message that I should not question the actions of the owners or staff of 859 Kennedy Road.

I now would like to address the issue of our past conversation, where you ask my where I was “from?”

I do not appreciate your ignorance and stereotypes in thinking that because I am black that I could not be born in Canada.  I also do not appreciate you asking me if my children were “malado”.

I did not think that I need to explain this to you, but these are terms and questions that are no longer acceptable in society, and the fact that you felt comfortable enough with me to ask these questions after only speaking to me for a brief time. Says to me that you have some form of personal issue that need to be dealt with.

I also found it offensive that you said that you have been an alleged superintendent for 16 years here in Canada.

I am perplexed  as to why you felt the need to include the word “Canada” at the end of your sentence?

I can only guess, were you trying to imply that because I am not white, that I could not have been in Canada for 16 years?

Or is it that you feel that your 16 years in Canada makes you a better person and better qualified to be an alleged superintendent  than someone who was a superintendent abroad?

Maybe you said it because you were an alleged superintendent in Canada for 16 years, so your opinion and views on being a superintendent have more weight and value over someone like myself who was born abroad?

I would like to take this opportunity to inform you. I never had any doubts that you lived and work in Canada. In fact I had absolutely no reason to even question what country you have been alleged a superintendent in.

Apparently you feel that being a superintendent in Canada comes with some kind of Canadian privilege and/or pride attached to it? I guess you could not have just said that you have been a  superintendent 16 years.

If you were a superintendent in Italy, would you have said the same thing?

In speaking with you it appears to me that you are considered yourself a great superintendent because you were born and raised and work your whole life in Canada.

I think at this point in time, I need to clear the air of some misunderstanding the 3 of you have about me.

If anyone of you think that you are going to threaten and try to bully, force and intimidate me and my family to bow down to you and you deliberately inaccurate and false legal document.

You have totally fooled yourselves and miss read me.

Under the Charter of Rights and Freedom, the Criminal Code and the Landlord and Tenant Board.

I have the right to file an application with the Landlord and Tenant Board, and I have the right to do without fear of ANY form of repercussions from ANYONE. I have the right not to fear for my safety or the safety of anyone known by me.

Under section 23 of the act no landlord shall harass, obstruct, coerce, threaten or interfere with a tenant.

and yourself () obviously thought I was just some dumb, uneducated NIGGER who was willing to bow to your servant ways and not challenge your actions in YOUR building.

Let me inform you that Unit # 303 have nothing but pride in ourselves and we all stands very tall with our heads held high.  We don’t bow or serve anyone!

So you can take your deliberately inaccurate and false N5 legal document and shove it up your ass, and I dare you to file it as is!

The 3 of you have now taken your personal ideology towards myself, my family and our color and made it into a personal agenda to make mine and my family’s life as uncomfortable and as  inconvenient as you can.

I am happy to say and I am thankful that I was not raised with some much hatred in my heart towards other races. Hopefully one day you will find God and he will help you heal your feels towards others that don’t look like you.

I have some serious doubts that you, have ever been a superintendent in any building. I would strong suggest to that they do a more thorough background check upon yourself as you have absolutely no idea about the Land Lord Tenant Act and how to interact properly with tenants.

Your attempt to try and bully/force tenants to remove their BBQs off their balconies, and to remove everything that is “none seasonal” , all the while again deliberately quoting misinformation and bylaws to try and reinforced your views  and impose your will on all the tenants of this building.

It appears that me that your signature and pattern of deliberately lying and misquote wrong information to try and prove a point is constant.

and yourself () childish attempts to threaten, harass, intimidate and targeting me, along with every other issues in this letter will be addressed in my application to the Landlord and Tenant Board.

This is the same application that you were trying to intimate me from filing in regards to the cameras looking into mine and other units.

Please do not respond to my email. I do not need for you to try and deny or even try and justify to me that you are not an undercover racist.

I do not need to know that you have black friends, or that you eat and love “Caribbean food” and that you have a “Black Person” in your family that you love or that there is Black in your bloodline. Because I really don’t care!

Letter received August 31, 2016

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